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"Hi I'm Shelly , I have ADHD/ASD and was wondering if other people find sex can be daunting and sometimes awkward due to sensory issues , mind racing and being able to be spontaneous in the moment ? If so do you have any advice or strategies to help ? T.i.a" Do you mean sex with your partner or only daunting when others are involved? | |||
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"I have ASD being spontaneous is sonething I struggle with and I absolutely cannot pickup in signals. It helps that hubby and people I play with will be direct in telling me what they would want and like to do which helps alot." I also struggle with signals, direct communication is important. RSD (rejection sensitive dysphoria) is always moments away. We need all the information to inform our decision making comfortably, otherwise we mask, people please and end up in difficulty. | |||
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"This is really helpful thank you 😊 I also struggle with the exact same things and having the Adhd side I hyper over thinking and focus on the wrong thing , I'm pretty bad at making jokes at all the wrong times " I think the best thing to do in this situation is make anyone your interested in aware of what your like if they are decent people they will understand and help you to have a good time, take it slow at first and see how you go we like your profile ![]() | |||
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