FabSwingers.com forum: Dick pic or no dick pic

By *upidstunt1975 OP Man
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

So many women on here say they do t like dick picks. Should we have them on our profiles?

What if it's just a neat size?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
3 weeks ago

Norwich

A lot of people dislike the as avatars. I don't think one decent dick pic amongst other good pics does any harm.

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By *vaRoseWoman
3 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

My preference is one or two amongst a good gallery of other photos…. Bonus points if there is a dick pic that makes me laugh

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By *hatgingerguyMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Just one decent one is enough, no matter how neat it is. And not just a closeup of a meat stick, show body

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
3 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

A couple decent dick pics amongst a few other non dick pics are fine.

Just keep them out of inboxes unless asked.

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
3 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

A dick pic or two is not an issue… good to have at least one amongst other pics, but having them as your avatar or 20 same shit dick pics is unnecessary.

Same for women who have 20 cream pie/vulva pics…or her “spread” as her avatar

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By *lcherasDreamTimeCouple
3 weeks ago

Manchester

One or a small amount (2 or 3) is fine but mix it up a bit, we're not quite as easily pleased, as simple or as animalistic as most men and need some variety to tickle our fancy, not just different angles of the same cock, it gets a bit "meh" no matter how impressive of a cock it may be.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
3 weeks ago

Altrincham

I don't like the dickpic avatars, that puts me off straight away and I don't like loads of public dickpics, the odd one or two yes but if the profile is mostly photos of their cock I stop looking and won't even read the bio

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By *eachbums40Couple
3 weeks ago

Midlands

"So many women on here say they do t like dick picks. Should we have them on our profiles?

What if it's just a neat size?"

Have what you want, but accept that it will put many people off.

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By *nquisitive LadyWoman
3 weeks ago

Midlands

Somethings look better in reality than in photographs

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

Err on the side of caution and don't send. They will ask if they want to see it.

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By *oiluvfunMan
3 weeks ago

Penrith

"So many women on here say they do t like dick picks. Should we have them on our profiles?

What if it's just a neat size?"

I’ve been chatting with a local lady in here for several weeks now, and although our chats have been good, and friendly, we’ve not met because she’s stated her vanilla life is just too busy, she doesn’t have time spare.

Now she has posted a veri from another guy, who has only been on the site one week, and has a profile full of dick pics, with one full length fully dressed shot. Dick pics appear to work for some guys it seems…..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

Do you want to attract the kind of women who like dick pictures?

If yes display at least one.

If no do not display.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

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By *ikesEmBigMan
3 weeks ago

Bromley

Oh well

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't like dick pics direct to my inbox, and I don't like dick pic avatars as it means it's the first thing I see on a message.

A dick pic or two in the gallery, absolutely fine. If I'm in there I've gone looking for more of the person.

Some people want dick pics up front. Some don't. You will never please everyone. And if you focus on pleasing the largest group regardless of whether they're people you're actually compatible with then you might feel less rejected, but you won't be putting out the signs of who you actually are or demonstrating compatibility to those you're actually compatible with.

You do you OP 💜

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
3 weeks ago

West Suffolk

I think when women say they don’t like dick pics, it’s mainly the unsolicited ones sent by message that they are referring to. I also think that having just a dick pic as your only photo says a lot about that person, rightly or wrongly. We’re all making snap judgments based on very little information a lot of the time.

As has been said, nothing wrong with having a dick pic on your profile if it’s part of a selection of photos. Having lots of similar or identical photos can be annoying. You even see the same photo uploaded multiple times.

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By *exyInLatinMan
3 weeks ago

Warsop

I think it’s nice to leave something to the imagination and leave a bit of anticipation

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I think there's a difference between having one or 2 cock pics on a profile, with a mix of others.

Than just having cock pics on your profile and no other pics.

If all i can see is a dick, that profile won't be for me,as I won't be able to gauge any attraction from just a penis.

You'll never please all op though & it's your profile.just use your common sense & try to think about what those you're trying to attract would want to see.

As long as you don't send them in messages, that's fine.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
3 weeks ago

Norwich

I just looked at a profile which had 15 separate dick pics and nothing else.

I just did not understand why?

One or two dick pics are fine if they are mixed with other photos.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I just looked at a profile which had 15 separate dick pics and nothing else.

I just did not understand why?

One or two dick pics are fine if they are mixed with other photos. "

I was chatting to a man who had nothing but dick pics. He said the thought of people looking at them turned him on.

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By *avexxMan
3 weeks ago

cheshire

i would never have one as a profile picture

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"I just looked at a profile which had 15 separate dick pics and nothing else.

I just did not understand why?

One or two dick pics are fine if they are mixed with other photos. "

I saw one with 109 pics, 108 were his cock. I should have stopped looking, but I wanted to see if any weren't just his penis.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
3 weeks ago

Brum

"I just looked at a profile which had 15 separate dick pics and nothing else.

I just did not understand why?

One or two dick pics are fine if they are mixed with other photos.

