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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " Would help if you didn't lead with a dick pic on your profile and bothered to let people know what you are about. Contrary to what porn may make you think, women are not mesmerised by a penis. | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " No wonder with an attitude like that .. | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " Yet you are still hetr | |||
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"fact is that there are way more guys here.you have to make yourself stand out and at least look like you belong in the top 10%of most desirable guys .unfortunately you have to put the effort in to reap the benefits " Let's be brutally honest here ...... Quasimodo could make all the effort he likes. He could go all Gucci, get a six pack and have a Beckham Barber ...... without the basic raw essentials he is still not getting a reply. All the advice given that if men jump though hoops they will get a reply is simply not true. They either appeal to a woman or they don't ..... | |||
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"fact is that there are way more guys here.you have to make yourself stand out and at least look like you belong in the top 10%of most desirable guys .unfortunately you have to put the effort in to reap the benefits Let's be brutally honest here ...... Quasimodo could make all the effort he likes. He could go all Gucci, get a six pack and have a Beckham Barber ...... without the basic raw essentials he is still not getting a reply. All the advice given that if men jump though hoops they will get a reply is simply not true. They either appeal to a woman or they don't ..... " 100% facts. | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " So what did you do with the 6 people who gave you verifications - mime? | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " Yeah I get ya. Them women just talk to me like I’m a piece of meat 🍖  | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk Yeah I get ya. Them women just talk to me like I’m a piece of meat 🍖 "Get back in the kitchen I'm starvin | |||
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"We do if the connection is there which is very rare. " You know what I do with threads like this. I look at the profiles that agree, and roll my eyes | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk Yeah I get ya. Them women just talk to me like I’m a piece of meat 🍖
Get back in the kitchen I'm starvin "Can I at least wear an apron. The fat spits on my knob during fry ups | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk Yeah I get ya. Them women just talk to me like I’m a piece of meat 🍖
Get back in the kitchen I'm starvin Can I at least wear an apron. The fat spits on my knob during fry ups"Say please  | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk Yeah I get ya. Them women just talk to me like I’m a piece of meat 🍖
Get back in the kitchen I'm starvin Can I at least wear an apron. The fat spits on my knob during fry ups
Say please "Please can I wear an apron. I should probably strap in my knob too so it doesn't burn on the hob | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk Yeah I get ya. Them women just talk to me like I’m a piece of meat 🍖
Get back in the kitchen I'm starvin Can I at least wear an apron. The fat spits on my knob during fry ups
Say please Please can I wear an apron. I should probably strap in my knob too so it doesn't burn on the hob"Yes. The thought of deep fried penis is tempting.....but noooo | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk Yeah I get ya. Them women just talk to me like I’m a piece of meat 🍖
Get back in the kitchen I'm starvin Can I at least wear an apron. The fat spits on my knob during fry ups
Say please Please can I wear an apron. I should probably strap in my knob too so it doesn't burn on the hob
Yes. The thought of deep fried penis is tempting.....but noooo"smells like bacon 🥓 | |||
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"No. I don’t find it pointless OP. Not at all. If you do - perhaps you shouldn’t bother 🤷♂️" Good advice as always 🤣😘 | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " You've actually met people on here though, so it can't be that "pointless" | |||
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"No. I don’t find it pointless OP. Not at all. If you do - perhaps you shouldn’t bother 🤷♂️ Good advice as always 🤣😘" Thanks darling. Forgot to put.. Hope this helps 🌈 | |||
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"Be worth talking to..." And attractive. You have to be attractive. | |||
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"OP has 5 in person meets. Are we missing something?" 5 in 5 year | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. " Charge it to the game | |||
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"OP has 5 in person meets. Are we missing something? 5 in 5 year" I mean on here that would put you in the top 5% of men so yeah. | |||
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"OP has 5 in person meets. Are we missing something? 5 in 5 year I mean on here that would put you in the top 5% of men so yeah." Somehow that doesn't actually make me feel better.. | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " Maybe you've taken the wrong approach | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game" Amirite? | |||
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"Completely forgot I created this...ha The problem on here is you get talking but it never goes anywhere. It's just for people who just wanna boost their ego which is fair or people who wanna pass the time." You forgot to add but it doesn’t go anywhere… for you. Perhaps a change of approach is needed? 🤷♂️ | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite?" What game we playing? | |||
