FabSwingers.com forum: A person's job

By *asha86 OP Couple
5 weeks ago

walsall

Opinions please.... does a person's job make them more or less desirable to play with?

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By *NormalMan01Man
5 weeks ago

Harrogate

Their job has no bearing on whether I find them physically or mentally stimulating.

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By *mantofuckMan
5 weeks ago

durham

Whats your opinion? I had never considered this but it's obviously a factor for some!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Not at all OP. Does it for you?

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By *rincipessaWoman
5 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

I don’t think I’ve ever asked someone if they have a job or what they do for a living.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
5 weeks ago

Ends

Not really more attractive

A police officer would be infinitely less attractive to me though - from a sexual / romantic pov

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 weeks ago

Springfield

What people do is often related to their personality and approach to life so yes.

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By *peedyGMan
5 weeks ago

Telford

Not at all to me personally.

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
5 weeks ago

Someplace

No. There are some that can make a person more attractive 😍

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
5 weeks ago

Bristol

Not in the slightest

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Central

I don't generally know but if I did, there are potentially some job activities that I view as mistreating others, that I'd be uncomfortable with

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
5 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

Not at all ..

A person's character and trustworthiness is way more important

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By *enda83Man
5 weeks ago

newcastle

No I have the same respect for anyone actually working for a living regardless of their job, as someone who probably gets looked down upon by certain types if seen In my work clothes I’d never do it to anyone else ha

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By *aizyWoman
5 weeks ago

west midlands

No, can't say I care about what someone does for a living 🤷‍♀️

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
5 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope. A job isn't someone's personality or identity.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
5 weeks ago

Birmingham/Leeds

"Opinions please.... does a person's job make them more or less desirable to play with?

A job will never make someone less desirable. I don’t judge. But certain jobs (or uniforms) can make someone more appealing

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
5 weeks ago

Reading

The only time I’ve asked what job they do is when it has become a longer term arrangement and it was part of getting to know them as a person. So it doesn’t particularly bother me, more important is their attitude and how they treat me.

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By *issmorganWoman
5 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

In some cases yes, but only really if it went against my values ie someone who killed animals for a living or was cruel to others in a role.

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

Being someone who wear a uniform I've seen males in similar....some look hot, some not so much

So no, someone's job has never made them more desirable.

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By *ubInTrainingTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Coggeshall

A persons job has zero affect on wanting to meet or not in my opinion x

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By *urry BlokeMan
5 weeks ago

It means nothing

I don't meet people to talk to them about their career

I couldn't be any less interested if I tried

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By *urry BlokeMan
5 weeks ago

I mean on the other hand, when I tell people I sell parts for cookers, the fapping starts pretty much instantly

So I guess it can work

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By *weetiepie99Woman
5 weeks ago

cardiff

'play with'🤢

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
5 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Opinions please.... does a person's job make them more or less desirable to play with?

Not my thing but I've seen no end of posts of people after bods in uniform, delivery drivers, people in the trades or wanting to re-enact something like FAKE Taxi.

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By *he MinionMan
5 weeks ago

It doesnt bother me what jobs people do and it surprises me to see profiles saying wont meet police and things like that.

I can understand if a job was part of their identity, a polititican, for example where your look on life may differ but police ?.

Maybe i'm just old

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By *verageHoesCouple
5 weeks ago

Leeds

"It doesnt bother me what jobs people do and it surprises me to see profiles saying wont meet police and things like that.

I can understand if a job was part of their identity, a polititican, for example where your look on life may differ but police ?.

Maybe i'm just old"

I don't think that makes you odd. There's good and bab people in all jobs. I think it's odd that someone would pigeon hole someone because of their job, like a police officer.

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By *verageHoesCouple
5 weeks ago

Leeds

"It doesnt bother me what jobs people do and it surprises me to see profiles saying wont meet police and things like that.

I can understand if a job was part of their identity, a polititican, for example where your look on life may differ but police ?.

Maybe i'm just old

I don't think that makes you odd. There's good and bab people in all jobs. I think it's odd that someone would pigeon hole someone because of their job, like a police officer."

I misread that as odd. You're not odd, and no comment on the old

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
5 weeks ago

Prestwich

It shouldn't matter but obviously it does matter.

