FabSwingers.com forum: No Pics

By *ust_curious2023 OP Man
7 days ago

altrincham

Not moaning just trying to understand, threshold loads of profiles on here with no pics and ironically they are more likely to insist on pics before contact than most. I get it, and im not overly bothered I am though trying to understand why? Does anybody really sign up to a site like this one believing its blind date?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 days ago

little house on the praire

Just move on to the next profile loads do have photos

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By *icecouple561Couple
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7 days ago

East Sussex

Some couples profiles have messaged us asking to meet with no photos of the guy. So yes,some people do think it's blind date

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By *ust_curious2023 OP Man
7 days ago

altrincham

"Just move on to the next profile loads do have photos"

Yes I know and do I'm just trying to understand their reasoning.

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By *K AndyMan
7 days ago

Skipton

I always think that people with no pictures are worried about been recognized

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By *egnMaxCouple
7 days ago

Nottingham

I understand people asking for face pics as mutual attraction can be key. But I think it’s unreasonable to ask for one straight away, when trust or discretion hasn’t been established.

I most often ignore profiles without photos though I have messaged one or two when their words spark something between the ears.

Mr.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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7 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I understand people asking for face pics as mutual attraction can be key. But I think it’s unreasonable to ask for one straight away, when trust or discretion hasn’t been established.

I most often ignore profiles without photos though I have messaged one or two when their words spark something between the ears.

Mr."

This.

If a profile has no photos its easy to move on to one that does.

If a profile has no photos of one of a couple, again, it's easy to move on.

Some people don't help themselves and then ask why they're not getting the interest and attention they expected.

And nobody has to share face photos until they're happy. If people don't accept that then that's a 'them' problem. 🤷‍♂️

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By *arkdredMan
6 days ago

pl27

A life time of people judging makes it easier not to sometimes but will always send pic if a conversation has started but to then get left without a response is annoying not hard to say sorry not for me but hope you find what you need type of reply 🤷‍♂️

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 days ago

East Sussex

"A life time of people judging makes it easier not to sometimes but will always send pic if a conversation has started but to then get left without a response is annoying not hard to say sorry not for me but hope you find what you need type of reply 🤷‍♂️"

I understand that its annoying, it's happened to us one guy even deleted his profile when we sent our face pictures

but by not replying people are giving you their response.

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By *eardedguy83Man
6 days ago

Worcestershire

I’m seeing a lot of profiles asking or demanding face photos to be sent or instant delete. Worse still are those who reply to your message with …” face pic?”

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 days ago

Leeds

"one guy even deleted his profile when we sent our face pictures "

He must have recognised you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 days ago

East Sussex

"one guy even deleted his profile when we sent our face pictures

He must have recognised you"

Maybe or we are real mingers

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 days ago

Leeds

Little profile effort = no reply, just move on.

I wouldn't ever chat to a blank profile, time is precious.

Mrs

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 days ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

Some people just go through life expecting something for nothing, making zero effort and blaming everyone else for their failure.

Such it is with no pics and zero effort profiles.

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
6 days ago

Gloucester

"I understand people asking for face pics as mutual attraction can be key. But I think it’s unreasonable to ask for one straight away, when trust or discretion hasn’t been established.

I most often ignore profiles without photos though I have messaged one or two when their words spark something between the ears.

Mr.

This.

If a profile has no photos its easy to move on to one that does.

If a profile has no photos of one of a couple, again, it's easy to move on.

Some people don't help themselves and then ask why they're not getting the interest and attention they expected.

And nobody has to share face photos until they're happy. If people don't accept that then that's a 'them' problem. 🤷‍♂️"

This!! I don’t share my face unless we’ve had a good conversation and possibly want to meet.

If there are zero pics on a profile and the first message is generic I don’t reply

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By *ittlebirdWoman
6 days ago

The Big Smoke

"Not moaning just trying to understand, threshold loads of profiles on here with no pics and ironically they are more likely to insist on pics before contact than most. I get it, and im not overly bothered I am though trying to understand why? Does anybody really sign up to a site like this one believing its blind date?"

To answer your last question OP. Yes. Some people do sign up here thinking it’s a blind date and any hole is a goal. They’re not my kind of people so I filter all profiles with no public pics. Hope this helps 🌈

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By *issmorganWoman
6 days ago

Calderdale innit

Women can get away with having no pics, because lots of men will still message them and tell them they're gorgeous etc.

Generally men can't, I delete anything from shadows and if one asked me for pics, I'd block.

People can ask for what they want, within reason. However you don't have to do it ie send pics if you don't want to.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
6 days ago

Tiverton

We’d never message a profile that has no pics. If someone messages us and they have no pics we’d want to see one or two before engaging.

There’s so many profiles with no pics and the profile text says “fill in later” and been on here a while. As has been said, just move on to the next, the chances of you meeting them are so close to zero it’s not worth considering

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