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"Find a new one or go on fab lol" Haha.. no nonsense | |||
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"The people I care for and am not sexually compatible with are friends 💜" But was that after you slept with them and found out..? | |||
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"3-4 years I was with someone who was just way to vanilla for me, I wasn’t even that attracted to him but I tried to make it work. I will never make that mistake again " But you gave it your best.. that's all you can do.. | |||
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"When you've discussed this with your partner do they think it's something that with time might be resolved or do they agree that you're just sexually incompatible? " I like to think you can , overtime work it out.. but if there's a sticking point and they not interested it can cause a issue I think..it's what your willing to compromise on | |||
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"If it's just sex you are after then you need to end the relationship and find a new partner. If it's the actual person you are after then stay with them. I never get why people go into a relationship for just sex....... just have booty calls or TELL the person that you want a fwb from the start." A relationship is about the whole person. If you don’t connect sexually but you like the person then celebrate the friendship | |||
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"3-4 years I was with someone who was just way to vanilla for me, I wasn’t even that attracted to him but I tried to make it work. I will never make that mistake again " See… my take away here is that you were having sex with someone that you weren’t that attracted to and that didn’t excite you for 3-4 years | |||
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"If it's just sex you are after then you need to end the relationship and find a new partner. If it's the actual person you are after then stay with them. I never get why people go into a relationship for just sex....... just have booty calls or TELL the person that you want a fwb from the start." I totally agree with you on that.. But how many people cheat because they go else where..when the sex life becomes nonexistent.. | |||
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"The people I care for and am not sexually compatible with are friends 💜" This. | |||
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"When you've discussed this with your partner do they think it's something that with time might be resolved or do they agree that you're just sexually incompatible? I like to think you can , overtime work it out.. but if there's a sticking point and they not interested it can cause a issue I think..it's what your willing to compromise on " Ah, your question was hypothetical. Ok. Judging from the number of men in fab who claim to be in sexless or sexually unsatisfying relationships which are causing them unhappiness I would say end it and quickly. | |||
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"3-4 years I was with someone who was just way to vanilla for me, I wasn’t even that attracted to him but I tried to make it work. I will never make that mistake again See… my take away here is that you were having sex with someone that you weren’t that attracted to and that didn’t excite you for 3-4 years" In a nutshell shell but there was more to it than that really but for the sake of the question I just gave that part of the relationship | |||
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"3-4 years I was with someone who was just way to vanilla for me, I wasn’t even that attracted to him but I tried to make it work. I will never make that mistake again But you gave it your best.. that's all you can do.. " I did but it was one of my most damaging relationships | |||
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"If it's just sex you are after then you need to end the relationship and find a new partner. If it's the actual person you are after then stay with them. I never get why people go into a relationship for just sex....... just have booty calls or TELL the person that you want a fwb from the start. I totally agree with you on that.. But how many people cheat because they go else where..when the sex life becomes nonexistent.. " The same number of people that value sex more than the person they are with AND ten to one they imagine that sex with a new partner will be amazing ; they never consider they could be the fly in the ointment | |||
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"When you've discussed this with your partner do they think it's something that with time might be resolved or do they agree that you're just sexually incompatible? I like to think you can , overtime work it out.. but if there's a sticking point and they not interested it can cause a issue I think..it's what your willing to compromise on Ah, your question was hypothetical. Ok. Judging from the number of men in fab who claim to be in sexless or sexually unsatisfying relationships which are causing them unhappiness I would say end it and quickly. " No it wasn't hypothetical.. I've been a couple of relationships where we wasn't compatible.. But I've been in more where we was.. The last one lasted 14 years.. | |||
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"When you've discussed this with your partner do they think it's something that with time might be resolved or do they agree that you're just sexually incompatible? I like to think you can , overtime work it out.. but if there's a sticking point and they not interested it can cause a issue I think..it's what your willing to compromise on Ah, your question was hypothetical. Ok. Judging from the number of men in fab who claim to be in sexless or sexually unsatisfying relationships which are causing them unhappiness I would say end it and quickly. No it wasn't hypothetical.. I've been a couple of relationships where we wasn't compatible.. But I've been in more where we was.. The last one lasted 14 years.. " Oh sorry, the way you answered my question I thought it was. | |||
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"The people I care for and am not sexually compatible with are friends 💜" This! | |||