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By *iddick27Man
5 weeks ago

Cheshire

I don’t like social workers

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
5 weeks ago

Norwich

It makes no difference to me. I like personality and sense of humour.

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
5 weeks ago

Prestwich

"It makes no difference to me. I like personality and sense of humour.

A persons career is linked to their personality, it doesn't define them entirely but I think it's important.

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By *layfullsamMan
5 weeks ago

Solihull

I think if it’s in work and certain jobs or uniforms it can be hot

Out of work it’s all about the person not the job

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By *ingpong70Man
5 weeks ago

Surbiton

Nope. Muddling dating sites with hookup sites.

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By *randMrsShebaCouple
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

Imagine constantly working for minimum wage days and nights wouldn't facilitate dating women.

Even when people say they don't care.

The rich guy with lots of free time is living his best life.

I say this as an overworked person myself.

I had literally zero time or energy to meet women when I was single.

So I think it matters to an extent.

If you're broke and overworked you still struggle even with low maintenance women.

How many men my age actually have TIME?

I had Saturdays and Sundays. Some don't even get that.

I don't blame women for wanting better.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
5 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Looks and personality are the important ones for us.

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By *randMrsShebaCouple
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

"but this is a hookup site not dating"

Yeh but they still don't want to "just fuck now"

They still like the other stuff.

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By *ackformore100Man
5 weeks ago

Tin town

"Opinions please.... does a person's job make them more or less desirable to play with?

Probably yes. It's all part of the overall package isn't it? Unless people have never fantasised about police fireman nurses doctors estate agents plumbers car mechanics etc

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By *.R.MMan
5 weeks ago

Norfolk

Makes no difference

It doesn’t matter if you’re a millionaire or road sweeper, everyone dances with the grim reaper!

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
5 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Some like fireman, police or squaddies, but personally speaking I think the very worst job is a binman- it's literally rubbish!

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By *inchestersBitchWoman
5 weeks ago

mid glam

Yes. It's been said above.

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By *ingpong70Man
5 weeks ago

Surbiton

""but this is a hookup site not dating"

Yeh but they still don't want to "just fuck now"

They still like the other stuff."

What "other stuff" would be dependent on their job??? Sounds a bit snobby 🤣🤣

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By *ackformore100Man
5 weeks ago

Tin town

I think some people are confusing what people spend 40 hours a week doing for their job, with class or money. They aren't the same. If people think what we spend a minimum of a third of our day doing and half our waking hours doing does not shape them, im quite surprised. But to each their own.

I mean for those who this is purely a cock in cunt transaction it may not matter but for some I'm sure it would make a difference.

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 weeks ago

Belfast

Haven't read any of the replies above but their job makes no difference to me.

If it's their USP though that's a whole different story and could immediately make them much less attractive.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
5 weeks ago

Reading

To a point. I tried to meet with a Dr once but his hours were insane so we never got it together.

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By *allipygousMan
5 weeks ago

Leicester

A solicitor knowingly fucks a sewage worker. I don't think so.

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By *ultryandSassyWoman
5 weeks ago

somewhere in the middle

It depends on context… if I’m just chatting you for the aim of a good time for one night.. don’t give a jot for what you do.

If it becomes more long term then yes! I need to have a similar experience of life to you to identify with you.. (this is not about hierarchy or power play) but a mutual understanding of work life pressure.

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By *partharmonyCouple
5 weeks ago

Ruislip

"Opinions please.... does a person's job make them more or less desirable to play with?

Why would it?

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By *he MinionMan
5 weeks ago

I'm actually hoping to quit my job in the morning and have 208million reasons not to go back 🤣

I wonder if my newly found unemplyement status would make me more attractive 🤣

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By *ad NannaWoman
5 weeks ago

East London

I've not met anyone so far whose job has put me off them.

I'm not a snob when it comes to profession/career/job/hobby.

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By *reddie 2025Man
5 weeks ago

Gloucester

jobs are just a way to pay bills. if you have a job you love its most definitely not work xx

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By *illyboy12345Man
5 weeks ago

Horsham

Not particularly a bother to me, unless you’re like, an only fans model then it’s a bit of a turn off

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By *usurrusCouple
5 weeks ago

North West.

