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By *ir Girth a lot OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Wokingham

Tell me fellow fab people.

How many times have you found someone hot but you’re only just outside their preferred age range.

I absolutely respect people’s preferences and choices and I’m in no way complaining. It’s all part of the game.

Doesn’t mean you can’t be gutted though 😂😂

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By *peedyGMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

Yes it happens a lot to me too, unfortunately not much you can do about it.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Dartford

Yeah, it's a shame when this happens, like what difference does a year make r8ght?

Mrs x

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

At 51 I should find I’m out of range for more than I do, but I find its more often guys too young in my inbox.

That said I’ve never sent a first message on here.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
4 weeks ago

Next Door

Im finding im out of people's age ranges now.

Im not moaning about it, it is what it is

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends

I’m too young for nearly all the women I fancy. Charge it to the game

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends


"Im finding im out of people's age ranges now.

Im not moaning about it, it is what it is

"

👀🙆🏾‍♂️

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Yes OP. I’m sadly finding it very difficult to find a 99 year old into SM 🤷‍♂️

Ah well…

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By *eb51Man
4 weeks ago

kings lynn

Alot at my age.

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By *eliWoman
4 weeks ago

.

Never. Joy of having a pre-middle age vagina.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
4 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity


"Yes OP. I’m sadly finding it very difficult to find a 99 year old into SM 🤷‍♂️

Ah well…"

😂😂😂

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By *mmaleiaWoman
4 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I get a lot of 34 year olds wink at me, I must stay strong!!!!

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

Sorry OP. I get attention from pretty much all age groups. I feel like I'm in a sweet spot but will soon age out of it. Oh well.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Dartford


"Sorry OP. I get attention from pretty much all age groups. I feel like I'm in a sweet spot but will soon age out of it. Oh well."

Nothing to do with your age my lovely. You're just a hottie x

Mrs x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

I dread when I reach 100.

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By *ir Girth a lot OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Wokingham


"Sorry OP. I get attention from pretty much all age groups. I feel like I'm in a sweet spot but will soon age out of it. Oh well."

I imagine that you just get attention from everyone!! Wow 🔥

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By *arkdawsonMan
4 weeks ago

santry


"Tell me fellow fab people.

How many times have you found someone hot but you’re only just outside their preferred age range.

I absolutely respect people’s preferences and choices and I’m in no way complaining. It’s all part of the game.

Doesn’t mean you can’t be gutted though 😂😂"

Most times you can still txt if you can shoot your shot

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By *heonixrising500Man
4 weeks ago

Barnsley

73 and not many reply

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By *um2me123Man
4 weeks ago

burin

Thats why my age preference is 18 to 80 blind, cripples and crazy...lol

Just kidding

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By *arkdawsonMan
4 weeks ago

santry


"73 and not many reply"

Maybe say 60 bud ? Your only knocking a few years off

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

Never. If they are outside my age filters or I'm outside theirs we aren't compatible so therefore they aren't hot.

Strangely enough I don't find profiles on fab hot. I find people hot and only when I've met them and found common ground.

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By *arkdawsonMan
4 weeks ago

santry


"Thats why my age preference is 18 to 80 blind, cripples and crazy...lol

Just kidding"

Take em all

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By *otlipsxx86Man
4 weeks ago

northwich


"Tell me fellow fab people.

How many times have you found someone hot but you’re only just outside their preferred age range.

I absolutely respect people’s preferences and choices and I’m in no way complaining. It’s all part of the game.

Doesn’t mean you can’t be gutted though 😂😂"

So frustrating

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By *arkdawsonMan
4 weeks ago

santry


"Never. If they are outside my age filters or I'm outside theirs we aren't compatible so therefore they aren't hot.

Strangely enough I don't find profiles on fab hot. I find people hot and only when I've met them and found common ground. "

Mate my ex was 22 I was 36 look if it’s a year or two out id have no problem dropping a txt and make it clear my age

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

I get what you mean OP. I'm turning 30 this year and the doors it's gonna open for me is gonna hit like crack 😂

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast


"Never. If they are outside my age filters or I'm outside theirs we aren't compatible so therefore they aren't hot.

Strangely enough I don't find profiles on fab hot. I find people hot and only when I've met them and found common ground.

Mate my ex was 22 I was 36 look if it’s a year or two out id have no problem dropping a txt and make it clear my age "

My age filters aren't flexible so I've no interest in anyone outside them.

