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By *etsEatHer OP Man
4 weeks ago

wembley

Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
4 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Are they??

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By *ude LawMan
4 weeks ago

Harrogate

Because we want to.

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By *odgerMooreMan
4 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?"

Not all are - significant number are though… im here to chat to women and share my biscuits. That’s not a euphemism!!

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By *ednuts101Man
4 weeks ago

Finglas

I can't be arsed myself

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
4 weeks ago

Norwich

Are they? I hadn't noticed. If that was the actual case I thought they might try a bit harder tbh.

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By *eliWoman
4 weeks ago

They're not though are they?

I mean some of them are.

But there are lots of men who aren't desperate and all of that.

They might not share the same taste, still not desperate.

Maybe they like NSA. Clubs. All of that.

Some are desperate.

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By *ndymac888Man
4 weeks ago

Dumbarton

Imagine being born a millionaire, if you want something it’s there, no real effort involved you had the craving and you made it so, craving satisfied.

Now if you were poor you would have to live with the craving or go to extreme lengths to satisfy it and even then fall short.

It’s not a perfect example obviously but the wealthy are always confused at the lengths poor people go to for what they deem as insignificant.

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By *etsEatHer OP Man
4 weeks ago

wembley

To the women commenting that they aren’t please can you tell me how many unanswered messages you have of vile/pointless messages

Oh and whats your block list look like?

I currently have 47 unread

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By *lashman the ThirdMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?"

Correction

Why are some* men on here so desperate for any and everything?

Because it’s a free sex site and some men have high degrees of loneliness, insecurity, ill luck..etc , its also rather tacit OP.

I personally don’t mind it when a guy messaged or compliments me, just be respectful.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

They aren't. Well some are but they're pretty easy to spot and not as prolific as people seem to think

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By *oomerangboyMan
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Speak for yourself!! Like to think I have a good standard

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By *aughtynice78Man
4 weeks ago

Telford

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?

Correction

Why are some* men on here so desperate for any and everything?

Because it’s a free sex site and some men have high degrees of loneliness, insecurity, ill luck..etc , its also rather tacit OP.

I personally don’t mind it when a guy messaged or compliments me, just be respectful. "

This

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By *eneralKenobiMan
4 weeks ago

North Angus

I’m too lazy to be desperate

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
4 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?

Not all are - significant number are though… im here to chat to women and share my biscuits. That’s not a euphemism!!

Now if you had said cake....😉

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?

Not all are - significant number are though… im here to chat to women and share my biscuits. That’s not a euphemism!!

Now if you had said cake....😉"

I’m here for cake…but not with cream on or in it

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends

I’m not going to pedantic. As a whole they are. I agree with the OP. As to why, I think they’re just desperate for sex and physical connection of any kind.

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
4 weeks ago

newcastle

A comedian once said a woman makes up her mind if she will sleep with him in 30 seconds. A man decides before the date even happens and it's always Yes xx

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By *issmorganWoman
4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Some men op, not all men.

Some couples are too and prubably some women.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends

Caping for men even though you knew what the OP meant. Interesting.

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By *issmorganWoman
4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"To the women commenting that they aren’t please can you tell me how many unanswered messages you have of vile/pointless messages

Oh and whats your block list look like?

I currently have 47 unread"

I use filters to control my mail, anyone can do the same.It makes fab much better,I have one unread message.

My block list is High, but I block for lots of reasons and it's not just men on it.

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By *ub with a ChubbMan
4 weeks ago

Southwest & Cork City

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?"

That's quite the generalisation isn't it... You've had an encounter with all single guys to support this statement I'm assuming?!

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
4 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

Some men are like that any hole

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Are they?

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By *otsossieMan
4 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?"

Because they assume it’s an absolute free for all.

And it is, if you like cock.

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Imagine being born a millionaire, if you want something it’s there, no real effort involved you had the craving and you made it so, craving satisfied.

Now if you were poor you would have to live with the craving or go to extreme lengths to satisfy it and even then fall short.

It’s not a perfect example obviously but the wealthy are always confused at the lengths poor people go to for what they deem as insignificant."

That’s actually not a bad example because for a lot of guys their sexual needs are a strong almost as physical needs like food.

A lot of people are unfulfilled and feel powerless to make the changes needed to get what they want , their lives haven’t turned out how they hoped and they don’t know what to do to correct the situation other than react. Places like this pull them and tease them and give them hope….

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
4 weeks ago

Someplace

They're everywhere. It's an epidemic

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By *he OpalsnakeMan
4 weeks ago

Thirsk

"Because we want to.

Because we want to."

I have to applaud the consistency of this response 👏 😂🤣

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By *ucka39Man
4 weeks ago

Newcastle

Because they can just like some men decide not to

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By *imbob85Man
4 weeks ago

inverness

Not all of us are

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By *uckurcumMan
4 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

I'd say many have over imaginative minds,they might talk the talk,but certainly many can't walk the walk !

