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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Chi Harbour

You know exactly what I mean!

Away from swinging we used to all know a female that was known to enjoy sex and everyone living nearby or working with her knew it. What happened?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

What happened?

What's changed?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

5 weeks ago

East Sussex


"What happened?

What's changed?"

We started calling them women and stopped calling them sluts maybe?

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By *KTim61Man
5 weeks ago

Tipton

Dam I must have missed her

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
5 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

wear the badge with pride I say.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
5 weeks ago

in Lancashire

They resented being referred to as the local bike, martini or even she's dog rough but will do for emptying my sack maybe ..

And other crap labels..

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

She moved away.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
5 weeks ago

Next Door

Why call the female a slut because she likes having sex?

Rude OP,

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Did we all know one OP or just you?

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By *rtickle1Man
5 weeks ago

nuneaton


"Why call the female a slut because she likes having sex?

Rude OP,

"

Totally agree why shouldn’t a woman enjoy sex like a man

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By *partharmonyCouple
5 weeks ago

Ruislip


"You know exactly what I mean!

Away from swinging we used to all know a female that was known to enjoy sex and everyone living nearby or working with her knew it. What happened? "

I'm afraid I don't know anybody who matches what you are describing.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

They found the one they were waiting for

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By *arl50Man
5 weeks ago

Sheffield

Why refer to a woman as a slut that say's a lot about a person. Remember you have a mum, have respect

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By *rPunxMan
5 weeks ago

Hull

Well there was the sixties instilling free love, women's liberation, girl power, equal rights, the social evolution of males Learning to respect women, need I go on ?

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago


"Why refer to a woman as a slut that say's a lot about a person. Remember you have a mum, have respect "

I think it’s his mum he talking about tbh

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

5 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"You know exactly what I mean!

Away from swinging we used to all know a female that was known to enjoy sex and everyone living nearby or working with her knew it. What happened? "

Knew it? Or just thought it and possibly encouraged the rumours because they'd been turned down by her? 🤔

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By *OTSOSUBTLEMan
5 weeks ago

DUBLIN

Probably became an untraditional slut!

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
5 weeks ago

belfast

This didn't go how the OP expected.

Horrible way to describe a woman.

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By *rPunxMan
5 weeks ago

Hull

Think the OP has probably been watching too much Hate porn

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By *and12Couple
5 weeks ago

flint

I love sex doesn't make me a slut

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By *tlanshiaWoman
5 weeks ago

Chatham

I'm one of those women, but not everyone knows it because they don't need too.

If you asked in the right circles you'd get to know.

But my work is seperate, my boss doesn't need to know what I do in the bedroom.

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By *ango and gashCouple
5 weeks ago

bilston

I married her lol ,just joking before all the nasty comments come my way,

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By *estructionDollyWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester


"You know exactly what I mean!

Away from swinging we used to all know a female that was known to enjoy sex and everyone living nearby or working with her knew it. What happened? "

Sounds like you're frustrated you aren't getting laid. Damn those sluts.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
5 weeks ago

barnstaple

What a delightful man !

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By *avexxMan
5 weeks ago

cheshire

this isnt going down well op,,,run for them hills and so you should

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
5 weeks ago

wonderland.


"You know exactly what I mean!

Away from swinging we used to all know a female that was known to enjoy sex and everyone living nearby or working with her knew it. What happened? "

not sure they ever really existed... mostly is was rumours probably because she was a sexually confident woman

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By *unGuy4U1978Man
5 weeks ago

near you

Oh Fucksakes OP!!!! This thread hasn’t gone the way you wanted it to has it? 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
5 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Men would call them these names cause they couldn't cope with a sexually liberated woman

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By *isaB45Woman
5 weeks ago

Fabville


"Men would call them these names cause they couldn't cope with a sexually liberated woman"

..probably scared of them..

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford


"Men would call them these names cause they couldn't cope with a sexually liberated woman"

Let's burn the bras......

(Apart from blue ones) Lol.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
5 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

We started calling them women and stopped shaming them for being confident and having a healthy sexual appetite.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
5 weeks ago

little house on the praire


"Men would call them these names cause they couldn't cope with a sexually liberated woman

..probably scared of them.. "

probably 2 second wonders

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

The weather has been nice today

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By *isaB45Woman
5 weeks ago

Fabville


"Men would call them these names cause they couldn't cope with a sexually liberated woman

..probably scared of them.. probably 2 second wonders"

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford


"Men would call them these names cause they couldn't cope with a sexually liberated woman

..probably scared of them.. probably 2 second wonders"

Oi. Leave me out of this.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
5 weeks ago

little house on the praire


"Men would call them these names cause they couldn't cope with a sexually liberated woman

..probably scared of them.. probably 2 second wonders

Oi. Leave me out of this. "

But even you could last longer than them lol

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Well this escalated quickly 🤣🤣🤣

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford


"Men would call them these names cause they couldn't cope with a sexually liberated woman