I don't message people I've no interest in.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Stockport

We noticed a change at 50 , but now at 55 , it's real change

And then we meet people st a club or party , they say we will message you , and then are shocked when we're out of their age range !

You can't win lol

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By *eordieJeansCouple
4 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I don’t think I could be gutted by missing out on someone because of a couple of pictures and some text that might be a load of lies.

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By *ub with a ChubbMan
4 weeks ago

Southwest & Cork City

50 seems a big cut-off age, soon as I hit 51 last month, the number of matches dropped by over 70.

Just gotta respect a person's preference and move on.

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By *arkdawsonMan
4 weeks ago

santry


"Never. If they are outside my age filters or I'm outside theirs we aren't compatible so therefore they aren't hot.

Strangely enough I don't find profiles on fab hot. I find people hot and only when I've met them and found common ground.

Mate my ex was 22 I was 36 look if it’s a year or two out id have no problem dropping a txt and make it clear my age

My age filters aren't flexible so I've no interest in anyone outside them.

I don't message people I've no interest in. "

That’s fantastic mate

Anyway I was talking to OP at the beginning and that’s my advice to him not sure why you had to chime in there and grill us all about your preferences and boundaries on here !

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By *rew2475Man
4 weeks ago

cleckheaton

Don’t know about all you 57 is seemingly not a popular age

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast


"Never. If they are outside my age filters or I'm outside theirs we aren't compatible so therefore they aren't hot.

Strangely enough I don't find profiles on fab hot. I find people hot and only when I've met them and found common ground.

Mate my ex was 22 I was 36 look if it’s a year or two out id have no problem dropping a txt and make it clear my age

My age filters aren't flexible so I've no interest in anyone outside them.

I don't message people I've no interest in.

That’s fantastic mate

Anyway I was talking to OP at the beginning and that’s my advice to him not sure why you had to chime in there and grill us all about your preferences and boundaries on here !

"

First day on the internet?

Op asked a question which I answered. I didn't comment on anyone else's preferences.

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By *arkdawsonMan
4 weeks ago

santry

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By *arkdawsonMan
4 weeks ago

santry


"Never. If they are outside my age filters or I'm outside theirs we aren't compatible so therefore they aren't hot.

Strangely enough I don't find profiles on fab hot. I find people hot and only when I've met them and found common ground.

Mate my ex was 22 I was 36 look if it’s a year or two out id have no problem dropping a txt and make it clear my age

My age filters aren't flexible so I've no interest in anyone outside them.

I don't message people I've no interest in.

That’s fantastic mate

Anyway I was talking to OP at the beginning and that’s my advice to him not sure why you had to chime in there and grill us all about your preferences and boundaries on here !

First day on the internet?

Op asked a question which I answered. I didn't comment on anyone else's preferences."

mate your 60 I just went over your message again look not arguing just surprised a man of 60 on here would be so highly strung about age

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast


"Never. If they are outside my age filters or I'm outside theirs we aren't compatible so therefore they aren't hot.

Strangely enough I don't find profiles on fab hot. I find people hot and only when I've met them and found common ground.

Mate my ex was 22 I was 36 look if it’s a year or two out id have no problem dropping a txt and make it clear my age

My age filters aren't flexible so I've no interest in anyone outside them.

I don't message people I've no interest in.

That’s fantastic mate

Anyway I was talking to OP at the beginning and that’s my advice to him not sure why you had to chime in there and grill us all about your preferences and boundaries on here !

First day on the internet?

Op asked a question which I answered. I didn't comment on anyone else's preferences.mate your 60 I just went over your message again look not arguing just surprised a man of 60 on here would be so highly strung about age "

What has my age got to do with anything? I'm not hung up on it. I have kids in their 30s and I'm not attracted to people that age so I've set my filters high and it has never been an issue. My age has never stopped me from meeting people. I don't need to look outside my age filters so when the op asks his question I gave an answer based on my fab experience.

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By *arkdawsonMan
4 weeks ago

santry


"Never. If they are outside my age filters or I'm outside theirs we aren't compatible so therefore they aren't hot.

Strangely enough I don't find profiles on fab hot. I find people hot and only when I've met them and found common ground.

Mate my ex was 22 I was 36 look if it’s a year or two out id have no problem dropping a txt and make it clear my age

My age filters aren't flexible so I've no interest in anyone outside them.

I don't message people I've no interest in.

That’s fantastic mate

Anyway I was talking to OP at the beginning and that’s my advice to him not sure why you had to chime in there and grill us all about your preferences and boundaries on here !

