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By *rar94 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

peterborough

Sounds a strange question, but I’m messaging women I like the look of, yet no replies, what am I doing wrong, I am new here so have no one to back me up etc 😂 cheers

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

What are you messaging them with OP? 💜

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By *rar94 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

peterborough

OP? Just trying to pick out stuff from what they’ve put in their profile, and not just a general “how’s you’re day been” generic question

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By *adhu25Man
5 weeks ago

london


"Sounds a strange question, but I’m messaging women I like the look of, yet no replies, what am I doing wrong, I am new here so have no one to back me up etc 😂 cheers"

🫂

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By *piritualSFCMan
5 weeks ago

london

Don't most get 10 messages every 10 seconds...

Probably lost in the mailbox

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By *rar94 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

peterborough

Yeah very true tbh

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

You are messaging women you like the look of OP but I’m afraid they can’t tell if they like the look of you.

I can’t give you profile advice as you’ve not asked for it but I can’t see any public pics on your profile

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By *rar94 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

peterborough

I didn’t realise there wasn’t none 😂 still getting the hang of it let me try change it

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"I didn’t realise there wasn’t none 😂 still getting the hang of it let me try change it "

No problem. Ask away. We’re friendly in here… mostly.

Plus if you press reply+quote in the thread we will know who you’re replying to.

Welcome to Fab and welcome to the forums

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"OP? Just trying to pick out stuff from what they’ve put in their profile, and not just a general “how’s you’re day been” generic question "

Original poster, just means I'm referring to the person who started the thread.

The bad grammar in how's you're day been would definitely be a delete for some people 😉

A lot of people look at profiles before they even open a message. Do you think yours shows you in your best light? 💜

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By *rar94 OP   Man
5 weeks ago

peterborough


"I didn’t realise there wasn’t none 😂 still getting the hang of it let me try change it

No problem. Ask away. We’re friendly in here… mostly.

Plus if you press reply+quote in the thread we will know who you’re replying to.

Welcome to Fab and welcome to the forums "

See teaching me the way already 😂

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By *piritualSFCMan
5 weeks ago

london


"You are messaging women you like the look of OP but I’m afraid they can’t tell if they like the look of you.

I can’t give you profile advice as you’ve not asked for it but I can’t see any public pics on your profile "

Great teeth and smile

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By *igR93Man
5 weeks ago

Sarcasm City


"Don't most get 10 messages every 10 seconds...

Probably lost in the mailbox"

The inevitable getting lost in the ether of the mailbox

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By *inger_SnapWoman
5 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

There's about 100 men to every woman... Just wait your turn 😊

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By *iddler83Man
5 weeks ago

barnet


"There's about 100 men to every woman... Just wait your turn 😊"

I’m having a similar issue.

Mine get ready but still very little reply’s.

Clearly I’m doing something wrong 🤣

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Don't most get 10 messages every 10 seconds...

Probably lost in the mailbox"

If we like it… we tend to answer it 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Central

You might be doing absolutely nothing wrong at all. But the probability of being fully mutually compatible is extremely low. It will be about physical and mental attraction and compatibility of interests, availability etc

If you are detailing what you give partners, they can assess and evaluate you well. You can provide clear photos that truly help them to assess how much they like you.

It really does help here, if you have realistic expectations. And use the site for help, in conjunction with swinging clubs.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
5 weeks ago

Ends

Charge it

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By *uckboy786Man
5 weeks ago

London


"Charge it"

Don't think these man know what that means my g

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By *TinRedCouple
5 weeks ago

Reading

I think most couples will search out for a guy if they're looking...

We vary rarely meet anyone that's messaged us first!

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By *NormalMan01Man
5 weeks ago

Harrogate


"Sounds a strange question, but I’m messaging women I like the look of, yet no replies, what am I doing wrong, I am new here so have no one to back me up etc 😂 cheers"

I’ve only very recently had my eyes opened to the amount of emails, winks, friends requests and fans that a woman on this site gets.

If you want some idea, upload a photo, come back at the end of the day and check out your ‘looked at me’ count out the scale of men, to couples, to women. This gives you an idea of the fab population and skew.

Just because a woman hasn’t responded, it doesn’t mean anything on you. There could be many reasons.

Equally, if a woman reads your message and doesn’t respond see the above of population skew. Women can be as choosy as they like, certainly on here.

Often, a no response is much better for a woman. You would not believe the amount of vile and horrific messages a woman will get, even after a very polite “no thank you.”

It is what it is and that’s kind of that. But it should be known, it very well may not be a reflection on you.

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 weeks ago

Leeds

The simple answer OP is, they may not like the look of you.

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