FabSwingers.com forum: Why so serious

By *histle79 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Guildford

Do you think people on here take themselves (and the site) a little too seriously?

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By *etsEatHerMan
3 weeks ago

wembley

To an extent yes and ive noticed this site is full of people who want better in someone else remaining to be lazy dry bores

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
3 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I think people are entitled to take themselves and the site as seriously or as jokingly as they want to, given that everyone (theoretically) has free choice over how to live their lives without judgement from others.

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By *ude LawMan
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

Because we want to.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
3 weeks ago

North Angus

Absolutely

Thankfully I still have some nonsensical whimsy left in me

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By *etsEatHerMan
3 weeks ago

wembley

I feel thats where society then starts to decline when one can apply anything to specific things also i believe that gives room for deep deceptions and corruption

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 weeks ago

Halloween Town, Dudleyish.

We dont. It puts alot of people off infact.

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By *ndymac888Man
3 weeks ago

Dumbarton

There has to be some level of seriousness before you let someone have access to your body.

But it’s a bit further down the line than in initial messages, I get a bit confused when I get a message out the blue and it’s someone looking to start of a dynamic straight away lol.

I’m not a serious person a lot of the time and would rather early messages were a bit more playful.

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By *lasgowPandaMan
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

Being on fab is a full time job for some.

I think some take themselves too seriously, particularly when they forget the probably got a fingerblasting behind Tesco as a teenager.

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By *ideshaft1971Man
3 weeks ago

Midlands

"Being on fab is a full time job for some.

I think some take themselves too seriously, particularly when they forget the probably got a fingerblasting behind Tesco as a teenager."

Surely we are all here for just one thing, chat, be horny and enjoy it

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Some do, some don't 🤷🏻‍♀️ it's all a bit subjective isn't it

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
3 weeks ago

newcastle

Lots of wannabes most would be useless. No shows. To be honest most good men are taken and if there cheats you don't want to know! I got lucky and I want to stay that way. Some play lots partners and I have friends that do. I just don't approve xx

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By *hickthighs25Woman
3 weeks ago

Stockton

"Because we want to.

Because we want to."

Why you gotta play that song so loud?

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

The (arduous) quest to find the most perfect paramours on here is serious business (for me). If I'm looking to flirt, to woo, to beguile and to seduce... I'm guilty as charged.

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By *ude LawMan
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Because we want to.

Because we want to.

Why you gotta play that song so loud?"

No idea.

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
3 weeks ago

Norwich

I must admit when I first came on here I didn't take it at all seriously. However the way people interact with each other has changed since then. I'm talking in the last 10 years.

Now for self preservation I am more guarded and tolerate much less as there are so many time wasters and fake profiles on here aswell as such disrespect.

I really love having nice conversations still but I'm definitely more serious and less fun than I used to be.

If men respected my preference and let me be, I would be more fun like I used to be.

Also the downright gross and disrespectful messages you get are so jarring that it does stop me being as friendly as I once was.

I feel sad now.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
3 weeks ago

Basingstoke

"Being on fab is a full time job for some.

I think some take themselves too seriously, particularly when they forget the probably got a fingerblasting behind Tesco as a teenager.

Surely we are all here for just one thing, chat, be horny and enjoy it"

To be pedantic, that's two things. Three of you count enjoyment separately.

But that's your experience/requirements for being on Fab. Not everyone lives in your brain and experiences your needs or life.

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By *ellinever70Woman
3 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Yes

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Depends what you consider as too serious really.

I don't think people who are concerned about protecting their privacy and safety are being more serious than they believe is necessary. I don't think people who are selective about who they meet are being too serious.

I do think the guy who was off on a rant at me about blue ticks and how I obviously don't know how to build credibility on fab was taking it all considerably more seriously than me. But that doesn't mean it was too serious for him.

People can take the site as seriously as they like. If we're violently mismatched on energy then we won't connect with each other. But there'll be other people on our wavelength somewhere along the line 💜

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By *rSircumsizedMan
3 weeks ago

Risca

Yep, there are a few people on here who weren't gifted with a sense of humour at birth.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
3 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

Definitely

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
3 weeks ago

from mars

100%… too many oracles of fuckin wisdom ….

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By *peedyGMan
3 weeks ago

Telford

Yes some do, I just like to join in with the fun threads and have a laugh.

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By *rSircumsizedMan
3 weeks ago

Risca

"Yes some do, I just like to join in with the fun threads and have a laugh. "

As most of us do. But there'll always be someone with a stick up their arse taking everything out of context, hell-bent on causing an argument.

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By *peedyGMan
3 weeks ago

Telford

"Yes some do, I just like to join in with the fun threads and have a laugh.

As most of us do. But there'll always be someone with a stick up their arse taking everything out of context, hell-bent on causing an argument."

I totally agree with you pal

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By *YDB75Man
3 weeks ago

Beverley

Yes Absolutely they say the want fun and like banter and a chat etc etc.

then as soon as you drop some banter they get all hurt and bum sore

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
3 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Do you think people on here take themselves (and the site) a little too seriously? "

Fuck yes!

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