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"There will always be a risk of STDs unless someone abstains from sex for 3-4 months, then tests, then plays with you. I may be wrong but I’m sure the longest window is like 3-4 months? I’ve only bottomed for one person in my life, when I was in my very early 20s. Fond memories, I miss the guy, and I have never done it again. I never trusted anyone else in that way. I also felt sexy as a bottom then being gym fit, I used to be waxed smooth, etc. I don’t think I’d feel sexy as a bottom now. We started off safe for the first two meets then went BB several times. Physically it felt no different to me to be honest. Emotionally it was a bit of a thrill the first time, as with trying anything new. Your post makes me wonder if you’d like to save that for a romantic partner you can have more of an emotional connection with during sex?" That was always the plan deep down and growing up then I just became a bit of a slag and it’s my last defence or thing I’ve clung onto lol I don’t see a relationship happening anytime soon and I’m not getting any younger | |||
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"There will always be a risk of STDs unless someone abstains from sex for 3-4 months, then tests, then plays with you. I may be wrong but I’m sure the longest window is like 3-4 months? I’ve only bottomed for one person in my life, when I was in my very early 20s. Fond memories, I miss the guy, and I have never done it again. I never trusted anyone else in that way. I also felt sexy as a bottom then being gym fit, I used to be waxed smooth, etc. I don’t think I’d feel sexy as a bottom now. We started off safe for the first two meets then went BB several times. Physically it felt no different to me to be honest. Emotionally it was a bit of a thrill the first time, as with trying anything new. Your post makes me wonder if you’d like to save that for a romantic partner you can have more of an emotional connection with during sex? That was always the plan deep down and growing up then I just became a bit of a slag and it’s my last defence or thing I’ve clung onto lol I don’t see a relationship happening anytime soon and I’m not getting any younger " I understand that. It may be worth waiting if it means a lot to you, but I get that you feel pressured to rush. Whatever you choose, I hope you find what you’re looking for 3 I don’t mean to sound condescending and sorry if it comes across that way, but you’re only 25 years old too. You have time. | |||
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"Insist they have a recent test. You are in control here and in control of the risks. " Yes good point! X | |||
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"Just before barebacking Shoot some toilet duck up your arse and you'll be fine 😸" What? | |||
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"Just before barebacking Shoot some toilet duck up your arse and you'll be fine 😸" other brands are available at half the price, I highly recommend Aldi home brand for that pine fresh fragrance, (Top tip the empty containers make a great douche) | |||
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