FabSwingers.com forum: Single gay men pretending to be couple STOP!!!

By *lackpoolad OP Man
4 weeks ago

NORTH WEST

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London

They won't, but it can be cathartic to get your feelings about it out.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

little house on the praire

You will never stop it, just be more vigilant

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Didn't get to read the OP as seems to have vanished....

But its easy to put a filter on messages to stop men from messaging you. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ackbydemandMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

It's not just gay men, it's bi or straight too.

"Oh something cropped up, she had to go to her Mum's house, yadda yadda, bullshit excuse, but luckily im still here"

Seen it, got the tshirt.

That's why club meets only until we get to know people.

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By *lackpoolad OP Man
4 weeks ago

NORTH WEST

Iv put couples on its gay men pretending to be straight couples so many men doing it

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By *lackpoolad OP Man
4 weeks ago

NORTH WEST

Ye your probably right mate

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By *4bimMan
4 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

why not just demand a picture of both straight away if they have nothing on show.

reverse image search it and if it comes back clear ok. if not block.

getting angry about it shows you up, be better than them

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By *lackpoolad OP Man
4 weeks ago

NORTH WEST

Reverse image search? Tell me more please

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By *ackbydemandMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

"why not just demand a picture of both straight away if they have nothing on show.

reverse image search it and if it comes back clear ok. if not block.

getting angry about it shows you up, be better than them"

Have done this before, picture of him is a selfie, picture of her is a picture of a picture in a frame, or low resolution, clearly from much different eras and cameras.

"Is your partner with you now? I'd like to ask a question?"

"Sure"

"Take a selfie together and send it me".

Silence, busted.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Just look for recent verifications. Any active couple will likely have some.

And ask to video chat with anyone you're suspicious of or speak on the phone. If they're unwilling......move on.

There's more than enough genuine couples on the site for people to not waste time chasing to find out if a couple is really a couple or not. 🤷‍♂️

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By *carlettsWoman
4 weeks ago

Harpenden

Download pic go to Goggle image;) and click on the camera upload and shows you where else that picture is often loads of different accounts so you know usually fake caught someone out earlier!

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By *lackpoolad OP Man
4 weeks ago

NORTH WEST

Love this! Thanks il give it ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

I'm guessing that it's less likely to be gay men, than other types of men.

You don't like men messaging you - none of us tolerate people who lie, trying to deceive us or anyone.

Report inappropriate behaviour from any account here, including wrong gender, deceit, abuse, etc.

Fab relies on all of us to help to keep the site standards high, for a free to access site, with tens of thousands of users.

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By *teff_RedTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Greenhouse or Attic

Where are these so called hords of gay men flocking to you?

Really? if you think that’s gay men..

Most open gay men can get it anywhere, clubs, saunas, Grindr, the list goes on..

Why would they want to try that just to get a fuck 😂😂😂😂😂

Seriously the folk on these forums talk some crap 😂😂

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By *obilebottomMan
4 weeks ago

All over

"Where are these so called hords of gay men flocking to you?

Really? if you think that’s gay men..

Most open gay men can get it anywhere, clubs, saunas, Grindr, the list goes on..

Why would they want to try that just to get a fuck 😂😂😂😂😂

Seriously the folk on these forums talk some crap 😂😂"

The moment a particular set of people was singled out on this thread, lost credibility for me.

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By *eardedguy83Man
4 weeks ago

Worcestershire

It’s getting very silly. Already mentioned in a previous post that there are forum contributors who fall into this category.

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By *idnight_Express69Man
4 weeks ago

Rochdale

Not quite sure why this is directed solely at gay men when it’s a behaviour exhibited by lots of people on here, irrespective of their orientation

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By *teff_RedTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Greenhouse or Attic

"Not quite sure why this is directed solely at gay men when it’s a behaviour exhibited by lots of people on here, irrespective of their orientation "

Insecurity of their own sexuality maybe 🫣😜

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By *uicy Big AssTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Stockwell

I’m a gay guy and whilst I’ve never pretended to be a couple I believe it happens. Gay guys love straight men so they’ll try and trick straight guys into having fun or sending pics. As long as it’s not disrespectful it’s fair enough for a straight guy to not want to hear from gay guys.

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By *JB1954Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

Perhaps sort of relevant . How many couple profiles have photo’s of both male and female together . Yet on profile ‘ only male playing at moment ‘ ?

I do sometimes venture into cam rooms . Last time there . Few comments directed at a certain profile .saying

‘See wife not on again’

So do the females know their photo’s being used ?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

You can block profiles with no public photos from blocking you OP. And new profiles. And non-verified ones. This helps a little

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London

"Didn't get to read the OP as seems to have vanished....

But its easy to put a filter on messages to stop men from messaging you. 🤷‍♂️"

They're pretending to be couples from a couples account though.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

Move quickly to a voice call.

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By *ub with a ChubbMan
4 weeks ago

Southwest & Cork City

"Download pic go to Goggle image;) and click on the camera upload and shows you where else that picture is often loads of different accounts so you know usually fake caught someone out earlier!"

That or tineye. 👌🏻

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
4 weeks ago

West Suffolk

"Iv put couples on its gay men pretending to be straight couples so many men doing it "

We have been accused of this by single straight guys who don’t get their own way in messaging lol but our verifications prove we are a couple as well as our photo verification

Mrs

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
4 weeks ago

West Suffolk

"Just look for recent verifications. Any active couple will likely have some.

And ask to video chat with anyone you're suspicious of or speak on the phone. If they're unwilling......move on.

There's more than enough genuine couples on the site for people to not waste time chasing to find out if a couple is really a couple or not. 🤷‍♂️"

We won’t do a video call as we won’t give our mobile number out, we did once and learnt a hard lesson and had to change our numbers. We are a genuine couple and our verifications speak for themselves

Mrs

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By *ser.meMan
4 weeks ago

Near you

Yeah stop

Don't message me and tell me your wife is there

And when I get there it's just you

And make me suck your dick

Please don't

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

Single men pretending to be a couple STOP !!!

Fixed it for you

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By *ippyXXXMan
4 weeks ago

Tamworth

Single gay men pretending to be a girl and contacting straight guys.. haha what's that shit all about

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By *teff_RedTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Greenhouse or Attic

"Yeah stop

Don't message me and tell me your wife is there

And when I get there it's just you

And make me suck your dick

Please don't

Sounds like it keeps happening to you, don’t worry you will get used to the taste of cock

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By *ser.meMan
4 weeks ago

Near you

"Yeah stop

Don't message me and tell me your wife is there

And when I get there it's just you

And make me suck your dick

Please don't

Sounds like it keeps happening to you, don’t worry you will get used to the taste of cock

Really? Prove it? How many more?

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By *teff_RedTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Greenhouse or Attic

"Yeah stop

Don't message me and tell me your wife is there

And when I get there it's just you

And make me suck your dick

Please don't

Sounds like it keeps happening to you, don’t worry you will get used to the taste of cock

Really? Prove it? How many more? "

Just keep trying until u do

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By *ndymac888Man
4 weeks ago

Dumbarton

I find it’s mostly straight men wanting dirty messages about what I would do to there mrs.

Dunno mate I’ve conveniently not seen her lol.

Usual blank profile rules apply lol

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By *ser.meMan
3 weeks ago

Near you

"Yeah stop

Don't message me and tell me your wife is there

And when I get there it's just you

And make me suck your dick

Please don't

Sounds like it keeps happening to you, don’t worry you will get used to the taste of cock

Really? Prove it? How many more?

Just keep trying until u do

In that case, I might have to practice on single men or tv/ts. So next time this happens I'm prepared... any offers?

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