..probably scared of them.. probably 2 second wonders

Oi. Leave me out of this. But even you could last longer than them lol"

You charmer xx

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By *isaB45Woman
5 weeks ago

Fabville


"Men would call them these names cause they couldn't cope with a sexually liberated woman

..probably scared of them.. probably 2 second wonders

Oi. Leave me out of this. But even you could last longer than them lol"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
5 weeks ago

little house on the praire


"Men would call them these names cause they couldn't cope with a sexually liberated woman

..probably scared of them.. probably 2 second wonders

Oi. Leave me out of this. But even you could last longer than them lol

You charmer xx"

I know

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By *ortySwitchMan
5 weeks ago

london

“… What happened to the traditional slut…”

She got married and gave birth to you !

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
5 weeks ago

Gloucester


"What happened?

What's changed?

We started calling them women and stopped calling them sluts maybe?"

This!!

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By *ippyXXXMan
5 weeks ago

Tamworth

Slut or Slag : either way its a derogatory saying.

And trust me I know more Male Slags than women..

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By *oeBeansMan
5 weeks ago

Derby

She got an OnlyFans because she realised that if you're good at something, never do it for free!

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By *ad NannaWoman
5 weeks ago

East London

It's all about body count now. Apparently.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"It's all about body count now. Apparently. "

They’re all under the patio Nanna 😘

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By *rPunxMan
5 weeks ago

Hull


"It's all about body count now. Apparently.

They’re all under the patio Nanna 😘"

🤣

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By *hickthighs25Woman
5 weeks ago

Stockton

🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿 nom nom nom

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"Why call the female a slut because she likes having sex?

Rude OP,

"

No it describes what she is and wants and you’ll find most women here label themselves as one. Most men consider themselves as one but it was probably men that started the name tagging.

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"Did we all know one OP or just you? "

Just about everyone knew the local bike or female that liked a bit of the other

It’s not my fault men have gotten the same labelling!

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"Why refer to a woman as a slut that say's a lot about a person. Remember you have a mum, have respect

I think it’s his mum he talking about tbh"

She’s dead you daft cunt

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By *ora the explorerWoman
4 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Why call the female a slut because she likes having sex?

Rude OP,

No it describes what she is and wants and you’ll find most women here label themselves as one. Most men consider themselves as one but it was probably men that started the name tagging. "

🤣🤣. I think you’ll find most women don’t.

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"You know exactly what I mean!

Away from swinging we used to all know a female that was known to enjoy sex and everyone living nearby or working with her knew it. What happened?

Knew it? Or just thought it and possibly encouraged the rumours because they'd been turned down by her? 🤔"

Unfortunately not. I was either to young or attached at the time

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"This didn't go how the OP expected.

Horrible way to describe a woman."

Bollocks. You know what I meant as do everyone here.

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"I love sex doesn't make me a slut "

Didn’t say it did

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Did we all know one OP or just you?

Just about everyone knew the local bike or female that liked a bit of the other

It’s not my fault men have gotten the same labelling! "

A traditional slur and now a bike?

Not a great look OP. Not at all 🤷‍♂️

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Did we all know one OP or just you?

Just about everyone knew the local bike or female that liked a bit of the other

It’s not my fault men have gotten the same labelling!

A traditional slur and now a bike?

Not a great look OP. Not at all 🤷‍♂️

"

*slut

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"I'm one of those women, but not everyone knows it because they don't need too.

If you asked in the right circles you'd get to know.

But my work is seperate, my boss doesn't need to know what I do in the bedroom. "

THANKYOU XX

I’ve known tradesmen to do deals and ppl to discuss what certain neighbours seem to get up to but I’ve not experienced it for many years.

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"I married her lol ,just joking before all the nasty comments come my way,"

Thankyou

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"You know exactly what I mean!

Away from swinging we used to all know a female that was known to enjoy sex and everyone living nearby or working with her knew it. What happened?

Sounds like you're frustrated you aren't getting laid. Damn those sluts. "

lol well that’s partly it

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By *aintsnsinnersCouple
4 weeks ago

Tamworth

I knew such a lady when I was 18

She wore a T-shirt saying

“I have genital warts” on it

Lovely girl

My mate still shagged her 🤦‍♂️

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By *ore_Please81Woman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Did we all know one OP or just you?

Just about everyone knew the local bike or female that liked a bit of the other

It’s not my fault men have gotten the same labelling! "

OP are you sure you’re only 53? “A bit of the other” , “bike” 😳 It’s all very Benny Hill! I thought this language and views had died a long time ago 🦕🦖🦕🦖

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"Oh Fucksakes OP!!!! This thread hasn’t gone the way you wanted it to has it? 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣"

It was a genuine question unfortunately most can’t see past the four letters. Thing is most non swingers would see us all here as pervs deviants sluts slags whatever, we know that but we don’t like the terminology. I say we, tbh I don’t mind as it’s the truth.

