FabSwingers.com forum: Vanity🥺

By *isskxxyv OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Reading

Dentist this morning, numbing bla bla bla.

I noticed this afternoon when smiling it was still numb and I couldn’t smile properly!

It felt like the end of the world and I really panicked that my face may be permanently like this..

There’s so much going on in the world and all I care about is this, I’m so shallow!!

So my question is, would this bother you this much? How do you judge your vanity?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
5 weeks ago

Reading

I'm pretty unvain tbh. I'll make the effort sometimes the rest of the time I'm pretty relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Vanity, vanity all is Vanity.

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By *aizyWoman
5 weeks ago

west midlands

Through the day I don't bother wearing make up, only really wear it if I'm going out, if I can leave the house in the morning and I've remembered to brush my hair, that is a good day for me! 💪

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By *aughtyPeepzMan
5 weeks ago

London

I think We're all vain in one way or another

It's normal to be. Just some are more obvious about it than others

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
5 weeks ago

Essex

I don’t think a smile is vanity. A smile from someone can brighten up a day.

I think I’m kinda vain. I like to express my personality through my clothing choices.

A bit of pride doesn’t make you a bad person.

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By *ildatheart30Couple
5 weeks ago

Gorebridge

I had no feeling in one side of my nose for over a month once after getting a tooth out it's a horrible feeling, just because other people have worse problems doesn't make yours invalid and the fact that you're asking this question shows a healthy ability to self reflect so don't beat yourself up

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 weeks ago

Springfield

Nothing to worry about long term OP as long as the dentures fit.

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By *cLovin2Man
5 weeks ago

London

"Dentist this morning, numbing bla bla bla.

I noticed this afternoon when smiling it was still numb and I couldn’t smile properly!

It felt like the end of the world and I really panicked that my face may be permanently like this..

There’s so much going on in the world and all I care about is this, I’m so shallow!!

So my question is, would this bother you this much? How do you judge your vanity?"

OP a little vanity is a necessary evil in the modern world. Which dentist in Reading was it?

I happen to have an appointment tomorrow morning too.

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
5 weeks ago

Sheffield

Any physical change is going to be a shock, particularly if it's your face. That bit of panic is entirely natural and not really vanity.

You'd be vain if you were still panicking about it.

I had a bells palsy (partial facial paralysis) and it was a pain in the ass. I didn't panic about what people might think, but that was partly because I was glad I wasn't having a stroke.

Admittedly the micro aggressions from some colleagues who clearly were horribly vain were kinda sad though.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
5 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

With a face like mine, how could I be vain

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By *aizyWoman
5 weeks ago

west midlands

Meant to say worrying that numbing stuff won't wear off isn't vanity! Everytime I go to the dentist and they use that stuff I panic its not gonna wear off.

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By *zeroMan
5 weeks ago

Glasgow

At least your hair looks nice

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By *peedyGMan
5 weeks ago

Telford

One side of my nose was numb for what felt like months (probably like 6 weeks or so), it's not vain it's normal to worry.

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By *carlettsWoman
5 weeks ago

Harpenden

"Through the day I don't bother wearing make up, only really wear it if I'm going out, if I can leave the house in the morning and I've remembered to brush my hair, that is a good day for me! 💪"

I'm the same never used to leave the house without makeup hair nice etc now if I'm dressed correctly that's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

It helps if you don't rely on your looks in the first place

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By *isskxxyv OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Reading

"Nothing to worry about long term OP as long as the dentures fit.

That’s what I was worrying about! My lip was droopy so they kept falling out 🥺🥺

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"It helps if you don't rely on your looks in the first place"

I didn't mean you personally, OP.

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By *isskxxyv OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Reading

"Meant to say worrying that numbing stuff won't wear off isn't vanity! Everytime I go to the dentist and they use that stuff I panic its not gonna wear off."

Absolutely pooped my pants. Thought I was overreacting 🤣

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By *exyInLatinMan
5 weeks ago

Warsop

Everyone likes to feel and look good but there obvs different levels for each person, I would say it starts to become vanity when you judge both you own and other people’s worth based on looks which is clearly not a good thing!!

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By *peedyGMan
5 weeks ago

Telford

"Everyone likes to feel and look good but there obvs different levels for each person, I would say it starts to become vanity when you judge both you own and other people’s worth based on looks which is clearly not a good thing!! "

Agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I am incredibly vain. I'm aware that I'm weird looking and somewhat insect like but if I'm looking "hot" I will constantly check myself out.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Chichester

"I am incredibly vain. I'm aware that I'm weird looking and somewhat insect like but if I'm looking "hot" I will constantly check myself out. "

I salute you

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By *eyond PurityCouple
5 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I’m very aware of how people look at you different if you have something wrong on your face - I’ve had black eyes from football and people definitely look and you can see the recoil before they correct themselves.

I shave my head and I used to be more vain with hair; now I don’t really care. I think giving less of a fuck what people think is an age thing.

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 weeks ago

Springfield

"Nothing to worry about long term OP as long as the dentures fit.

That’s what I was worrying about! My lip was droopy so they kept falling out 🥺🥺"

🤣🤣

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yes it would bother me and yes I'm vain.

My mum was whatever the opposite of vain is and thought I was indulging in one of the seven deadly sins because I moisturise my legs.

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By *issmorganWoman
5 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It would bother me if I couldn't smile properly, so if that makes me vain, so be it.

I had bells palsy a few years ago and my mouth was really wonky for a few weeks. I was very self conscious about it & people stared when I was out.

I'm not vain as in wearing much make up of having any treatments etc.

When I go to work like today, I only wear mascara & that's because I have v pale eyelashes.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
5 weeks ago

Ends

I feel sad when I look in the mirror and worry I might be unattractive. That’s vanity.

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By *ea monkeyMan
5 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

But could you pout still?

I’ve not seen a picture with your smile

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By *ea monkeyMan
5 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I feel sad when I look in the mirror and worry I might be unattractive. That’s vanity. "

You’re a beautiful human to your core, Steve

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By *ookie46Woman
5 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m facing up to losing my hair soon but I’ve come to peace with that

I’m gonna be the most glamorous bald woman this summer with the cutest headwear and can’t wait for all the different looks wigs may bring 🥰

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I barely look in the mirror OP.

I’m just me. Always just me 😘

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I’m facing up to losing my hair soon but I’ve come to peace with that

I’m gonna be the most glamorous bald woman this summer with the cutest headwear and can’t wait for all the different looks wigs may bring 🥰"

You are going to look gorgeous as always ♥️

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
5 weeks ago

North West

"I’m facing up to losing my hair soon but I’ve come to peace with that

I’m gonna be the most glamorous bald woman this summer with the cutest headwear and can’t wait for all the different looks wigs may bring 🥰"

You definitely will 😍

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By *ou only live onceMan
5 weeks ago

London

It would bother me greatly. More than it should.

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By *ad NannaWoman
5 weeks ago

East London

If my special men friends weren't horrified by it, I wouldn't worry so much.

I think I already get away with a lot with my long term buddy.

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By *sWyldWoman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I am not really one of those beautiful types to really warrant being vain.

As someone who spends most of her life never feeling good enough/attractive enough, I can imagine its a pretty shitty experience if you aren't used to feeling insecure.

Don't beat yourself up over it

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By *punk n gushCouple
5 weeks ago

deal

Think we can all be vain at times but like others say its a case of a good day if I've done my hair and got dressed and actually felt well enough to leave the house this year

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