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"Yay, you changed your profile picture and it’s so much better. I’m not a fan of talking to a disembodied cock 😆" Yea I like to mix it up ha | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? What game we playing?" The game of life and the 'how much of the current vernacular can old ladies use?' game | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? What game we playing? The game of life and the 'how much of the current vernacular can old ladies use?' game "Depends on the old lady.. | |||
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"As a single guy, if i don't fancy ya I ain't messaging back, it's really that simple no matter what you write, I'm sure that's the same for the majority of people on here. " Good answer | |||
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"No man on here actually wants to type past 3 words to initiate talking to" Strongly disagree. I always say "Hey how's you?" | |||
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"No man on here actually wants to type past 3 words to initiate talking to" I can only speak for myself but I can definitely hold a conversation. Good conversation is just as stimulating. | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite?" Real. | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. " Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she  | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she "Well confused now ha | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she "It’s real or for real. But it’s a tough language to speak so you won’t be fluent straight away. Be kind to yourself | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she
Well confused now ha"She’s just trying to flirt with me | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she
Well confused now ha
She’s just trying to flirt with me "You sure it's she? | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she
Well confused now ha"We have a running joke between us around me not really understanding the way younger people speak. I hope you don't feel excluded from the conversation  | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she
It’s real or for real. But it’s a tough language to speak so you won’t be fluent straight away. Be kind to yourself" | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she
Well confused now ha
We have a running joke between us around me not really understanding the way younger people speak.
I hope you don't feel excluded from the conversation "
No not at all. Quite enjoying it ha | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she
Well confused now ha
We have a running joke between us around me not really understanding the way younger people speak.
I hope you don't feel excluded from the conversation
No not at all. Quite enjoying it ha"Good! | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she
Well confused now ha
We have a running joke between us around me not really understanding the way younger people speak.
I hope you don't feel excluded from the conversation
No not at all. Quite enjoying it ha
Good!
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she
Well confused now ha
We have a running joke between us around me not really understanding the way younger people speak.
I hope you don't feel excluded from the conversation
No not at all. Quite enjoying it ha
Good!
Keep it coming "Said the actress to the bishop | |||
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"End of the day it is what it is. Charge it to the game Amirite? Real. Damn! I've been say 'f'real' when an old lady at the bus stop tells me about her latest doctors appointment. She's going to think I'm out of touch now isn't she
Well confused now ha
We have a running joke between us around me not really understanding the way younger people speak.
I hope you don't feel excluded from the conversation
No not at all. Quite enjoying it ha
Good!
Keep it coming
Said the actress to the bishop"And the bishop duley obliged | |||
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"No man on here actually wants to type past 3 words to initiate talking to Strongly disagree. I always say "Hey how's you?"" As was said ........ 3 words. what does how's mean anyway ? Imagine I only get ONE message a day. I won't say hundreds like others, let's just say ONE And that message is..... Hey how's you? By the end of the week I have explained how's me seven times minimum. Exciting huh ? Now how'z u ? | |||
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"No man on here actually wants to type past 3 words to initiate talking to Strongly disagree. I always say "Hey how's you?" As was said ........ 3 words. what does how's mean anyway ? Imagine I only get ONE message a day. I won't say hundreds like others, let's just say ONE And that message is..... Hey how's you? By the end of the week I have explained how's me seven times minimum. Exciting huh ? Now how'z u ?" Agree, Granny… it feels like they’ve not read anything about me - the folk I engage with are the ones who shod they’ve read my stuff and even if it’s a no I do reply to them. I rarely block unless someone is messaging over and over without a response…. | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk Yeah I get ya. Them women just talk to me like I’m a piece of meat 🍖 "Cant for the life of me see why bro. 🤪🤣 | |||
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"No man on here actually wants to type past 3 words to initiate talking to" Bit of a generalisation, but I know what you mean. Some women can be the same to be fair. | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " Dick pics are an instant turn off, people don't bother to read the profile before messaging, really imaginative messages like "hi" or "hows you". Just remember women need men like a fish needs a bicycle. A strapon is the perfect substitute for the male species | |||