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"Did we all know one OP or just you?

Just about everyone knew the local bike or female that liked a bit of the other

It’s not my fault men have gotten the same labelling!

OP are you sure you’re only 53? “A bit of the other” , “bike” 😳 It’s all very Benny Hill! I thought this language and views had died a long time ago 🦕🦖🦕🦖"

Using terms that WE grew up with and understand the meaning of.

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"I knew such a lady when I was 18

She wore a T-shirt saying

“I have genital warts” on it

Lovely girl

My mate still shagged her 🤦‍♂️"

At least she was honest lol

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"Did we all know one OP or just you?

Just about everyone knew the local bike or female that liked a bit of the other

It’s not my fault men have gotten the same labelling!

A traditional slur and now a bike?

Not a great look OP. Not at all 🤷‍♂️

"

Whatever. Some just don’t like the truth.

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By *ervent X Kiss OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Chi Harbour


"🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿 nom nom nom"

😉

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By *layfullsamMan
4 weeks ago

Solihull

A percentage was just urban myth for young lads as well when I was growing up

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By *ralist 1960Man
4 weeks ago

Leeds

I loved women who were free to fuck men in the 80s.

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By *ushrangerMan
4 weeks ago

Hampshire

I moved out the area... Two of them had kids with fellas off the plot. Another I've not seen for years. Yeah you're right where have they gone haha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

I've moved around a lot 🍯

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By *ggdrasil66Man
4 weeks ago

Saltdean

I used to get about a bit during the mid 1980’s, and a lot of the girls I knew were just as promiscuous as me. Some of them were just curious, experimenting sexually, I would never label any of them. Apart from the one who tipped a pint of cider over my head, (I was sat down). All over my nice pink and grey Pringle jumper. I’ll never forget that one.

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By *rank FurilloMan
4 weeks ago

Coventry

If they are no longer traditional they must of gone Neo.

Think it means they only play with women, live like monks when a man is about.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
4 weeks ago

Derby

Watch our latest video. Make your mind up, if I'm a Slut or not.

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By *thfloorCouple
4 weeks ago

Hove

Grim OP, the kind of hypersexuality you describe (compulsive, indiscriminate, self destructive) is almost always a coping mechanism for cPTSD, caused usually by childhood SA and neglect. So are you really asking why we've stopped stigmatising such individuals and feeling you missed out on taking advantage?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"Why refer to a woman as a slut that say's a lot about a person. Remember you have a mum, have respect

I think it’s his mum he talking about tbh"

Not often I larrrrrf out loud.

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
4 weeks ago

belfast

Rereading this and it's still disgusting.

Referring to a woman who enjoys sex as a slut?

Hopefully doesn't have a partner or children.

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
4 weeks ago

Carlisle


"You know exactly what I mean!

Away from swinging we used to all know a female that was known to enjoy sex and everyone living nearby or working with her knew it. What happened? "

You could always try bringing it back and see what happens?

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By *rthur30Man
4 weeks ago

Warrington

STOP PRESS: Women like sex????? How modern!

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By *exy RexyMan
4 weeks ago

Up North


"I loved women who were free to fuck men in the 80s. "

You mean sluts??

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By *hogun300Man
4 weeks ago

Dundee


"Did we all know one OP or just you?

Just about everyone knew the local bike or female that liked a bit of the other

It’s not my fault men have gotten the same labelling!

OP are you sure you’re only 53? “A bit of the other” , “bike” 😳 It’s all very Benny Hill! I thought this language and views had died a long time ago 🦕🦖🦕🦖"

That was what I thought straight away too. Terms that were used then nit ok now.

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
4 weeks ago

Carlisle


"You know exactly what I mean!

Away from swinging we used to all know a female that was known to enjoy sex and everyone living nearby or working with her knew it. What happened?

You could always try bringing it back and see what happens?"

You could use it as a social experiment.

I wouldn't like to be you though 🥊🥊

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By *ittlefuckpigletTV/TS
4 weeks ago

brum


"You know exactly what I mean!

Away from swinging we used to all know a female that was known to enjoy sex and everyone living nearby or working with her knew it. What happened?

Sounds like you're frustrated you aren't getting laid. Damn those sluts. "

🤣🤣🤣

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends

We used to be a proper country 🍺

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Did we all know one OP or just you?

Just about everyone knew the local bike or female that liked a bit of the other

It’s not my fault men have gotten the same labelling!

A traditional slur and now a bike?

Not a great look OP. Not at all 🤷‍♂️

Whatever. Some just don’t like the truth. "

Yes. There’s definitely one of those on this thread.

Yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I prefer the more modern contemporary ones myself

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By *heoPalsnakeMan
4 weeks ago

Thirsk

You really learn a lot about people from threads like this. Nothing to say that hasn't been said. Plant the red flags guys, fly them high so we can all see them. 🙄

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
4 weeks ago

Hailsham

Was she arrested for pissing on lampposts? Or am I mixing up threads again?

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