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By *t0600 OP   Man
7 days ago

elvedon

Been on here a while now haven’t updated my profile too much . Any advice?

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By *eadpool-ishMan
7 days ago

Horam

As you ask

In all honesty OP

The cardinal sin of many a profile, posting age in your write up, and saying you're returning when you've been back over a year

In general, just write something that's honest, from the heart, portrays the real you (or at least the you that you'll let people see)

It's always good to refresh every so often ....(makes a note, update my profile text)

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By *t0600 OP   Man
7 days ago

elvedon


"As you ask

In all honesty OP

The cardinal sin of many a profile, posting age in your write up, and saying you're returning when you've been back over a year

In general, just write something that's honest, from the heart, portrays the real you (or at least the you that you'll let people see)

It's always good to refresh every so often ....(makes a note, update my profile text)"

Yeah that is definitely something I need to update haha . Always good for something these posts

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By *vaRoseWoman
7 days ago

Ankh-Morpork

Ok it’s not bad… watch out for the ?? It usually means you’re using an emoji and they don’t work on profiles.

Maybe adding a little bit more about you, what you bring to the table. I usually say imagine what your best mate would say about you if they were acting as your wingman.

Pics wise… they’re not bad but they’re also a bit bland. Cropping, editing the lighting (not the body or physical edits but lighting, contrast, monochrome filters etc).

The one thing that I personally find off putting is the action videos. I’m sure it’s appealing to some (mostly other men maybe?) but I don’t want or need to see another person on a single profile. It makes me concerned about their consent to the video being posted and aside from that it just leaves me cold.

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
7 days ago

Prestwich

Imo there is no combination of words that will change the mind of somebody who doesn't like your profile pic.

I'm not saying the text has no value, but really how much?

If somebody is going to determine your entire personality based on a few paragraphs on a swinger site, best to avoid them.

Imo.

We're humans, not fucking top tru.ps, if people are that judgemental, they're not worth your time mate. Just have fun, try and engage in the forums?

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By *t0600 OP   Man
7 days ago

elvedon


"Ok it’s not bad… watch out for the ?? It usually means you’re using an emoji and they don’t work on profiles.

Maybe adding a little bit more about you, what you bring to the table. I usually say imagine what your best mate would say about you if they were acting as your wingman.

Pics wise… they’re not bad but they’re also a bit bland. Cropping, editing the lighting (not the body or physical edits but lighting, contrast, monochrome filters etc).

The one thing that I personally find off putting is the action videos. I’m sure it’s appealing to some (mostly other men maybe?) but I don’t want or need to see another person on a single profile. It makes me concerned about their consent to the video being posted and aside from that it just leaves me cold. "

Thanks for that . I definitely could add more to the profile text . I think that’s the majority of us men and how we take pictures women seem to take much more pride haha . And I take the video stuff on board . It feels like a tricky one as yeah it’s not for everyone

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By *t0600 OP   Man
7 days ago

elvedon


"Imo there is no combination of words that will change the mind of somebody who doesn't like your profile pic.

I'm not saying the text has no value, but really how much?

If somebody is going to determine your entire personality based on a few paragraphs on a swinger site, best to avoid them.

Imo.

We're humans, not fucking top tru.ps, if people are that judgemental, they're not worth your time mate. Just have fun, try and engage in the forums?"

Yeah I always think that too . Hard to judge someone on a bit of profile text . Cheers for that mate

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