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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all just a quick one not sure if this is ment to happen in swingers clubs but been going club now for a little while and seen a ladie I liked so we chatted then moved upstairs to be alone were we had a great night so arrange to meet again but this time back at my place wow is all I can say one of the best nights ever won't bor you all with to much info but to cut a long story short I think we have fallen in love with each other I was wondering if this has happened before at swingers clubs ps if we do end up getting married then they will be a few invites going out

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

......is hard on the knees

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

So have you seen her since or just the night at the club and the night at yours.

Dont mix lust and love up. Fantastic sex is one thing, doing everyday relationship stuff is another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Luck to you.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Good luck so is the third date the wedding then?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I hope it works out but don't pin your hopes on it....it can work and has worked for many people but make sure she feels the same and it wasn't just post coital elation.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I hope it works out but don't pin your hopes on it....it can work and has worked for many people but make sure she feels the same and it wasn't just post coital elation."

I get pre coitus inflation and post coitus deflation and mid coitus fellation (if I'm lucky).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ooo yes sorry to add we been texting each other everyday and told each other everything plus chatting on the phone ect we met up 4 times now and each time is better n better I thought I would never find my soul mate from ever going to swinging clubs but I'm sure she the one thks for your nice comments everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww thats lovely. Hope it works out. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooo yes sorry to add we been texting each other everyday and told each other everything plus chatting on the phone ect we met up 4 times now and each time is better n better I thought I would never find my soul mate from ever going to swinging clubs but I'm sure she the one thks for your nice comments everyone "

Really happy for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck so is the third date the wedding then? "

Is that a standard you adhere to?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Good luck so is the third date the wedding then?

Is that a standard you adhere to? "

Not quite its the fourth date with me lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So have you seen her since or just the night at the club and the night at yours.

Dont mix lust and love up. Fantastic sex is one thing, doing everyday relationship stuff is another"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck so is the third date the wedding then?

Is that a standard you adhere to?

Not quite its the fourth date with me lol "

Mental note made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all just a quick one not sure if this is ment to happen in swingers clubs but been going club now for a little while and seen a ladie I liked so we chatted then moved upstairs to be alone were we had a great night so arrange to meet again but this time back at my place wow is all I can say one of the best nights ever won't bor you all with to much info but to cut a long story short I think we have fallen in love with each other I was wondering if this has happened before at swingers clubs ps if we do end up getting married then they will be a few invites going out "

I know who ya talking about lol

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By *ause and EffectCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I hope it works out but don't pin your hopes on it....it can work and has worked for many people but make sure she feels the same and it wasn't just post coital elation.

I get pre coitus inflation and post coitus deflation and mid coitus fellation (if I'm lucky). "

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

You only have to read some of the couples profiles to know that it works....

Good luck but take it easy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just realised, Ive been quoting Glen Campbell lyrics.

I profusely apologise!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Love can strike any time anywhere. Good luck to you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely to hear

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I just realised, Ive been quoting Glen Campbell lyrics.

I profusely apologise! "

so you should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good luck so is the third date the wedding then?

Is that a standard you adhere to?

Not quite its the fourth date with me lol "

Is the 5th the divorce?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck and hope it works out for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So judging by two people's status's I'm guessing 's are called for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck to you both.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Thank the gods for Eros

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi and thk you all for your nice comments we finely got together and now on fabs as a couple candj_paradice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi and thk you all for your nice comments we finely got together and now on fabs as a couple candj_paradice "
candj_paradise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can find love in every place people meet and chat and only time will tell. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all just a quick one not sure if this is ment to happen in swingers clubs but been going club now for a little while and seen a ladie I liked so we chatted then moved upstairs to be alone were we had a great night so arrange to meet again but this time back at my place wow is all I can say one of the best nights ever won't bor you all with to much info but to cut a long story short I think we have fallen in love with each other I was wondering if this has happened before at swingers clubs ps if we do end up getting married then they will be a few invites going out "

aw how sweet, I know how you feel and its a lovely feeling x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fantastic. Your openess with each other should ensure your happiness. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you met a chick from here once and your in love, second meet it's back at yours and third it's till death do us part.

Like someone else mentioned above..make sure she feels the same way because that reads a little bit full on.

It's kind of gooey and lovey dovey if you do, but don't sort of expect the "mutual-ness"...wait...is that even a word?

Good luck chap though!

