FabSwingers.com forum: What instantly ended an encounter for you?

By *hatsthestatus OP Man
4 weeks ago

Bexley

How bad was it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

It didn't end it because we were in a restaurant having booked a table but the guy of the couple having been introduced to me didn't shake my hand or kiss my cheek but held me away from him, looked me up and down like prize cattle and said something along the lines of "you'll do". I knew in that instant that things would never go any further.

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By *carlettsWoman
4 weeks ago

Harpenden

Ran over to my car before it had even stopped and opened the door mid stop thrusted flowers in my face. Slightly too much excitement!

I did continue a little longer in (I'm a nice person! until it became apparent in the cafe that I was in fact on a social with a perverted mister tickle!!

Hands everywhere

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By *hatsthestatus OP Man
4 weeks ago

Bexley

"It didn't end it because we were in a restaurant having booked a table but the guy of the couple having been introduced to me didn't shake my hand or kiss my cheek but held me away from him, looked me up and down like prize cattle and said something along the lines of "you'll do". I knew in that instant that things would never go any further. "

Jesus Christ! What an arsehole

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By *hatsthestatus OP Man
4 weeks ago

Bexley

"Ran over to my car before it had even stopped and opened the door mid stop thrusted flowers in my face. Slightly too much excitement!

I did continue a little longer in (I'm a nice person! until it became apparent in the cafe that I was in fact on a social with a perverted mister tickle!!

Hands everywhere

Oh god, definitely not a good start

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

Jesus Christ! What an arsehole"

My sentiments exactly. Meanwhile as we ate his partner regaled Mr N with the details of how she cleaned inside her vagina daily while in the shower and that every woman should do this.

How we laughed on the way home

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By *hatsthestatus OP Man
4 weeks ago

Bexley

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And people wonder why they have no luck

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By *oodoodMan
4 weeks ago

Suffolkish

Black teeth from smoking and I'm not exaggerating

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By *imply_SensualMan
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

The woman in the flesh looked nothing like her pictures, either the pictures were old or fake.

We had agreed to meet for a drink as a social, but I didnt even go into the pub with her. I felt deceived and told her so, and because I didnt go for the drink, she had the cheek to say I had wasted her time!

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

West Midlands

Posted this before but this was strange and off-putting one:

We spoke online for awhile and agreed to meet a guy at a hotel and was a nice sunny day so got to the car park and messaged here and he said he was on an outside terrace bar area and we could walk and meet and then go to the room. we'd swapped face pics so would mutually recognise . So we walked across and were floored to see the guy waving with left hand and right arm in a rigid cast and evidence of cuts and bruising on forehead and face . So we sat and had a drink and explained oh I had an accident mountain biking but didn't want to let you down and work have paid for me to come by train and use taxis as I've done something to elbow and shoulder , I think I should be fine but might need to be a bit less strenuous. The looks on our faces said it all, we said no not happening . Left it amicable but wow was not a great surprise

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By *ddie7XXXMan
4 weeks ago

wigan

When the person come to my hotel when I was working in London been chatting for some time she text me saying she was here at the bar so want to buy a bottle of wine and she was a completely different person from the photos she had been sending not even close or old pictures and different person altogether

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By *ideshaft1971Man
4 weeks ago

Midlands

"Posted this before but this was strange and off-putting one:

Omg, what a disappointment

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By *viatrixWoman
4 weeks ago

Redhill

Heavy smoker’s breath. He didn’t even bother to brush his teeth before seeing me. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 the whoke place stank of stale smoke…

I am retching just remembering… 🤮🤮🤮🤮

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By *oomerangboyMan
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

They turn up looking 20 years older than I was lead to believe, zero effort in appearance, I was polite finished my coffee and made my excuses x

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Despite having made it very clear that it was social, kept dropping hints about getting a hotel. When I politely kissed him goodbye and shook his hand, he grabbed my tits. This resulted in him being arm locked and slammed into the bonnet of his car. (Automatic reaction)

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

When I was meeting as a couple we visited another couple at their house, they said shall we have Chinese? So me and the fella went to pick it up, I had to pay as he never offered, got back, ate the Chinese and said right, I will sit here and you go in the other room with my wife and shag here and your wife and I will just sit here and listen! Nope, we were off

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By *NormalMan01Man
4 weeks ago

Harrogate

Well, just disrespect for boundaries stops things pretty quickly, tbh.

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

The punch in the face was a bit of a shock so I got dressed to leave at that point.

She apologised and confessed to not having mentioned her kink of having me retaliate because she thought I might not turn up. She promised to behave and it wouldn't happen again.

An hour later as I walked out of the bathroom she drove her knee into my balls.

I left at that point despite having paid for the room and left the site 2 days later thinking everyone was like that.