Not at all. Plus, you get twats and arseholes in every job.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Definitely no matter how stunning gorgeous or dirty she might be if her Job has anything to do with the police I ain't interested

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By *rs GGWoman
5 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

My vagina likes a good job, she's such a snob!

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By *iss.BellaWoman
5 weeks ago

I'm on universal credit, I haven't had a shag in 3 years. 'Nuff said 🤷‍♀️

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
5 weeks ago

Bristol

"I'm on universal credit, I haven't had a shag in 3 years. 'Nuff said 🤷‍♀️"

I’d do you for a bottle of gin? 😎

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"I'm on universal credit, I haven't had a shag in 3 years. 'Nuff said 🤷‍♀️"
not for long as labour will shag you soon enough

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By *iss.BellaWoman
5 weeks ago

"I'm on universal credit, I haven't had a shag in 3 years. 'Nuff said 🤷‍♀️

I’d do you for a bottle of gin? 😎"

Meh, I'll take it

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By *iss.BellaWoman
5 weeks ago

"I'm on universal credit, I haven't had a shag in 3 years. 'Nuff said 🤷‍♀️ not for long as labour will shag you soon enough

Ooh that reply feels a bit zesty. I'm going back to work soon enough

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
5 weeks ago

Bristol

"I'm on universal credit, I haven't had a shag in 3 years. 'Nuff said 🤷‍♀️

I’d do you for a bottle of gin? 😎

Meh, I'll take it

I’ll let you know when 20 secs are over with, then free gin 😎

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By *iss.BellaWoman
5 weeks ago

"I'm on universal credit, I haven't had a shag in 3 years. 'Nuff said 🤷‍♀️

I’d do you for a bottle of gin? 😎

Meh, I'll take it

I’ll let you know when 20 secs are over with, then free gin 😎"

Sign me up

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
5 weeks ago

Bristol

"I'm on universal credit, I haven't had a shag in 3 years. 'Nuff said 🤷‍♀️

I’d do you for a bottle of gin? 😎

Meh, I'll take it

I’ll let you know when 20 secs are over with, then free gin 😎

Sign me up

We have terms 🤝

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By *midnight-Woman
5 weeks ago

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I didn't think I'd knowingly meet someone in the police, as they just seem interested in notches and the next body

I'd likely also have an inferiority complex meeting someone creative, so I'd probably make an excuse that I wasn't sure too busy to meet them

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
5 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

I couldn't care less what their job is

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By *ub with a ChubbMan
5 weeks ago

Southwest & Cork City

Has no bearing whatsoever for me.

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By *opedomMan
5 weeks ago

Hayle

"Opinions please.... does a person's job make them more or less desirable to play with?

It shouldn't but in rare cases it definitely can.

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

Depends if she's a tester for Dyson.

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By *moothdickMan
5 weeks ago

stoke

Not at all, it’s the personality that counts, oh and first looks .. we all have a level of employment..

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By *asha86 OP Couple
5 weeks ago

walsall

We are of the opinion that it doesn't matter what someone's job is! As long as we felt comfortable around the person and we had a bit of banter and back and forth we're happy.

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By *ric-shawnMan
5 weeks ago

North Devon

I'm a stunt double for Brad Pitt if that makes a difference?...🤣

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By *uri00620Woman
5 weeks ago

Croydon

No, as long as they don't bang on about it. Messages from squaddies who open with "wanna try fucking a guy in uniform" is off putting so Armed Forces are generally types I'm not attracted to.

I met someone once who worked in the city in finance and couldn't stop talking about how much he earned. It was pretty tiresome.

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By *ntelligent_tall69Man
4 weeks ago

mums cellar

None what so ever

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By *ilverjagMan
4 weeks ago

swansea

A persons job shouldn't make any difference, and it doesn't matter to me what station in life a person has, so long as personal hygiene and personality come high on their agendas. I must admit though that being in the privileged position where my work and line of business gives me access to tastefully furnished executive homes to entertain in has had its advantages, especially with those who cannot accommodate, even overnight for whatever reason, and resulted in repeat get togethers.

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By *sWyldWoman
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Sometimes it does matter.