Ben

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

female half to the couple :D 5 months later thought it was time for an update . When i first saw this post on here could quite happily have killed a certain someone lol whilst the swinging is a fantastic part of our relationship we find it is by no means the reason we are together in fact we recently went nearly 2 months without any play meets , just as happy snuggled up watching crappy tv sometimes who knows where the future will lead but happy to ride this one out and see where we end up

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Glad it has all world out for you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww sweet

Long may it continue

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"female half to the couple :D 5 months later thought it was time for an update . When i first saw this post on here could quite happily have killed a certain someone lol whilst the swinging is a fantastic part of our relationship we find it is by no means the reason we are together in fact we recently went nearly 2 months without any play meets , just as happy snuggled up watching crappy tv sometimes who knows where the future will lead but happy to ride this one out and see where we end up "

all the best to you both be happy

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Glad it has all world out for you both "

World er I mean worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so long as he doesnt think he can use this as a cheap way of asking that question :P i might just kill this time if he does that lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

When I read the OP's first post (originally thought was a recent thread) alarm bells went off in my head and I wanted to yell out "Nooooo... don't do it!!".

I've known women on the scene not just on Fabs and not any one club in particular) who start off with "fussy" as the theme on their profile, as soon as they meet "one guy" then the theme on the profile becomes "no longer meeting".

Likewise I've heard of women that "do do multiple meets" ie "meet only one person".. then keeps it going until it fizzles out before meeting anyone different,... or women that are not as subtle and are blatant they only meet people who are interested in building a relationship (with them).

Whilst is their lives I still feel its not what the scene is for (ie, actively looking for a life partner) so I was concerned for the OP. Yes, am a skeptic that way - I can admit it.

However, if 5 months on and they've built around and outside swinging then that can only be a good thing, good luck to you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice story and hope it works out.

Out if interest, what's your story for how you met when people ask ? I'm guessing it pretty rare for a relationship to flourish after meeting in a swingers club but I guess it means you have no secrets from the start. Communication is everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

communication is definately the key along with setting boundaries that both of you are happy to work with. Friends and family that just wouldnt understand this lifestyle believe we met through an online dating site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont/wont do the "love" thing......

ever ever ever....

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but all the best for the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont/wont do the "love" thing......

ever ever ever....

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but all the best for the future "

Ditto

Although I am currently 'In lust'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont/wont do the "love" thing......

ever ever ever....

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but all the best for the future

Ditto

Although I am currently 'In lust' "

Oh i dont mind being "in lust"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm an old romantic at heart...good luck to you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is unneccaessary.

I spelt that wrong I know but fuck it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's sweet xxx Is it love or lust ? Love takes time ... lust is a powerful feeling too. But good luck and hope things work out. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love is unneccaessary.

I spelt that wrong I know but fuck it. "

We all need love in our lives, love can come in many forms.

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"communication is definately the key along with setting boundaries that both of you are happy to work with. Friends and family that just wouldnt understand this lifestyle believe we met through an online dating site . "

Good luck to u both, think it's wonderful x

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


" That's sweet xxx Is it love or lust ? Love takes time ... lust is a powerful feeling too. But good luck and hope things work out. xx"

What about love at first sight? Perhaps all this focus on sex actually confuses the issue. I am not on here for sex at all, only for love. I know that is paradoxical but it works for me!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


" That's sweet xxx Is it love or lust ? Love takes time ... lust is a powerful feeling too. But good luck and hope things work out. xx

What about love at first sight? Perhaps all this focus on sex actually confuses the issue. I am not on here for sex at all, only for love. I know that is paradoxical but it works for me!"

Here's the question though - do you walk into a meet asking yourself "Is this the one?".. and after the meet, then what? And when you meet "the one" does the other person feel the same?

Or to complicate it, you meet someone similar (ie looking for love) but you don't feel the same about them, what do you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" That's sweet xxx Is it love or lust ? Love takes time ... lust is a powerful feeling too. But good luck and hope things work out. xx

What about love at first sight? Perhaps all this focus on sex actually confuses the issue. I am not on here for sex at all, only for love. I know that is paradoxical but it works for me!"
yes lust at first sight too. I am sure a lot think lust is love .. The Love I feel for things will never go its very deep .. I know when its lust. But maybe you can have love at first sight I don't know .

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Is this the same woman you have a couples profile with???

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Love is love, whether it's started in a swingers club or over the counter at the local chippy.

I hope it's making you both exceptionally happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you OP, but I'd have been in love many times if I hadn't known the difference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leaves me with the feel good factor good luck to you both

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

And I'm gonna see if I can spot you both at the next Falcons game

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