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"I’m currently sat at 1058 unread messages.. I’ve stopped opening messages with attachments in - if I wanted to see a collection of sausages I’d run down to the butchers.. I’ve stopped opening messages that start with ‘can we fuck’, ‘can I lick your pussy’, ‘do you want to watch me wank’… Contrary to popular belief (and yes I know what we’re all here for - hello, goes a long fucking way…. 😂" This!! Yes! Ok it’s a swingers site but we aren’t in the still people with feelings and not fuck dolls! | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " Yet you’ve had 5 meet verifications, were they organised in total silence ? That’s pretty good tbh | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " No. I've not found it pointless for almost two decades now. Fab life is what you choose to make it. If you're relying on the site as your primary source of sex then generally you'll be disappointed. If you use it as one tool in your box then chances are you'll enjoy it more and be more successful with your goals. Remember, 95% of people both on here and in real life won't be compatible with eachother, and folk usually won't want to chat with random strangers unless there's a reason, be that atttaction, interest in meeting or a specific conversation about a particular subject. They probably have plenty of friends to just chat to already. It's all about expectations. Have few and you'll rarely get frustrated/disappointed or unhappy. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"It works ok for me. Bombarding women with messages is the way forward." lmao | |||
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"We get so many messages from straight single guys saying “hi, love your profile” No they don’t, they love pictures of wifey and havnt read our profile, most of the time we block. But admittedly we aren’t the quickest at replying to any messages" Bingo! We had that on our couples profile. So we ditched it after 4 years, and we use this one as we get to choose and the inbox is empty now
We can reach out with verification pictures to any profile or just pick up the phone and facetime anyone that were interested in.
It saves the absolute bullshit barefaced lies every time that we used to get on our original profile. | |||
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"Nobody ever reads the profile that's the problem " Hard disagree  | |||
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"Nobody ever reads the profile that's the problem Hard disagree "have to disagree we get so many messages about 90% without face for one and waiting to meet now | |||
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"Nobody ever reads the profile that's the problem Hard disagree have to disagree we get so many messages about 90% without face for one and waiting to meet now "You stated 'nobody reads the profile'. That's an absolute statement. You are now backtracking and saying 90%. | |||
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"I think most guys thinks thus is a hook up site which it can be.. they misunderstood that it's also a lifestyle site for the swinging club scene where people meet and socialise " they learn pretty quickly it's not | |||
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"^^^ REASON TWO ignorant men with egos who think there know everything " 🤡🤡 | |||
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"Nobody ever reads the profile that's the problem Hard disagree have to disagree we get so many messages about 90% without face for one and waiting to meet now
You stated 'nobody reads the profile'. That's an absolute statement. You are now backtracking and saying 90%. "Semantics 😂 Stop nitpicking | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk Would help if you didn't lead with a dick pic on your profile and bothered to let people know what you are about. Contrary to what porn may make you think, women are not mesmerised by a penis. " Depends what they do with it, some real snake charmers out there or is that just snakes?  | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " I do, but most guys messages are less than 4 words or most of the interesting messages are copy and paste, yes I have had the same message sent 3 times in 3 weeks! Or if it's that rare interesting one, quick look at the profile and the photos are of his cock and ghe profile text has ten words in it. Marie x | |||
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"Nothings perfect. But it's free. No real adverts and some awesome people (obviously a lot of knobs) " Literally and figuratively | |||
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"Do you message ALL of the women O.P.? or just the ones you fancy ? Why don't you speak to ALL of the women, even the ones you don't like ? I hope you do otherwise I am going to have to get all moralistic and butt hurt and tell you how ignorant you are..... " Welcome to Granny’s real talk! X | |||
