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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Quite often will be having a convo with a lady or couple and they are not meeting in the near term because they are off on hols or doing something else but they want to catch up when they get back.

How do you keep track of those convos and remember to get in touch later? I find they just get lost in the general inbox traffic. Any hints or tips?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
5 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"Quite often will be having a convo with a lady or couple and they are not meeting in the near term because they are off on hols or doing something else but they want to catch up when they get back.

How do you keep track of those convos and remember to get in touch later? I find they just get lost in the general inbox traffic. Any hints or tips?"

screen shot the conversation with the profile name as a reminder?

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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Quite often will be having a convo with a lady or couple and they are not meeting in the near term because they are off on hols or doing something else but they want to catch up when they get back.

How do you keep track of those convos and remember to get in touch later? I find they just get lost in the general inbox traffic. Any hints or tips?screen shot the conversation with the profile name as a reminder?"

I tend to save the convo but then forget to look in saved folder. I think the real problem is that I need some kind of alarm reminder.

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By *ellinever70Woman
5 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Just wait on them getting back to you

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By *vaRoseWoman
5 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Hotlist them then their we are back from our holiday status will appear in your updates

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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Just wait on them getting back to you "

The problem is they are probably doing the same thing!

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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Hotlist them then their we are back from our holiday status will appear in your updates "

I usually do that - if I wanted to meet them then I would either hotlist or friend them.

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By *ornucopiaMan
5 weeks ago

Bexley


"Quite often will be having a convo with a lady or couple and they are not meeting in the near term because they are off on hols or doing something else but they want to catch up when they get back.

How do you keep track of those convos and remember to get in touch later? I find they just get lost in the general inbox traffic. Any hints or tips?"

I call them up from my truck on channel 14...

Oops I misread. Thought it said 'Convoy'...

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By *ub with a ChubbMan
5 weeks ago

Southwest & Cork City


"Quite often will be having a convo with a lady or couple and they are not meeting in the near term because they are off on hols or doing something else but they want to catch up when they get back.

How do you keep track of those convos and remember to get in touch later? I find they just get lost in the general inbox traffic. Any hints or tips?"

As other have said: add to hotlist, save message and mark as unread, maybe add a private note.

Or compile a list on word to keep track.

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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Quite often will be having a convo with a lady or couple and they are not meeting in the near term because they are off on hols or doing something else but they want to catch up when they get back.

How do you keep track of those convos and remember to get in touch later? I find they just get lost in the general inbox traffic. Any hints or tips?

I call them up from my truck on channel 14...

Oops I misread. Thought it said 'Convoy'..."

Roger that big cowboy

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By *ittleLiaisonsWoman
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

I think a lot of men seem to see women as needy creatures who need constant conversation inbetween to keep something going. Don't worry about it.. If a woman wants to contact you, she will do once she's back.

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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Quite often will be having a convo with a lady or couple and they are not meeting in the near term because they are off on hols or doing something else but they want to catch up when they get back.

How do you keep track of those convos and remember to get in touch later? I find they just get lost in the general inbox traffic. Any hints or tips?

As other have said: add to hotlist, save message and mark as unread, maybe add a private note.

Or compile a list on word to keep track. "

Maybe a calendar reminder but that just starts to feel like I am at work.

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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"I think a lot of men seem to see women as needy creatures who need constant conversation inbetween to keep something going. Don't worry about it.. If a woman wants to contact you, she will do once she's back."

That tends to be what I rely on but life often just gets in the way.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I write their names and holiday dates in blood in my filofax.......

I expect them to message me once they are on uk soil

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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"I write their names and holiday dates in blood in my filofax.......

I expect them to message me once they are on uk soil "

I am using a biro - maybe that’s where I am going wrong.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"I write their names and holiday dates in blood in my filofax.......

I expect them to message me once they are on uk soil

I am using a biro - maybe that’s where I am going wrong."

I'm not doing that brilliantly to be fair . I possibly shouldn't be writing it in my own blood ..... it hurts

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By *hortieWoman
5 weeks ago

Northampton

Maybe they are as confused by your profile text as I am, and just being polite.

Sorry, I'm washing my hair that day.

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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Maybe they are as confused by your profile text as I am, and just being polite.

Sorry, I'm washing my hair that day."

Everyday is a hair day.

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By *rHotNottsMan
5 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Quite often will be having a convo with a lady or couple and they are not meeting in the near term because they are off on hols or doing something else but they want to catch up when they get back.

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Let’s call it sand-crumbing so that the Millennials and Genzies can understand it properly

Hack their phone and write a script to do a trace route every 60 seconds and send you a message on telegram the moment it gives a UK based IP address then start of ranty thread about how to deal with sandcrumming.

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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Quite often will be having a convo with a lady or couple and they are not meeting in the near term because they are off on hols or doing something else but they want to catch up when they get back.

Let’s call it sand-crumbing so that the Millennials and Genzies can understand it properly

Hack their phone and write a script to do a trace route every 60 seconds and send you a message on telegram the moment it gives a UK based IP address then start of ranty thread about how to deal with sandcrumming."

20 secs vibe coding the script and I will be sorted.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

No tips from me OP sorry. Basically I will end up chatting to them again at some point in time is the way I see it. Especially if you’ve added them as a friend.

There’s no reason to worry about it 😘

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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"No tips from me OP sorry. Basically I will end up chatting to them again at some point in time is the way I see it. Especially if you’ve added them as a friend.

There’s no reason to worry about it 😘"

I am not worried about it - it just seems a bit of a wasted opportunity.

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

Only speaking for myself but if I forget about someone it's because I'm not that into them.

So I would trust my natural response to follow up or not.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"No tips from me OP sorry. Basically I will end up chatting to them again at some point in time is the way I see it. Especially if you’ve added them as a friend.

There’s no reason to worry about it 😘

I am not worried about it - it just seems a bit of a wasted opportunity."

It’ll come back round again

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By *herrybakewellCouple
5 weeks ago

Staffordshire

If someones that keen, they will absolutely remember you.

Screenshot, adding to saved etc etc.

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By *ellhungvwe OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Cheltenham

General view seems to be it will come around again - which is what I tend to do anyway.

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