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"Boredom and habit really. " This and the notion that every now and then you meet a gem. Doesn’t happen often though. | |||
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"Boredom and habit really. This and the notion that every now and then you meet a gem. Doesn’t happen often though. " Agreed! It’s the hope that kills you | |||
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"Boredom and habit really. This and the notion that every now and then you meet a gem. Doesn’t happen often though. " That's very true | |||
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"Boredom and habit really. This and the notion that every now and then you meet a gem. Doesn’t happen often though. " Love this. Diamonds are indeed in the rough. | |||
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"I also think some of us are here because we’re lonely & isolated. I certainly feel that. When I do find someone I click with, meeting them is therapeutic as I don’t feel alone in this world (re my desires & kinks)." This I absolutely agree with, it’s sometimes the social interaction that perhaps is lacking at times | |||
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"Most of it has already been touched on. Boredom, social interaction and ultimately the hope you’ll find someone who can scratch whatever itch you may have. " Adding the confidence boost that fabs can sometimes provide, though it can be a double edged sword | |||
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"I agree, for me the joy when you click with people and keep chatting, as often it’s hard to make friends with people and talk about sex outside of fabs. " Totally, I personally I’m incredibly selective with who I want knowing things outside of fabs | |||
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"I also think some of us are here because we’re lonely & isolated." Pretty vulnerable thing to be admitting so openly. I also do think my maladaptive socialising plays a big role in being perennially drawn to fab&swinging. Add to that obsessive tendencies, voyeurism, special interest in sex& relationships, boom! I can check out any time I like... | |||
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"I also think some of us are here because we’re lonely & isolated. I certainly feel that. When I do find someone I click with, meeting them is therapeutic as I don’t feel alone in this world (re my desires & kinks)." Pretty much this 
Most of my friends are settled down and my social life isn't really very social these days.
Also it's easier to chat about sexual interests and find sexual compatibility on here without the awkwardness.
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"I'm not even sure anymore." Me neither | |||
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"I'm not even sure anymore. Me neither " about Mirfield - it's north of Morrisons n South of the Zoo | |||
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"I'm not even sure anymore. Me neither about Mirfield - it's north of Morrisons n South of the Zoo" 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"How many of us really understand what it is that keeps us coming back to fab? I believe ive got adhd (undiagnosed) & the dopamine I crave comes in abundance via sexual chemistry with a woman. I’ve found a niche clique that hits the spot. Anyone else really understand why they are here? " Pretty much this. It's a positive feeling | |||
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"Why are we here? Perhaps, in the end, for nothing more — and nothing less — than the pursuit (italics) of happiness." Jesus ...... this is happiness ?  | |||
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"How many of us really understand what it is that keeps us coming back to fab? I believe ive got adhd (undiagnosed) & the dopamine I crave comes in abundance via sexual chemistry with a woman. I’ve found a niche clique that hits the spot. Anyone else really understand why they are here? " We are here to fuck and to be fucked. But we get pissed when we are fucked up | |||
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"Why are we here? Perhaps, in the end, for nothing more — and nothing less — than the pursuit (italics) of happiness. Jesus ...... this is happiness ? "I suppose it depends on the day, doesn’t it? Some days it feels like happiness is right here in front of us — other days it’s an inside joke the universe forgot to explain. But hey, if we’re going to be here anyway… might as well share a smile or two while we look for it, right? | |||
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"Mainly to have sex on a regular basis. " More if a dream than reality I suppose | |||
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"Why are we here? Perhaps, in the end, for nothing more — and nothing less — than the pursuit (italics) of happiness." Well if the thoughts of the late, great Ken Dodd, whom I've actually met bye the way, are anything to go by, you may well be right because, Ken was on record as saying that it was his dick that inspired the his song, "Happiness" (A Penis). Quote the lyrics, "Happiness, (A Penis), the greatest gift that I possess, I that I possess, I thank The LORD that I've been blessed, with more than my share of A Penis!" Many a true word said in jest, but if that's what some are looking for, then you're possibly right. | |||
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"Why are we here? Perhaps, in the end, for nothing more — and nothing less — than the pursuit (italics) of happiness. Jesus ...... this is happiness ?
I suppose it depends on the day, doesn’t it? Some days it feels like happiness is right here in front of us — other days it’s an inside joke the universe forgot to explain.
But hey, if we’re going to be here anyway… might as well share a smile or two while we look for it, right?
"Absolutely right. I'd say it's a pleasant pass time but I know exactly who and what makes it pleasant for me  | |||
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"Boredom and habit really. " I have to agree with you xx  | |||
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"I like to look at Boobs 🤷🏻♂️🥪" Good reason At least your honest | |||
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"Why are we here - How many of us really understand what it is that keeps us coming back to fab? I believe ive got adhd (undiagnosed) & the dopamine I crave comes in abundance via sexual chemistry with a woman. I’ve found a niche clique that hits the spot. Anyone else really understand why they are here? " I'm here for the attention and affirmation that someone finds me appealing but not in just a sexual way, I've had some lovely messages from all kinds of people on here; single men, married men, women, couples, TV/CD, that have given me that rush of dopamine, about shared interests & life experiences, compliments and advice My situation is I'm happily married and he's given me his consent to find a boyfriend, I join here and have found someone, it's been on going for a while and going well | |||
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"Boobsucker - I agree, for me the joy when you click with people and keep chatting, as often it’s hard to make friends with people and talk about sex outside of fabs. " I've tried to talk to my GFs about what I get up to here, not about the site specifically but the nautiness of what I'm doing and it wasnt received positively, so I back tracked and haven't spoke about it since - lots of vanilla conversations  | |||
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