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"Do you message ALL of the women O.P.? or just the ones you fancy ? Why don't you speak to ALL of the women, even the ones you don't like ? I hope you do otherwise I am going to have to get all moralistic and butt hurt and tell you how ignorant you are..... Welcome to Granny’s real talk! X" I am a fan of Granny’s real talk she really can ground people and say how it is . Love her . X and have for years . As feel I know her now | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk I do, but most guys messages are less than 4 words or most of the interesting messages are copy and paste, yes I have had the same message sent 3 times in 3 weeks! Or if it's that rare interesting one, quick look at the profile and the photos are of his cock and ghe profile text has ten words in it. Marie x" This!!! ⬆️ So many guys send the exact same message every week. Clearly copied and pasted. They're probably the ones who complain that noone wants to chat. Well, why would we when they clearly have no conversation skills and can't adapt their approach to the person they claim to really want to get to know because they love their profile. Yet they've put no effort into their own profiles or messages, so why should I put effort into replying? | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk I do, but most guys messages are less than 4 words or most of the interesting messages are copy and paste, yes I have had the same message sent 3 times in 3 weeks! Or if it's that rare interesting one, quick look at the profile and the photos are of his cock and ghe profile text has ten words in it. Marie x This!!! ⬆️ So many guys send the exact same message every week. Clearly copied and pasted. They're probably the ones who complain that noone wants to chat. Well, why would we when they clearly have no conversation skills and can't adapt their approach to the person they claim to really want to get to know because they love their profile. Yet they've put no effort into their own profiles or messages, so why should I put effort into replying?" | |||
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"Rubbish post. My first lover lasted 20+ years. You want him to post every meet? He even got married in that time.! My new one is 7 months in. And I only have the account. Maybe you need a better profile. OP. Just little Denise rant xxxxx" Just a bit off topic but I thought you were a nun, just glancing at your profile pic Denise!! | |||
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"Yet if you dare say some people are just ignorant you're the problem " I mean to be fair, it would put me off talking to someone if they said I was ignorant . Or opened with bad mouthing other people. | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk I do, but most guys messages are less than 4 words or most of the interesting messages are copy and paste, yes I have had the same message sent 3 times in 3 weeks! Or if it's that rare interesting one, quick look at the profile and the photos are of his cock and ghe profile text has ten words in it. Marie x This!!! ⬆️ So many guys send the exact same message every week. Clearly copied and pasted. They're probably the ones who complain that noone wants to chat. Well, why would we when they clearly have no conversation skills and can't adapt their approach to the person they claim to really want to get to know because they love their profile. Yet they've put no effort into their own profiles or messages, so why should I put effort into replying?" I had the same message sent 4 times in one day 🫣 You would have thought he got the hint after the first delete. | |||
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"I've been polite an asked questions even answered the other peoples questions. sent my face pictures when asked also even wrote big story of what I like, to which was asked for , yet either a no response to anything ( even a sorry no intrest would be good ) but I get nothing, it's a shame for some that want to get into this scene yet can't. I'm honest an polite treat others as I want treated but unfortunately it doesn't work out like that ( rant over )" If you sent me a message that interested me, I would look at your profile and because you can not accomodate, that would be me say no thanks | |||
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"I do like a bit of irony at times. "• Tefal™ or Morphy Richards™, Grånny? | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk " Try a different approach. Full your profile in and say something about yourself. I have plenty of chats with different people. It's not going to be every message that you end up meeting though. That's not how it is. | |||
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"Very low expectations that women get in touch on here." Your profile pic..It's the leaning tower of penii | |||
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"I find if your message doesn't stand out or its a general one and not personal to the woman then you won't hardly get a reply " • Some/most men find that if your message is bespoke and personalised for the woman then you still may not get reply. They will (mostly) look at the profile first too see if it whets their appetite before opening the message, if at all. There are many variables to get noticed on here. | |||
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"I've found that a simple message such as "Fancy some sex now?" along with a picture of my cock againstthe backgroundof my unflushed toilet, works every time "Is that the only thing not hanging up on the wall in the tate modern? | |||
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"Anyone else find this sure pointless. No women actually wanna talk Would help if you didn't lead with a dick pic on your profile and bothered to let people know what you are about. Contrary to what porn may make you think, women are not mesmerised by a penis. " Here, here Mr AC! I'm warming to you! 😊 For OP you have not alluded to why you say some are ignorant? Us ladies get messages from men who say I can't be bothered to fill in my bio just ask. No your job is to tell us about yourself so we're attracted enough to your profile to make contact. We're not here to ask you questions because you're too lazy. Also dont send messages to women who clearly state what their preference is and you're not it! | |||
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"Yet if you dare say some people are just ignorant you're the problem " Maybe they just don't want to talk to you personally. I can't imagine why though. You come across so well. | |||
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