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Why did you join fab? Meet or fantasise?

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By *ondonbristol24 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Bristol

I joined as a couple and now a single, never managed a meet despite a lot of effort.

Do you guys reckon it’s more of a fantasy rather than actual?

Convince me I’m wrong please! Xx

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By *ister_EMan
5 weeks ago

Hayling Island

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By *ister_EMan
5 weeks ago

Hayling Island

I hooked up with a couple in a club and they introduced me to fabs. Not looked back since

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By *igblackchocolateMan
5 weeks ago

London & Essex

Depends does your profile look good to other women and on your info part does it captivate any interest ?

And like and you gonna need atleast one verification to show you areal person

Better to go to events if you having a hard time

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By *ondonbristol24 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

Bristol

Totally agree on the veri side. But as a couple we arranged meets and was just time wasters. Couple profile and then last minute guess what, she couldn’t make it. Shame tho, we were keen. We just went to local clubs instead

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By *mizhereMan
5 weeks ago

Thame area

Joined to meet

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By *ert1410cbCouple
5 weeks ago

swindon

Both x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
5 weeks ago

Reading

I joined out of curiosity and stayed because of the people i have met.

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By *il-widgeMan
5 weeks ago

Stone Staffordshire

I joined to tick off lots of fantasies, and to meet a variety of people for no pressure/no expectation sex....reality is, Ive met several people I see on a fairly regular basis, for exactly what I wanted, I love it, each person I spend time with is different, and our dynamic is slightly different, with some I push my boundaries, and with others they do with me, still lots of things to tick off but not in any rush to do them, realised dont force anything and good things come to those that wait...

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"I joined as a couple and now a single, never managed a meet despite a lot of effort.

Do you guys reckon it’s more of a fantasy rather than actual?

Convince me I’m wrong please! Xx"

But you have meet verifications on your profile 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

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By *iskMan
5 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I joined out of curiosity, and now I'm even more curious

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By *ools1964Man
5 weeks ago

Swadlincote

Joind to meet, met a couple of guys, no women.

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By *omRachCouple
5 weeks ago

Wirral

We originally joined through curiosity but after having that 1st meet we both realised there could be some serious fun to be had here.

We are by no means prolific but we've enjoyed what we've had so far.

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By *bztradieMan
5 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Joined hoping to turn some fantasies into reality

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By *sWyldWoman
5 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It's been pretty real for me ...

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By *eardedguy83Man
5 weeks ago

Worcestershire

To meet sexy people

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I first joined 11 years ago to meet and have met single men..

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By *assy MissWoman
5 weeks ago

Sent to Coventry

I joined fab over 10 years ago to see if I could make my fantasies become reality.

And yes I could, and I did, many times.

I’ve met some amazing people and pushed my boundaries and theirs.

Now I’m over 60, there are still lots of people my age and still lots of fun to be had.

My advice OP would be, if you keep doing the same thing and you’re getting nowhere, try a different approach. Make your profile the best it can be, try socials and stay patient x

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By *ami4321Man
5 weeks ago

wrexham

Not had much luck with couples or single females but guys message most days lol actually did my 1st bi meet with a great guy I met on here

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By *enelope2UWoman
5 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

I think 90% on here treat it as a fantasy and have zero desire to want to enjoy the person or experience anything real. You can tell that by the introduction messages males send and the amount of disrespect they direct towards women on here.

It's not a drug service, or free pros-titute service site but that what most act like it is for.

I can't do fake and that's with fake porn fake people or fake fantasies.

And no it's not JUST males but I'm straight so I don't message women outside of a respectful compliment.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
5 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I joined to meet and I've done that for nearly two decades.

I think many join wanting to meet of course, but some for the wrong reasons, some using an approach that will rarely if ever work and some because they think that all it takes to get meets is to create an online profile, type a few words, post a few shots of their genitals and send one or two word messages to complete strangers.

Expectations often vary wildly feom reality and then the frustration sets in.

Of course for some its just fantasy. You can usually spot that in the way the profile has been written, the pictures posted and the posts and comments made in the forums.

The site gives plenty of tools to manage who you engage with. You just have to use them wisely.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
5 weeks ago

Hull

Starting to wonder !!!

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By *oldsteel007Man
5 weeks ago

jarrow

I joined maybe was fantasy but find hard to get replies or find local as don’t drive been single full time dad is hard to still here see what happens

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By *eyond PurityCouple
5 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

FAB is just another tool to use - if it’s all you use then you have to sell yourself well.

The gents who don’t do as well and come on the forums to vent generally have the same type of pics or a basic profile.

There’s 50,000 other guys all looking for the same thing - so you’ve got to find ways of standing out.

K

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By *eyond PurityCouple
5 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve met quite a few people from here - we’ve also gone to socials, clubs and used other sites.

People do meet but if we sat at home and just used FAB to find them, we’d have given up by now.

K

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By *ripfillMan
5 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Having been in the wilderness for a number of years, it’s wonderful to have fab, to come out out of the grey and see colour. Enjoy pleasure without guilt., give pleasure where possible and always always have consent consideration and care

It can be lovely on this platform for a very inspiring nonjudgemental attitude, and I’ve met some wonderful people who in my inner circle have become incredibly good friends.

Fab for me is giving me my self sexual future

I love giving and I can on here … that’s why I joined

I do have some people I have really said thank you too.

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By *elpfulhands2025Man
5 weeks ago

inside you

I'm here to indulge in a mmf 3 sum. It's been a fantasy if mine for a long time and hoping to make it a reality. Wish me luck!

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By *fffunCouple
5 weeks ago

Somewhere just outside London

To find a female to join our dynamic but it's proving very hard so now I'm either pissing about in the forums or showing myself to the world in chat rooms.

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