FabSwingers.com forum: Petty, childish and resentful...

By *ai Hard 2 - Dai Harder OP Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

...no, this isn't a rant; just a question born of the need of a rant (which is not for here)!

What are the little things? The thinly veiled passive aggressive actions that you see every day that urk you?

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By *verageHoesCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Every day? You need different people in your life!

It's rare that I see anything like that now that I don’t use social media (other than here).

My sister was really bad for vague-posting on FBook, with just enough plausible deniability to save her bacon. She still hasn't learned how to have a calm, direct conversation to clear the air, and she's nearly 46 🤷‍♀️

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Mostly it's in the way coworkers talk to each other that I see on a regular basis. I'm pretty sure they think I'm a passive aggressive cunt too though so 💜

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By *evil-AngelWoman
3 weeks ago

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I have one colleague who hides it all behind a cheery smile so it is only when reflecting on the situation later you realise how irritating they've actually been.

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By *hiversMan
3 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

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By *infulWinksMan
3 weeks ago

harolds cross,

I’m too simple a creature to notice a lot of petty behaviour. I do however believe a person is either passive or aggressive, just because someone is smiling at you doesn’t mean they are not being aggressive.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai Harder OP Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

"Every day? You need different people in your life!

It's rare that I see anything like that now that I don’t use social media (other than here).

'every day'??! good point!!

although of the comments already, nearly all look at the workplace, so there's an element of possibility!

one of my 'faves' is the needless CC'ing of others into an E'mail chain to either avoid responsibility/accountability or 'inform' the higher-ups.

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By *ittleLiaisonsWoman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

People who sigh really loudly.. either say what you need to say with chest or use your inhaler.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
3 weeks ago

Beverley

"I’m too simple a creature to notice a lot of petty behaviour. I do however believe a person is either passive or aggressive, just because someone is smiling at you doesn’t mean they are not being aggressive. "

The smile is the passive part. It's trying to hide the aggression or at least make it seem more satirical. Hence the term.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Hardly anything irks me. If it does I tend to say directly - a common problem in current times is simply that some people LOVE to take offence. They are far too quick to imagine their uncomfortable feelings are the result of what someone else said or did. They are also too quick to interpret what someone says through their own perspective without ever clarifying what that person meant. So they go and tell everyone else what a twat or cunt someone is without realising that it's THEM that is the t or c......

How you recieve things is hugely important.... if someone is genuinely passive aggressive , why would that bother an emotionally balanced person ?

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
3 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

People that chat to you one day say hi ( I don’t mean on here) then the next time you see them they don’t talk what’s that all about you either want to chat to me or you don’t

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