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By *ADYSECRET OF KENTWoman
4 weeks ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Continuous lies. Nonattentive,

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By *odgerMooreMan
4 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

A lack of hygiene .. im not going into detail as even the memory makes me

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By *hatsthestatus OP Man
4 weeks ago

Bexley

For me, it started as a social, was never meant to be anything more. When I told her that I only do social meets first before arranging a second meet she started making a scene in the coffee shop we were in. It was just embarrassing, I got up and left almost instantaneously and blocked her

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By *issmorganWoman
4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

He turned up for a social in a saggy tracksuit.

This was years ago, he'd claimed to be early 40s and looked late 50s at least and like a smoker (he'd said none smoker).

I asked him how old he was and he admitted he was 57!.

I was 39 ish then, it obviously went no further. I can't do with liars & how he thought I wouldn't notice is beyond me.

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By *ittyRoseWoman
4 weeks ago

Baldock

I was due to meet a guy after work for dinner. He called me at 4 to say he couldn't make it as he had to go back to prison

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
4 weeks ago

Norwich

Oh my only story is the same as many I should imagine just no chemistry or I had a feeling in my gut that this guy is not right for me.

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not instantly, but I was having lovely sex with a gorgeous Arabic hot wife while her husband was banging my partner in the other room.

She insisted I come all over her face and it went in her eye and just killed the whole night.

She sat around for the next 30 minutes with tissues and then a bowl of water and a flannel. Husband was trying to help her. She was convinced there was something in her eye still.

I really wanted round two , she was absolutely stunning and I wanted more but it totally killed the vibe. After an hour, she and her partner left.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
4 weeks ago

Beverley

The smell of the house was so thick in smoke, it immediately lived in my skin. She was also such a lementer who revelled in self pity. Itbwas the most one sided, whiney, victim-driven ten minute conversation I've ever had in my life, followed by a profound nod after each and every miserable fucking bombshell.

We had literally just exchanged a few messages and arranged to go to a cafe near hers. She then made some terrible excuse for not being able to get there in time, and said just come to mine instead, so I did. It didn't take more than a few seconds to realise she just couldn't be arsed to get changed.

About ten mins into it a got a random WhatsApp group message and said it was work. I felt no shame in that, either.

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By *weetWithATw1stWoman
4 weeks ago

MiddleofMyStreet

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By *weetWithATw1stWoman
4 weeks ago

MiddleofMyStreet

Excuses of why couldnt put a rubber on

*i forgot... im allergic... cant cum with one one.... im too big/small for it... (heard this so many times i boot them out the door)...

had one guy who didnt look anything like his pics and i told him as much... xx

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By *hesubtlegentMan
4 weeks ago

surrey

Was making out with woman I’d met, she said she liked it rough so I tweaked her nipples. Wasn’t hard but she shrieked like I’d torn them off and said I was too rough. I apologised immediately but she was flinching every time I caressed her boobs so was a bit off putting. But the killer was when she called me daddy as I was rolling on a condom… made my cock shrink right into my nuts.. took her home there and then. Didn’t see her again…

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By *de81Man
4 weeks ago

Hitchin

Went to toilet and came back to find her being mean to my lovely little 15 year old cat. Should have picked up on it by how rude she'd been to a waiter earlier in the evening!

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

- Misleading pictures

- Grotty house

- Stank of skunk 🦨

- Poor hygiene

- Crap ball control

- Had a lot on my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Where do I start oh dear me.

Went on a social with a young man I did preface beforehand I prefer all shaven he assured me he is shaven where it matters.

When we’d been on the social all good we had a little kissing session I decided to slip my hand down his grey joggers lo and behold it was the Amazon jungle and it smelt of stale wee.

I immediately withdrew my tainted hand I told him off for lying he again assured me he would be shaven for sex meet.

Then icing on the cake our vehicle was blocked in by some gangsters who mistook the young man for someone else, that was terrifying. Thankfully they left once they realised it was mistaken identity suffice to say I never met him again.

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By *rucking-HellMan
4 weeks ago

Northampton

I saw her feet.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
4 weeks ago

Durham

Although a pleasant enough person they didn’t have the best personal hygiene so it was make my excuses then off to my car.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
4 weeks ago

Ayrshire

She had a bigger cock than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Brown smokers teeth , I’m outta here !!!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
4 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Turned up wearing a Tottenham shirt.

Nope 👎

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By *ools and the brainCouple
4 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Met a guy at a pub, sitting waiting for him to arrive when this chap rocks up on a push bike that must have been 50 years old.

He started saying his friend had borrowed his car and not told him 🤷.

Then despite him saying he had his own place he then said he needed to be careful incase he gets spotted as he lives at home with his mum who was Also the local vicar, so he had basically slid down in the seat almost hiding under the table.