I saw one with 109 pics, 108 were his cock. I should have stopped looking, but I wanted to see if any weren't just his penis. "

Come on, you have to tell us what the 1 was of!

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By *ude LawMan
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

"I just looked at a profile which had 15 separate dick pics and nothing else.

I just did not understand why?

One or two dick pics are fine if they are mixed with other photos.

I saw one with 109 pics, 108 were his cock. I should have stopped looking, but I wanted to see if any weren't just his penis.

Come on, you have to tell us what the 1 was of!"

Your cock.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
3 weeks ago

Gloucester

IF (please note thats a big IF) I get to the point of considering a meet with a guy I will ask his size. I am more interested in someone as a person than what’s in his trousers, the only reason I ask size it i am not interested in big dicks (personality or literal)

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By *atty CoramWoman
3 weeks ago

Wimbledon

"I just looked at a profile which had 15 separate dick pics and nothing else.

I just did not understand why?

One or two dick pics are fine if they are mixed with other photos.

I saw one with 109 pics, 108 were his cock. I should have stopped looking, but I wanted to see if any weren't just his penis. "

and considering this is probably a fraction of the pictures he has taken.. he must have thousands.

Imagine spending hours of your life taking pictures of your genitals..... these people must be in some sort of dicktrance....

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By *riel13Woman
3 weeks ago

Northampton

I don't really want to see dicks that belong to randoms

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
3 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Do you want to attract the kind of women who like dick pictures?

If yes display at least one.

If no do not display. "

Absolutely love this reply! 🥰

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By *ideshaft1971Man
3 weeks ago

Midlands

I prefer not too but add one for the lovers

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By *ora the explorerWoman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Do you want to attract the kind of women who like dick pictures?

If yes display at least one.

If no do not display. "

Bang on

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"I just looked at a profile which had 15 separate dick pics and nothing else.

I just did not understand why?

One or two dick pics are fine if they are mixed with other photos.

I saw one with 109 pics, 108 were his cock. I should have stopped looking, but I wanted to see if any weren't just his penis.

Come on, you have to tell us what the 1 was of!"

The non dick pic, was an eye

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By *TogMan
3 weeks ago

SE London

Have considered taking/posting some, maybe just to friends only. But for time being I think I'm happier doing hard-on under tight/see through underwear.

Like the potential/let the imagination do the rest.

On the flip side : straight on vag etc shots do nothing for me. Much prefer inside underwear or behind a hand or toy.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

What pics do women really want to see?

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"I just looked at a profile which had 15 separate dick pics and nothing else.

I just did not understand why?

One or two dick pics are fine if they are mixed with other photos.

I saw one with 109 pics, 108 were his cock. I should have stopped looking, but I wanted to see if any weren't just his penis.

and considering this is probably a fraction of the pictures he has taken.. he must have thousands.

Imagine spending hours of your life taking pictures of your genitals..... these people must be in some sort of dicktrance....

You would easily put someone in a dick trace to be fair.

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By *TogMan
3 weeks ago

SE London

"What pics do women really want to see? "

Had thought to ask this question.

I imagine abs might be high on the list but mine aren't visible!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"What pics do women really want to see? "

A tease. Enough to know if we consider the person generally physically attractive.

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By *sTiqueWoman
3 weeks ago

Ilkley

"What pics do women really want to see?

A tease. Enough to know if we consider the person generally physically attractive."

Exactly this - there are endless threads on here about 'good' profile and other pic's (from the female perspective) and they all mention a bit of a tease, rather than an in your face hard-on.

Depending on what mood I'm in I go straight past the dick pic as profile, tho if it's accompanied by a more creative opener (not like 'ur so hot bby' or 'hi hows u') then some people do get past the filter....

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By *hris 1000200Man
3 weeks ago

kells

My public photos don't feature any cock pics ,but do give ,I feel ,a overall view of my physical appearance, not for everyone I know ,,but you never know ..T he more saucy pis are in friends photos

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By *rs GGWoman
3 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Personally, I hate them as profile pics. I don't mind one or two in a profile. I need to know the size, too big and there's no point wasting my time chatting.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chatham

I don't care if you have dick pics on your profile, because if I want to see them I can go look. Or if I look I understand I'm on a sexual site and those sort of pics are par for the course.

What I with is them in my inbox, there is no need, in my mind when I check my inbox I don't expect penises.

That's not to say the profile picture, I don't often even look at that lol.

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By *hunky GentMan
3 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"i would never have one as a profile picture"

Amen to that.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

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By *iaisonseekerMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

As a naturist, my chap is on display in most of my pics but only fully engorged in a couple.

I think it's important to periodically post a recent pic of my erect cock as reassurance to the women of Fab that he remains the thrusting, upright citizen they love so much

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By *un couple 2Couple
3 weeks ago

Tynemouth.

Yes its always good to see what is on offer.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Have one in your pics then people can choose to look or not.

As a profile pic I wouldn't respond.

Mrs

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