FabSwingers.com forum: Any advice on arranging a Will

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not the cheeriest of subjects but something I've been delaying for a while.

It's already creating arguments and I wondered if any of you good folk had any advice to offer ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good lawyer will be able to advise and that might help sort the arguments. Depends on what you're disagreeing about really. Charitable donations are exempt from inheritance tax and help reduce that liability so leave it all to the cats home!

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By *obbygggMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Spend everything you have and leave your best wishes in the will.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

I had a will since I was sixteen. It has gotten changed over the years by having children etc. I have items that have been in my family for years that have been given to those that I think will enjoy and cherish them the most. My money that I gained though other people's will's has already been put into trust for my daughter.

My advice is if you have money either give it before or have a good lawyer to reduce how much the treasury gets at the end.

Just remember two out of three guide dogs are from wills. Live long and give the tax man nothing as jimmy Carr would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visit a lawyer and just instruct him to write the words:

Leave everything to Ben on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leave everything to me.. lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

only thing I really no is that if there are family member you wish to cut out make sure you leave them 1p if you don't they can argue you had mearly forgot them while on your death bed.........iv a close family can you tell lmfao

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Funny you should mention wills as im in the process of making one, im writing it all out what i want in one and then going to the solicitor to get it done.

Remember, its not just about material things but your wishes about your funeral ect ect. Ive already got an advanced statement.

If you have wowcher they have a will writing offer that comes up every so often with a professional lawyer. I will be using my own solicitor but its a good offer

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"leave everything to me.. lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ring around a few solicitors and get a quote. A standard Will is usually a set fee, a more complex will be charged at an hourly rate.

Don't waste your money on will writing companies or buying a diy pack from WH Smith. Whilst this seems a cheaper option, they are fraught with difficulties when you die and the will comes into effect. You don't want everything you've ever worked for to be contested at a time your family will be grieving. A lot of these companies won't get the best advice regarding bequests and lots will offer to store the will, never to be found again.

For the cost of around £300 you will have peace of mind and solicitors are governed by the Law Society and your will can be stored in their vaults, let family know you've made a will and where to contact.

Let solicitors do the job they are paid for and you will benefit from good legal advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny you should mention wills as im in the process of making one, im writing it all out what i want in one and then going to the solicitor to get it done.

Remember, its not just about material things but your wishes about your funeral ect ect. Ive already got an advanced statement.

If you have wowcher they have a will writing offer that comes up every so

often with a professional lawyer. I will be using my own solicitor but its a good offer"

I personally wouldn't go with any offers from Internet sites, even if they promise a fully qualified lawyer.

Go to an established solicitors firm. Don't cut corners, wills are important, especially if you have property

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Funny you should mention wills as im in the process of making one, im writing it all out what i want in one and then going to the solicitor to get it done.

Remember, its not just about material things but your wishes about your funeral ect ect. Ive already got an advanced statement.

If you have wowcher they have a will writing offer that comes up every so

often with a professional lawyer. I will be using my own solicitor but its a good offer

I personally wouldn't go with any offers from Internet sites, even if they promise a fully qualified lawyer.

Go to an established solicitors firm. Don't cut corners, wills are important, especially if you have property

Nor would i, thats why im using my own solicitor, but some people might want to thats why i mentioned it

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

search your local solicitors for comparison charges.

give cash to those beneficiary's well before you pop off..

leaving nothing to the tax man

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"only thing I really no is that if there are family member you wish to cut out make sure you leave them 1p if you don't they can argue you had mearly forgot them while on your death bed.........iv a close family can you tell lmfao

I have a clause in my will, explicitly explaining that a certain family memeber has been omitted and the reason why, this was advised by my lawyer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. Some very good advice. Some very funny advice.

And to my dear friend Ben off Fab, sorry mate but there is F.A in the pot for you

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