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Is a fake orgasm preferable?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill

So the guy is putting in what he thinks is a grandstand performance, but for whatever reason the woman isn’t feeling it.

Men - would you prefer a fake O or not?

Women - would you fake one or not?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I fake all my orgasms.

Especially the facials......

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By *arried curious guyMan
6 weeks ago

Motherwell

I would prefer her to fake

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I’m not going to fake an o just to save his ego, sorry. Life is too short for shit sex.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 weeks ago

Castlebar

Never have.

Various reasons why I may have one or several with someone then the next time, none. Luckily it's not an issue for them and I know they'd definitely prefer me not to fake it, just as I wouldn't if it was the other way round.

I still enjoy the effort. It can be like extreme edging 😈

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
6 weeks ago

Reading

I don't fake it anymore. I'm not here to worry about fragile egos.

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By *azrich87Man
6 weeks ago

kings lynn

I don’t think any bloke would care least they finish

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By *ustBoWoman
6 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I used to fake it before so the person I was with wouldn't feel bad.

Now I can't be bothered faking it just to save someone's feelings being hurt because I didn't.

Sex can be enjoyable without having an orgasm,it's just better with one or more .

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
6 weeks ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill


"I’m not going to fake an o just to save his ego, sorry. Life is too short for shit sex. "

Assuming this is your first time with them (and probably the last lol) do you give tips or just keep quiet and chalk it up as a bad shag? Or would you consider calling processings to a halt?

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By *KTim61Man
6 weeks ago

Tipton

Better than none at all making the guy feel good

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By *ittlebirdWoman
6 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Nope. I don’t fake fuck all. Not for anyone 😘

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I am incredibly easily stimulated. I don't think I have ever had consensual sex without at least a couple.

But when I was younger I'd pretend to be having a better time than I was to encourage them to hurry up and finish.

These days I'm pretty communicative. Not stopping them midway through to tell them they're not great and expecting them to be able to continue afterwards, but I've got the hang of movements and suggestions that usually get them on the right track, and I will mention if something wasn't working great for me or how I'd prefer to try next time during the pillow talk 💜

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"I’m not going to fake an o just to save his ego, sorry. Life is too short for shit sex.

Assuming this is your first time with them (and probably the last lol) do you give tips or just keep quiet and chalk it up as a bad shag? Or would you consider calling processings to a halt? "

Like prey im very communicative, there are ways to maneuver them into getting what you want

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By *oomerangboyMan
6 weeks ago

Staffordshire

No ! I’d prefer her to say it just ain’t happening, nothing more off putting than faking it, just finish yourself off as I wank lick watch whatever lol x

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By *partharmonyCouple
6 weeks ago

Ruislip

I never want anybody to fake. If I'm not doing it for them, direction would be great. I don't need them to soothe my ego at the expense of them having the best time.

I would be upset if I discovered somebody faked it with me. It suggests they don't feel comfortable enough being open with me. Luke

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By *eathcliffMan
6 weeks ago

Cardiff

Whilst I'm not the great panjandrum (on anything !), I think most men have a sufficient level of attentiveness and sensibility and would know he’s not quite delivering. He’d 'fee'l it. And if he’s connected, he’d pause, take a quiet moment to be present, maybe tidy up the energy between them.

If both playmates are truly connected, it'll usually happen naturally. But the opposite can spiral — a feedback loop of disconnect, of not being 'present' — and it’s a two-way street for some. not theatre, nor performance. Real intimacy needs attunement, not acting.

No, I don’t think most (italics) men would want a fake O. It’s hollow — like a forced laugh. Better to keep it honest.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
6 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Why would a fake orgasm ever be preferable unless the only reason a man wants to make a woman cum is to massage his own ego?

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By *ust want fun 888Man
6 weeks ago

nearby

I would prefer her to be nice about it but to say something, maybe we could improve something so that she is feeling it, I just feel if it’s going to be fake, I may as well be doing a blowup doll

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 weeks ago

Reading

My orgasms are very physical so I don't think I could fake them. I have done in the past but not for a while.

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By *oves kissingMan
6 weeks ago

kirkby in Ashfield

I met a woman earlier this year and we hired a room. Once in the room there was a lot of foreplay and I know she didn't cum with that. Naturally we moved onto penetration and tried several positions... after about 20 mins she moaned and said she was cumming. It didn't sound right to me but I came soon after. We made a coffee and relaxed on the bed and eventually began to play again. Not so much foreplay this time and we began fucking. Nothing too different from the first time but after a while she held me harder, rubbed her clit against me as I penetrated her and then she let out a scream, no build up, just pretty silent to very loud. Her pussy gripped my whole shift and I could feel it pulsating. I came again at the same time. After we lay side by side and nothing was said really but I knew, she must have faked the first one.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
6 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

I would flake it just to get it over with as they you can’t flog a dead horse

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
6 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

•Fake it•

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By *rill PhilMan
6 weeks ago

Crediton

Why fake an orgasm when, with a little guidance, that guy could provide you one?

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