First day on the internet?

Op asked a question which I answered. I didn't comment on anyone else's preferences.mate your 60 I just went over your message again look not arguing just surprised a man of 60 on here would be so highly strung about age

What has my age got to do with anything? I'm not hung up on it. I have kids in their 30s and I'm not attracted to people that age so I've set my filters high and it has never been an issue. My age has never stopped me from meeting people. I don't need to look outside my age filters so when the op asks his question I gave an answer based on my fab experience."

sounded more like you where directing your opinion at me ? anyway your boring the life out of me no stress you stick to your guns wish you all the best

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By *ute AfrodisiacMan
4 weeks ago

London

Gonna be honest. When I first joined, I thought that I would be the perfect age for swinging. I thought there would be several women looking for a young guy in his 20s to have fun with. Funny thing, the most popular age I noticed for women seeking men is 30-35. Must be that those women are looking for someone as young as possible who comes with experience and maturity so 30s is good enough

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By *isskxxyvWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading


"Tell me fellow fab people.

How many times have you found someone hot but you’re only just outside their preferred age range.

I absolutely respect people’s preferences and choices and I’m in no way complaining. It’s all part of the game.

Doesn’t mean you can’t be gutted though 😂😂"

I’m sure you’re over most age limits, grandad.

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton

Im just here for the comments 🤣🍿🍿

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By *ir Girth a lot OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Wokingham


"Tell me fellow fab people.

How many times have you found someone hot but you’re only just outside their preferred age range.

I absolutely respect people’s preferences and choices and I’m in no way complaining. It’s all part of the game.

Doesn’t mean you can’t be gutted though 😂😂

Oi, cheeky!! I have a good mind to put you over my knee and give you a jolly good spanking 😈

I’m sure you’re over most age limits, grandad."

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By *isskxxyvWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading


"Tell me fellow fab people.

How many times have you found someone hot but you’re only just outside their preferred age range.

I absolutely respect people’s preferences and choices and I’m in no way complaining. It’s all part of the game.

Doesn’t mean you can’t be gutted though 😂😂

Oi, cheeky!! I have a good mind to put you over my knee and give you a jolly good spanking 😈

I’m sure you’re over most age limits, grandad."

You can’t even quote properly. That really does show age 🙃🤣

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By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah, old git here. Age happens.

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By *ir Girth a lot OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Wokingham


"Tell me fellow fab people.

How many times have you found someone hot but you’re only just outside their preferred age range.

I absolutely respect people’s preferences and choices and I’m in no way complaining. It’s all part of the game.

Doesn’t mean you can’t be gutted though 😂😂

Oi, cheeky!! I have a good mind to put you over my knee and give you a jolly good spanking 😈

I’m sure you’re over most age limits, grandad.

You can’t even quote properly. That really does show age 🙃🤣"

Ffs 🤦🏼‍♂️

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

4 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

My partners are 31 & 32.

There's hope for everyone. 🤷‍♂️

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends


"I get what you mean OP. I'm turning 30 this year and the doors it's gonna open for me is gonna hit like crack 😂"

Like crack in the 80s

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends


"My partners are 31 & 32.

There's hope for everyone. 🤷‍♂️

"

When are you 50?

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By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"My partners are 31 & 32.

There's hope for everyone. 🤷‍♂️

"

Is that an invite?!

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By *infullyObedientWoman
4 weeks ago

Woodley

Which is worse though not getting through filters due to age or nit being entirely truthful about your age in the first place to get through filters? 🤔

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

4 weeks ago

East Sussex

I smile wryly to myself when people over 20 years younger than me bemoan being out of age ranges.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends


"Which is worse though not getting through filters due to age or nit being entirely truthful about your age in the first place to get through filters? 🤔"
men who lie about their age do well on here. There’s quite a few of them

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby


"Which is worse though not getting through filters due to age or nit being entirely truthful about your age in the first place to get through filters? 🤔

men who lie about their age do well on here. There’s quite a few of them"

Yep, as soon as men hit 50 or 55, stick to that age to show they're not geriatric as fuck

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By *estinysswingersCouple
4 weeks ago

Worsley

Buy a DeLorean.

I heard if you reach 88mph you can go back in time.

