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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have friends who we really wish were swingers. They are a couple. How would we bring up the subject without scaring them off? Xx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Have you tried Pampas grass on your front lawn?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Say you heard someone talking about it and what do they think of that? Go from

there....

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"Have you tried Pampas grass on your front lawn?"
got a bit worried when i went round to visit my mum and stepdad and they was busy digging up their pampas grass, did make me smile though

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

personaly, if any of my friends chose to come into this lifestyle i wouldnt play with them, there is always the potential for it to ruin the original friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask if they saw the C4 programme about dogging and look at there reaction

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Have you tried Pampas grass on your front lawn?got a bit worried when i went round to visit my mum and stepdad and they was busy digging up their pampas grass, did make me smile though "

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you tried Pampas grass on your front lawn?"

Pampas Grass????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personaly, if any of my friends chose to come into this lifestyle i wouldnt play with them, there is always the potential for it to ruin the original friendship"

We have done this dance... All our real friends know what we do, some have even been to swinging clubs with us and are often curious enough to ask questions.. The conversation then has turned to "do we want and shall we?" But the fear of ruining a great friendship has always stopped us...

But as to the OP original question, if they are good enough friends that you want to play with. Do they know you swing?? Maybe sound that one out first??

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Have you tried Pampas grass on your front lawn?

Pampas Grass????"

It's an urban myth that swingers in the 60's and 70's would alert other local swingers to their presence by growing Pampas grass in their front lawn.

But it's true about the garden gnomes.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"personaly, if any of my friends chose to come into this lifestyle i wouldnt play with them, there is always the potential for it to ruin the original friendship"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time you meet them throw your car keys at them. Also get mrs to wear an anklet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Next time you meet them throw your car keys at them. Also get mrs to wear an anklet "

Lol at anklet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy them a sticker for their caravan?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Buy them a sticker for their caravan?"

Or a fish symbol for their car....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Buy them a sticker for their caravan?

Or a fish symbol for their car...."

If you so get a fish symbol, you have to put it top to bottom, so it looks like a vagina.

If you put it the normal way, people just think you go with Christ!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

It would be so much easier if you just wore a t.shirt saying "I am a swinger"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried Pampas grass on your front lawn?

Pampas Grass????

It's an urban myth that swingers in the 60's and 70's would alert other local swingers to their presence by growing Pampas grass in their front lawn.

But it's true about the garden gnomes."

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