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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
2 days ago

Leeds

So I've seen a few profiles (men) displaying their sex toys.....if you were to meet them.....

Would you use them????

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By *eliWoman
2 days ago

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No. I've told someone this once before and they acted as if I was really weird.

I don't care. It's not for me. I have great, really good quality toys. I'm happy to buy things to use with a person (as I'm not really one for NSA I tend to see people more than once) but I don't want toys used with multiple women used on me.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
2 days ago

honeysuckle lane

A firm no from me how would we know if they’ve been throughly cleaned & not just wiped with the dish cloth

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By *ippyMan
2 days ago

london

Wiped with the dishcloth 🤣🤣🤣

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By *oeBeansMan
2 days ago

Derby

For some reason, "sex toys" and "men" immediately made me think only of fleshlights and I wondered why they would need to use them on a meet 😆

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By *ora the explorerWoman
2 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"For some reason, "sex toys" and "men" immediately made me think only of fleshlights and I wondered why they would need to use them on a meet 😆"

That’s what I thought 🤣

In answer to the question no I wouldn’t. I don’t with women either. Only my own.

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By *ruebameMan
2 days ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

To answer from a male

point of view I have some sex toys that where part of a sex machine with flashlight attachment yes the flashlight has been tried and actually works wonders but I'd never get the machine out on a meet and expect them to try it or suggest using those toys it's a bit like those who prefer bareback im not saying its wrong but it's not my idea of fun

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By *ugmesqueezemeMan
2 days ago

woburn sands


"A firm no from me how would we know if they’ve been throughly cleaned & not just wiped with the dish cloth "

Flash wipe any better? 🤔 just asking for a mate.

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By *ugmesqueezemeMan
2 days ago

woburn sands

What if the male had sex toys to be used on him.. eg a vibrating toy for a cock etc? Would you use them?

And to pose another thought.. if you had toys that could be unisex what would you say if the meet refused to use one of your toys because he had now idea who it was used on?

It's a tricky one...

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By *hickthighs25Woman
2 days ago

Stockton

If its toys for him yes. For me no 😁

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By *ere4It3000Couple
2 days ago

Belgium


"If its toys for him yes. For me no 😁"

This indeed. Happy to take my own 😊

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
2 days ago

Leeds


"What if the male had sex toys to be used on him.. eg a vibrating toy for a cock etc? Would you use them?

And to pose another thought.. if you had toys that could be unisex what would you say if the meet refused to use one of your toys because he had now idea who it was used on?

It's a tricky one..."

If the toys were for the male and belonged to him and used on him then ofcourse....

I was talking about males who seem to have dildos, vibrators etc to use on women.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

2 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Wiped with the dishcloth 🤣🤣🤣"

Better than the curtains. 🤷‍♂️

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2 days ago

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

2 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What if the male had sex toys to be used on him.. eg a vibrating toy for a cock etc? Would you use them?

And to pose another thought.. if you had toys that could be unisex what would you say if the meet refused to use one of your toys because he had now idea who it was used on?

It's a tricky one...

If the toys were for the male and belonged to him and used on him then ofcourse....

I was talking about males who seem to have dildos, vibrators etc to use on women.

"

Throwing a curveball in here.....

It's easy to slip a condom over an insertable toy such as a dildo. I've done it before. I'm also very OCD with any toy cleaning, having had dozens sent to me to test over the years. Some are obviously unlikely to be requested to be used during meets - I mean who's going to want to pop in a previously used butt plug!

But wands? Easy to clean scrupulously. Likewise glass and steel toys. And nobody ever seems to question using floggers on multiple people. 🤷‍♂️

There's obviously a huge difference between anything insertable and external toys, but I've met many people over the years who haven't minded using some of the stuff I have. I guess there's as much an element of trust involved in keeping stuff hygienically clean as there is with someone’s own personal hygiene. 🤔

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By *eanthesheepMan
2 days ago

colchester


"So I've seen a few profiles (men) displaying their sex toys.....if you were to meet them.....

Would you use them????"

Only if asked to but yes why not?

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By *eanthesheepMan
2 days ago

colchester


"Wiped with the dishcloth 🤣🤣🤣"

Dishcloth? What’s wrong with the trusted cum sock?

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
2 days ago

Leeds


"What if the male had sex toys to be used on him.. eg a vibrating toy for a cock etc? Would you use them?

And to pose another thought.. if you had toys that could be unisex what would you say if the meet refused to use one of your toys because he had now idea who it was used on?

It's a tricky one...

If the toys were for the male and belonged to him and used on him then ofcourse....

I was talking about males who seem to have dildos, vibrators etc to use on women.

Throwing a curveball in here.....

It's easy to slip a condom over an insertable toy such as a dildo. I've done it before. I'm also very OCD with any toy cleaning, having had dozens sent to me to test over the years. Some are obviously unlikely to be requested to be used during meets - I mean who's going to want to pop in a previously used butt plug!

But wands? Easy to clean scrupulously. Likewise glass and steel toys. And nobody ever seems to question using floggers on multiple people. 🤷‍♂️

There's obviously a huge difference between anything insertable and external toys, but I've met many people over the years who haven't minded using some of the stuff I have. I guess there's as much an element of trust involved in keeping stuff hygienically clean as there is with someone’s own personal hygiene. 🤔"

I would still take my own, at least I know where they have been

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By *OTSOSUBTLEMan
2 days ago

DUBLIN

RULE IS: NEW PLAYMATE NEW TOYS

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
2 days ago

honeysuckle lane


"Wiped with the dishcloth 🤣🤣🤣

Dishcloth? What’s wrong with the trusted cum sock?"

🤢

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
2 days ago

Leeds


"So I've seen a few profiles (men) displaying their sex toys.....if you were to meet them.....

Would you use them????

Only if asked to but yes why not? "

Tbf my question was more aimed at the ladies.

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