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"There is a big difference between love in a marriage and sex, I loved my wife we had great sex very sensual and very satisfying, it was the complete package, but sadly came to an end. I joined here and I really do enjoy meeting people and if I'm lucky and we click and if we end up having sex even better but although it's great fun and exhilarating it is not the same as sex with my wife was, probably more a kin to going for a good workout at the gym, you look forward to going you enjoy the euphoria of the workout then you shower and go home, " You should use that as your opening line! | |||
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"This is a commonly asked question and the usual responses will be based on personal beliefs and ethics on the matter. Personally I (and we on the couples profile) have zero interest in meeting people here without consent from partners. It's not worth the potential drama and consent is key in our minds with all things swinging (and all things in life too really). It makes no difference if it's a man or a woman. There's enough consenting couples and genuine singles for us to not need to involve those that could both bring drama to our doors and who could be devastating their partners and children through their choices. People are free to do as they wish of course. We just choose not to be involved or enable them.🤷♂️" 100% this.very well said. | |||
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"This is a commonly asked question and the usual responses will be based on personal beliefs and ethics on the matter. Personally I (and we on the couples profile) have zero interest in meeting people here without consent from partners. It's not worth the potential drama and consent is key in our minds with all things swinging (and all things in life too really). It makes no difference if it's a man or a woman. There's enough consenting couples and genuine singles for us to not need to involve those that could both bring drama to our doors and who could be devastating their partners and children through their choices. People are free to do as they wish of course. We just choose not to be involved or enable them.🤷♂️" Exactly my sentiments. | |||
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"This is a commonly asked question and the usual responses will be based on personal beliefs and ethics on the matter. Personally I (and we on the couples profile) have zero interest in meeting people here without consent from partners. It's not worth the potential drama and consent is key in our minds with all things swinging (and all things in life too really). It makes no difference if it's a man or a woman. There's enough consenting couples and genuine singles for us to not need to involve those that could both bring drama to our doors and who could be devastating their partners and children through their choices. People are free to do as they wish of course. We just choose not to be involved or enable them.🤷♂️" Yeah. Couldn't have said it better than this. It's not for us, but many have no problem with it. Each to their own. | |||
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" Claim before you Blaim dude and love before you lose. " That is a great quote! I think we could all think on that one. | |||
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"It does not sit well with me I am in a similar situation, I’m not going elaborate about why. However, I could NEVER cheat on her, nor do I want to leave her. So I grasped the nettle, and told my wife, that the situation was making me very unhappy, and I need this in my life. And yes it was a very difficult conversation, and yes we had many sleepless nights, and many conversations where had over the coming few weeks . But she understands and loves each other, and we have an understanding , I’m open and don't withheld anything, and if she wishes she can see who I’m talking too. So as long as it doesn't change our set up, or embarrass her, I have consent., but if she is not happy at any point, it stops. I would suggest meet people in the same situations as yourself, or get some brave pants and bite the bullet. You never know it may improve" Now this is refreshing to hear, having the difficult conversations is worth it. Mrs | |||
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"1st things 1st, I love my wife completely and have no wish for things to change (apart from maybe an upturn in her appetite for sex!!). Is being on here looking for sex with ladies and couples a complete turn off for those, due to the fact I'm married and hoping to play without consent? After all, sometimes sex is just sex." For me you need full Knowledge from your wife/spouse...... I wouldn't go behind another woman's back & Fk her husband. | |||
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"Some will never tell you they are married or girl friend as wish to be seen single here on fab it’s when you find out after not the best feeling as you have been lied too . And not given a crap about your feelings just there own as just see this as sex site ." I find it's best to be upfront from the start | |||
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"You’re going to do what you’re going to do. Don’t worry what a group of strangers think about it." This. This is the only answer. Why do people need validation or even care what strangers think about what they do. I’ll never get it. Just do you! | |||
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