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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I pride my self on my honesty but sometimes i wonder should i be as honest as i am?

Im at college studying an electrical abd emectronic engineering course and im in a group of mixed age from 18 - 32ish.

I heard a couple if the younger lads talking and the topic was one guy was wanting to have a baby with his gf (17 year old and also in college). Aparently their parents were happy for them and encouraging them. As soon as he told me my initial reaction and words were "you frigging idiot are you stupid?" Followed my many repetions of similar sentences. This lad seemed deadly serious and set on it!

He is 19 no job, struggles massively to do this course (which upon finishing leaves two options uni for a degree or uni to do hnc) and only two weeks ago he was wondering how to bin this lass off!!!!

Should i have gave him my honest and blunt opinion that i thought he was a damn right idiot that he and his girlfriend were even contemplating having a child never mind actively trying or should i have just let him make IMO make a huge mistake?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

You gave him your opinion...sounds like his mind is made up though.....

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Never tell a teenager what they can/cant do....

Reason i was married at 16

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never tell a teenager what they can/cant do....

Reason i was married at 16 "

Ha ha yeah he went home straight after that lesson, im guessing to "try a bit harder"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Worst words my mother ever said to me was "dont do it" thats why i keep my noise out of callums relationships, things sometimes just fizzle out

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leave the lad alone is my opinion...

some people can surprise u, when it comes to having kids...and that can be for the better

anyway..I wouldnt really want some guy who just happens to be around me telling me I'm an idiot

and remember some guys talk pish...'ready to ditch the gf' talk is pretty commonplace amongst many young folk...probably especially guys as they dont like appearing soft n under the thumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you jezza in disguise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your entitled to your own opinion, i wouldnt worry about it too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your entitled to your own opinion, i wouldnt worry about it too much "

Theres a bit of a difference between giving an opinion when its asked for, and butting into a conversation and giving it!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

My son was 18 when he had my grandson...

Was I happy and encouraging?? NO!!

Did I show my disappointment and tell them they were idiots? NO!!

I bit my tongue and let them get on with their own lives....

I have 2 lovely grandchildren now thanx to my son...and im proud of both parents and how they have coped with it...

Both working and in their own home...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your entitled to your own opinion, i wouldnt worry about it too much

Theres a bit of a difference between giving an opinion when its asked for, and butting into a conversation and giving it!"

Cant see where it says in the OP's post that he butted in lol? He said he gave his opinion once the guy told him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your entitled to your own opinion, i wouldnt worry about it too much

Theres a bit of a difference between giving an opinion when its asked for, and butting into a conversation and giving it!"

Never butted in at all, the conversation was going on and the idea was put to me which is why i gave my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"leave the lad alone is my opinion...

some people can surprise u, when it comes to having kids...and that can be for the better

anyway..I wouldnt really want some guy who just happens to be around me telling me I'm an idiot

and remember some guys talk pish...'ready to ditch the gf' talk is pretty commonplace amongst many young folk...probably especially guys as they dont like appearing soft n under the thumb"

Totally understand where youre coming from until the last paragraph. The lad cheats and theyre constantly breaking up with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are a sensible person good for you for giving him good advice, its a shame they have such idiotic parents.

he doesnt stand a chance realy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you jezza in disguise "

Lol yeah put something on the end of it

More to the point Ducka what on earth is that on your willy ( red photo) and even more perplexing what is going on with that can of Lynx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you jezza in disguise

Lol yeah put something on the end of it

More to the point Ducka what on earth is that on your willy ( red photo) and even more perplexing what is going on with that can of Lynx "

theyre just some tongue in cheek photos the red one is a football sock ie put a sock on it! the second is my little poke at the people who measure things with cans on lynx i decided to show how massive my arse was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's okay then

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"you are a sensible person good for you for giving him good advice, its a shame they have such idiotic parents.

he doesnt stand a chance realy. "

How do you know what their parents are like? Do you know them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you are a sensible person good for you for giving him good advice, its a shame they have such idiotic parents.

he doesnt stand a chance realy.

How do you know what their parents are like? Do you know them? "

obviously not. its pretty obvious though.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"you are a sensible person good for you for giving him good advice, its a shame they have such idiotic parents.

he doesnt stand a chance realy.

How do you know what their parents are like? Do you know them?

obviously not. its pretty obvious though."

Why is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You was telling him how you felt .. Was your values how you feel and maybe it made him look at things not in his rose colored glasses ,,, maybe he think if thay have a baby get a house , from the council ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You was telling him how you felt .. Was your values how you feel and maybe it made him look at things not in his rose colored glasses ,,, maybe he think if thay have a baby get a house , from the council ?"

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