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By *rPunxMan
4 weeks ago

Hull

I'm actually quite picky and have turned down meets. So not 'all men'

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By *ggdrasil66Man
4 weeks ago

Saltdean

Desperate, but not serious!

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

One guy here's not desperate for just anyone .

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

Yip, absolutely.

They have one tracked minds....

Chocolate, chocolate, chocolate

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By *kivi Bi MaleMan
4 weeks ago

North Shields

We're all on here, for the same thing, alas some of us have partners. But, this is a dating/sex site. So if you're not happy, leave and let us get on with it!

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
4 weeks ago

Bolton

I think men hear about this site and automatically think “sexfest” and join, they then think it’s going to be sex on tap and they are like a kid in a sweet shop and act that way, but they soon realise it’s not like that and reality kicks in

Mrs

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"I think men hear about this site and automatically think “sexfest” and join, they then think it’s going to be sex on tap and they are like a kid in a sweet shop and act that way, but they soon realise it’s not like that and reality kicks in

Mrs "

And then they spit their dummy out,

Throw teddy out the cot

And

Get stroppy.

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By *kogMan
4 weeks ago

Dunstable

I’ll say people judge too fast !!

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
4 weeks ago

Bolton

Mrs

And then they spit their dummy out,

Throw teddy out the cot

And

Get stroppy.

Very true

Mrs

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

Im too old for that shit.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
4 weeks ago

belfast

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?"

You tell us.

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By *hrills and adventureMan
4 weeks ago

Winchester

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?"

Not all men are, I'm definitely not. If I'm lucky enough to meet someone where there is a mutual attraction, all well and good. In the meantime though, I'm more that happy perusing the forums and chatting to a couple of people I know in the chat rooms.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
4 weeks ago

Hatfield

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?"

Why are men such generalists and prone to making sweeping statements?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"some"single men. Some lovely guys on here

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London

There's a couple of men on here I'd love to be desperate enough to want sex with a fat, ugly, desperate old woman.

Might be me. Might not.

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

""some"single men. Some lovely guys on here"

Hello darling, fancy a.......

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

little house on the praire

""some"single men. Some lovely guys on here

Hello darling, fancy a.......

"
Gin and lemonade? Yes please

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

""some"single men. Some lovely guys on here

Hello darling, fancy a.......

Gin and lemonade? Yes please

Of course

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

Do you include yourself in that op?

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By *one_maverickMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

We are?... I know I'm definitely not haha

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
4 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?

Not all are - significant number are though… im here to chat to women and share my biscuits. That’s not a euphemism!!

You have biscuits?!

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

"Are they??"

No, but how else are people going to see how awesome the OP is while he puts other guys down?

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton

Wow talk about a bait thread 🤣

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By *hunky GentMan
4 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"Wow talk about a bait thread 🤣"

BOOM. 😆

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
4 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

That’s just me 🤷🏽‍♂️

I fuck like it’s for survival

Like it’s the last drop of water I’m ever gonna have 😆

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By *urry BlokeMan
4 weeks ago

I assume the OP isn't including himself in this side swipe?

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By *avenNightsMan
4 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Bourbon biscuit anyone?

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By *r Light YearMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton

"Imagine being born a millionaire, if you want something it’s there, no real effort involved you had the craving and you made it so, craving satisfied.

Now if you were poor you would have to live with the craving or go to extreme lengths to satisfy it and even then fall short.

It’s not a perfect example obviously but the wealthy are always confused at the lengths poor people go to for what they deem as insignificant.

That’s actually not a bad example because for a lot of guys their sexual needs are a strong almost as physical needs like food.

This, both the original wealthy/poor analogy, and the follow up point.

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By *andering_welshman2025Man
4 weeks ago

KIRKBY

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?"

I’m the epitome of desperation 😬😬

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

For the tens of thousands of men here, I don't see it as a reliable general description of them.

There are a fair few who are clueless but they will exhibit the same behaviour wherever they are. Fab is an open site and anyone can ultimately find us. Perhaps we're lucky that it's not worse

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By *rSuave88Man
4 weeks ago

Mirfield

OP as a 'straight' guy.. why are you on the lookout for TVs?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Chichester

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?"

Because why not I guess. Anything is better than despunking alone I imagine

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By *onertoneMan
4 weeks ago

Eastbourne

"Why are single men on here so desperate for any and everything?

Correction

Why are some* men on here so desperate for any and everything?

Because it’s a free sex site and some men have high degrees of loneliness, insecurity, ill luck..etc , its also rather tacit OP.

I personally don’t mind it when a guy messaged or compliments me, just be respectful.

This

Ditto

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By *ittleLiaisonsWoman
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Did somebody say just eatttt

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