You might be able to message them then.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends


"Which is worse though not getting through filters due to age or nit being entirely truthful about your age in the first place to get through filters? 🤔

men who lie about their age do well on here. There’s quite a few of them

Yep, as soon as men hit 50 or 55, stick to that age to show they're not geriatric as fuck"

And women let them of every time. So they keep doing it. SMH

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Which is worse though not getting through filters due to age or nit being entirely truthful about your age in the first place to get through filters? 🤔

men who lie about their age do well on here. There’s quite a few of them

Yep, as soon as men hit 50 or 55, stick to that age to show they're not geriatric as fuck"

You’ve changed JB. You used to be so quiet 😘

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By *isskxxyvWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

OP probably lies about his age also, looking at least mid 50s in proper lightning 🙃🙃

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By *sStephenPickleMan
4 weeks ago

Ends


"OP probably lies about his age also, looking at least mid 50s in proper lightning 🙃🙃"
dfkm. 😭😭😭

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By *littyclittybangbangMan
4 weeks ago

Kenilworth

I don't lie about my age. Strange thing is, I look alot younger than alot of old school mates. And even some in early 50s. But, age limits are there for a reason. Not fitness levels or how young you look I guess. I've definitely noticed a drop off over the years.

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby


"Which is worse though not getting through filters due to age or nit being entirely truthful about your age in the first place to get through filters? 🤔

men who lie about their age do well on here. There’s quite a few of them

Yep, as soon as men hit 50 or 55, stick to that age to show they're not geriatric as fuck

And women let them of every time. So they keep doing it. SMH"

Absolute enablers, the lot of them 👀😆

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

4 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"My partners are 31 & 32.

There's hope for everyone. 🤷‍♂️

When are you 50? "

Ever wasted three hours of your life watching Benjamin Button.....😉😂😂

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
4 weeks ago

Altrincham

I did have strict age filters but I've given up with them, it's all about the person and how well we get on

👸🏼

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By *JB1954Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

I find more annoying . Profile age is one that I can message. Then read bio . States clearly any messages above X age will be deleted etc. which normally at least ten plus minus my age .

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By *arkdawsonMan
4 weeks ago

santry


"Im just here for the comments 🤣🍿🍿"

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By *arkdawsonMan
4 weeks ago

santry


"I get what you mean OP. I'm turning 30 this year and the doors it's gonna open for me is gonna hit like crack 😂

Like crack in the 80s"

You’d know mate ! hell of a time right !

So that’s what your doing in your mothers basement

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton


"Im just here for the comments 🤣🍿🍿

"

Hahaha

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By *ikesEmBigMan
4 weeks ago

Bristol


"Im just here for the comments 🤣🍿🍿

Hahaha"

you're just lucky I'm not 20 minutes younger young lady

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By *emptme1993Man
4 weeks ago

manchester

I’ve found it’s not really changed things getting older apart from I don’t call myself young anymore 🤦‍♂️

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By *uke_silverMan
4 weeks ago

London


"

How many times have you found someone hot but you’re only just outside their preferred age range.

"

The number is too damn high! In fact, my fab title should be professional age range moaner. The amount of copium I've huffed is embarrassing. 😅

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By *ust and PoundCouple
4 weeks ago

Cheshire

We've found ourselves in this position. Have to respect their preference, so just send a link if we're out by a year or so. Just to let them know we liked their profile.

Our preference is 25-50, but we've set it at 24-51 as we wouldn't want to miss out on someone great because they're 1 year out.

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By *hickthighs25Woman
4 weeks ago

Stockton


"Im just here for the comments 🤣🍿🍿

Hahahayou're just lucky I'm not 20 minutes younger young lady"

I know sorry you just missed the cut off

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
4 weeks ago

All over the place

Lots since I turned 40

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By *r SensualMan
4 weeks ago

London


"Tell me fellow fab people.

How many times have you found someone hot but you’re only just outside their preferred age range.

I absolutely respect people’s preferences and choices and I’m in no way complaining. It’s all part of the game.

Doesn’t mean you can’t be gutted though 😂😂"

I take “preferred” age ranges on here with a pinch of salt. Have had a few break their rule on this for me a fair few times. When I say “break their rule” this is their words not mine

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By *cflirtyMan
4 weeks ago

Hampshire

It does happen! Sometimes the rules can be bent but if not ... it is what it is!!

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By *ansoffateMan
4 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

It's ok - I don't mind being old, it makes me comfortable being a grouchy arlarse.

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By *enk15Man
4 weeks ago

Evesham

Age doesn't come up as a problem too often, usually I hit a brick wall when I find out I'm just over ugly 😅

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