I work hard and I'm very happy to pay my way . I also want to do nice things. I don't want to have to not do those things because the other person can't afford to. While I'm kind and happy to pay, I'm never going back to a situation where I foot the bill for every hotel room or every date night..

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

cannock

Not at all for us

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By *obilebottomMan
4 weeks ago

All over

"Sometimes it does matter.

Very true. At some point, rightly or wrong, these things eventually matter to a lot of peolle. Not the actual job but the lifestyle people are used to. True for both established relationships and repeat casual encounters.

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By *ermite12ukMan
4 weeks ago

Solihull and Romford

The uniform aspect of certain professions, appeals to me. I will admit.

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By *allipygousMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

"Sometimes it does matter.

So, all you that say it wouldn't bother you, if you were the top end of the socio-economic duo would your answer still be the same in the scenario described by MsWyld?

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By *eliWoman
4 weeks ago

It does matter to me to a certain extent for similar reasons to MsWyld. I like particular things. Wouldn’t say I'm a snob but I've studied and worked hard and like what it can afford me. I pay my way. Stay in nice places, enjoy good food and drink etc. That doesn't always equal cost but sometimes it does.

I guess in part because NSA isn't for me. I like friendships. Actual friendship. Doing things. And when people have said they're too skint to get a cocktail etc, whilst I don't mind paying some of the way, after some time it can make me feel uncomfortable. Similar feelings when someone wants to impress me with spending a lot of money on the hotel. There's no need, even less of a need when their income is less than mine. I love booking, organising things but if the onus is on me always, I don't find it attractive.

It's a tricky thing to discuss because whilst I don't actually care *what* it is someone does for work or not, if I feel uncomfortable surrounding money, paying for things etc it tends not to last.

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By *allipygousMan
4 weeks ago

Leicester

Excellent. Honest answers at last...

So it occurs to me that it may matter less to a man than a woman 🤔

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By *ugar dayMan
4 weeks ago

London

Given that every woman I have ever met ask this pretty much within the first 5 questions. I'd be inclined to say yes for women.

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By *ackformore100Man
4 weeks ago

Tin town

"Excellent. Honest answers at last...

So it occurs to me that it may matter less to a man than a woman 🤔"

I think it's very glib to say it doesn't matter. In the same way as someone's dress, car, home, accent, etc doesn't matter. If you're dogging or at a club for a quick random encounter perhaps that's true. And nothing wrong with that. But if it's something a bit more connected I would have that all the parts of an individual matter to some extent.

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By *andering_welshman2025Man
4 weeks ago

KIRKBY

Clearly there’s some that see it as an attraction….all the uniform groupies on here….but then I have seen some where they avoid certain professions….squaddies, police etc!!

I find it a bit of a conversation starter so do tend to ask….im a nosey bastard really…not too concerned with what it is 😅

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By *randMrsShebaCouple
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

What "other stuff" would be dependent on their job??? Sounds a bit snobby 🤣🤣"

Think about being a guy my age or younger.

You need a home and free time. Enough disposable cash to take a woman to a restraint and blow £100-200 on just a simple dinner.

That's no longer in the grasp of the average working man.

The difficulty setting is higher.

I am not a snob I'm actually really really bitter about clawing my way to being an independent married adult man.

Women don't exist without money. Even if the woman is not interested in you're wallet you need a home and free time.

These 21 year old working class guys now are just wageies who have a big struggle if they want to move out of their mum's house and own a car etc...

That's why they are Incels. Society is really against them and pussy blocking them.

In my dad's era you could be a minimum wage worker and own a 2 bedroom house in 2 years.

I know couples who earn 40k each now who struggle to buy homes that were available to single working class people in my dad's era.

I feel really sorry for the young men now. Loads of them are mentally ill virgins who have suicidal thoughts.

If I explain this to people my father's age they are just apathetic.

Half of women aren't even into you're wallet but if you can't afford a home, decent work life Ballance, a car and £100-200 to pay for a day out to "get to know them"...not to mention nicer clothes and whatever else level ups you need.....

Then you will struggle.

I do know baby daddy type bumz who just impregnate women with zero income but that's another story and they are only a minority.

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
4 weeks ago