After an hour of difficult conversation we decided to leave,he then chased us down asking if we could give him a lift to the end of his road and could we put the bike in the back of our car 🧐🖕

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By *uckslut and MCouple
4 weeks ago

Derby

He flopped his dick out, and said " don't make me cum, I'm meeting my girlfreind later".

Game over I was not his fluffer.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
4 weeks ago

Coventry

Some guys sex talk. Sometimes it's so cringy and off putting. That has ended it before. Not necessarily instantly as we mentioned it. But when it carries on that ends it. Simply because their sex talk doesn't work for us and it kills the vibe.

Not that there anything wrong with how anyone gets down. Just it doesn't work for us and like anything else if they carry on with it we can't carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I had a social arranged with possible sex after. The bloke turned up in trainers and a peculiar hat,he looked nothing whatsoever like his photo, I turned around and went to the firework display instead...

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
4 weeks ago

Southport

"Despite having made it very clear that it was social, kept dropping hints about getting a hotel. When I politely kissed him goodbye and shook his hand, he grabbed my tits. This resulted in him being arm locked and slammed into the bonnet of his car. (Automatic reaction)

What an arsehole

But good on you, he had it coming

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By *omad77Man
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

I turned up to a social and she was already d*unk, made sure she was ok, drove her to her place to make she got there safely, walked her to her front door and then I turned back and went home, got a message the next day and she asked why we didn't do anything, im not a creep thats why

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By *iking_WitchWoman
4 weeks ago

Hinckley

They need to actually show up!! I get stood up so many times. They all talk the talk but when it comes down to meeting me. They bottle it.

I once was sat in a pub car park waiting for a date so we could go for a social drink. He was running late, that's fine. Then he was running late and going to park in the industrial estate opposite and walk over. Bit weird. It then ended with me trying to talk this guy out of having a full on panic attack. He apologised the next day and then left the site because he was embarrassed he was so weak when it came to it.

He was so nice to talk to. I was genuinely gutted.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Horsham

I finally got to meeet up with a woman, I had been chatting to for a while. Only for to blow it by getting racist, about the kids in her childs school.

Another one, wouldn't abide by the terms of the meet up. I told him no cumming in my mouth, he said okay to it when chatting, but wanted me to swallow his cum when we met.

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By *enelope2UWoman
4 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Pictures didn't match their alleged age.. conversation didn't match their alleged keyboard lies..overall just a liar and waste of energy

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By *enelope2UWoman
4 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"They need to actually show up!! I get stood up so many times. They all talk the talk but when it comes down to meeting me. They bottle it.

He was so nice to talk to. I was genuinely gutted. "

Omg soooooo often this happens..

I used to post the excuses because it got well, it is actually still this bad in here..or they expect you to fuck them on site unseen!!!!

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By *enda83Man
4 weeks ago

newcastle

Was told they were and avid gym goer and “everything was slim and toned just a little bit to loose on the belly” reality was the belly was massive and everywhere else was what wouldn’t be described as slim and toned, made my excuses and left was blocked by time I got home haha

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By *issmorganWoman
4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Met a guy at a pub, sitting waiting for him to arrive when this chap rocks up on a push bike that must have been 50 years old.

He started saying his friend had borrowed his car and not told him 🤷.

After an hour of difficult conversation we decided to leave,he then chased us down asking if we could give him a lift to the end of his road and could we put the bike in the back of our car 🧐🖕"

Sorry, I shouldn't laugh but

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

from mars

Some of these are hilarious 😂

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
4 weeks ago

Ilford

Even though it was established that it was supposed to be no strings, on our first social, she kept talking about how controlling her other half was and the only reason she is looking elsewhere is because he can't get an erection anymore and isn't interested in her. Later on in the evening she got really dr**k and got really clingy and was talking about if we got on well enough we could find ourselves in a relationship down the road. I politely called it a night and told her that I think she needs to get her life in order instead of looking for hookups. The lady then got angry with me saying how it was me that was interested in her first and that I wasted her time, it didn't end well. I think I dodged a bullet.

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By *lueDressWoman
4 weeks ago

Bath

During the initial first meet, discussed things without using any obvious words over lunch. Then sat in the car. Then they opened up. And I left. They were mentioning things that I had no intention of doing.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
4 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

*One girl had hair around the nipples 😳 I walked!

*I don’t know whether this one girl had bladder issues but…🌊🤿 I walked!

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By *artnersincrime5599Couple
4 weeks ago

Plymouth

"Went to toilet and came back to find her being mean to my lovely little 15 year old cat. Should have picked up on it by how rude she'd been to a waiter earlier in the evening!"

Both, unforgivable....but the cat most of all....

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