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"The people I care for and am not sexually compatible with are friends 💜 But was that after you slept with them and found out..? " Yes. Several of my friends I have had sex with and it wasn't worth repeating, but we enjoyed each others company and still wanted to hang out. Some were actually really sexually compatible but not actually romantically compatible, but we still get along as friends. For sure there have been people who've decided that if there's no more sex then they don't want to be my friend, and that's okay too, that's a choice they can make 💜 | |||
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"I'm sure everyone has been in this position.. a new relationship..then you start to think that you're not sexual compatible.. Could be libido.. different sexual preferences.. Do you hope that in time you can work it out..?? " Did you discuss your sexual preferences before starting a relationship? Do you communicate them now? A relationship is about openness OP. If it’s new you should be enjoying all of that exploration together. Not asking from a single profile on FAB 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ | |||
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"I'm sure everyone has been in this position.. a new relationship..then you start to think that you're not sexual compatible.. Could be libido.. different sexual preferences.. Do you hope that in time you can work it out..?? Did you discuss your sexual preferences before starting a relationship? Do you communicate them now? A relationship is about openness OP. If it’s new you should be enjoying all of that exploration together. Not asking from a single profile on FAB 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️" Let's be Frank here.. From my experience and taking to my friend's.. unless a woman expresses or is forward with her sexual needs..we don't bring up the subject.. let's be honest..you're branded that's all your after.. But that's not the truth.. I actually had a ex partner first time I kissed her grab my groin.. saying if you have a small prick then we're not going forward.. She was honest.. But the majority of guys aren't that forward.. fact | |||
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"I'm sure everyone has been in this position.. a new relationship..then you start to think that you're not sexual compatible.. Could be libido.. different sexual preferences.. Do you hope that in time you can work it out..?? Did you discuss your sexual preferences before starting a relationship? Do you communicate them now? A relationship is about openness OP. If it’s new you should be enjoying all of that exploration together. Not asking from a single profile on FAB 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ Let's be Frank here.. From my experience and taking to my friend's.. unless a woman expresses or is forward with her sexual needs..we don't bring up the subject.. let's be honest..you're branded that's all your after.. But that's not the truth.. I actually had a ex partner first time I kissed her grab my groin.. saying if you have a small prick then we're not going forward.. She was honest.. But the majority of guys aren't that forward.. fact " You just answered your own question. Find and be honest. It’s the future 🌈 | |||
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"First and foremost....talk to them. If things don't improve....move on to the next " So may I ask.. I guess the question is this too.. If its you wanting to improve the situation to benefit you pleasure.. or is it your partner asking for their pleasure.. I guess it's all about being flexible.. And let's be honest..sometimes after you've tried something different then you change your perspective | |||
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"First and foremost....talk to them. If things don't improve....move on to the next So may I ask.. I guess the question is this too.. If its you wanting to improve the situation to benefit you pleasure.. or is it your partner asking for their pleasure.. I guess it's all about being flexible.. And let's be honest..sometimes after you've tried something different then you change your perspective " Doesn't matter which party is wanting change.... I would never be in a relationship with someone I couldn't communicate with | |||
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"First and foremost....talk to them. If things don't improve....move on to the next So may I ask.. I guess the question is this too.. If its you wanting to improve the situation to benefit you pleasure.. or is it your partner asking for their pleasure.. I guess it's all about being flexible.. And let's be honest..sometimes after you've tried something different then you change your perspective Doesn't matter which party is wanting change.... I would never be in a relationship with someone I couldn't communicate with" Yeah.. being honest is totally key.. But the question is after all the communication..if you're still not compatible.. what is your next move..? | |||
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"First and foremost....talk to them. If things don't improve....move on to the next So may I ask.. I guess the question is this too.. If its you wanting to improve the situation to benefit you pleasure.. or is it your partner asking for their pleasure.. I guess it's all about being flexible.. And let's be honest..sometimes after you've tried something different then you change your perspective Doesn't matter which party is wanting change.... I would never be in a relationship with someone I couldn't communicate with Yeah.. being honest is totally key.. But the question is after all the communication..if you're still not compatible.. what is your next move..? " As I said....move on if things don't change. | |||
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"First and foremost....talk to them. If things don't improve....move on to the next So may I ask.. I guess the question is this too.. If its you wanting to improve the situation to benefit you pleasure.. or is it your partner asking for their pleasure.. I guess it's all about being flexible.. And let's be honest..sometimes after you've tried something different then you change your perspective Doesn't matter which party is wanting change.... I would never be in a relationship with someone I couldn't communicate with Yeah.. being honest is totally key.. But the question is after all the communication..if you're still not compatible.. what is your next move..? " Break up 💜 | |||
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