FabSwingers.com forum: New person

By *EAT..85 OP Woman
5 weeks ago

Nottingham

When you are meeting a new person, what do you wear/do to feel confident?

I make sure that my eye makeup is extra bright and that I have comfy clothes on -yes, comfy!- so that I don't feel awkward or gawped at.

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By *oorman 2025Man
5 weeks ago

manchester

I like to make an effort casual but smart smell good too first impressions always count

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By *i versMan
5 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

Shirt and jeans and do my hair and smell nice, done.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester

My usual uniform of nice lingerie, crotchless opaque or fishnet tights, a black dress, boots, and varying accessories/make up depending on where we are meeting.

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By *Silver-Man
5 weeks ago

North Wales

Depends at the time and meet. I've been to meets in the past wearing my tradie kit, other times I've been dressed in shirt n trousers, then there have been times where I have been dressed casual. Number one rule with me though is to always wear tip top nice tight boxers that are clean and look good.

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

My sexy blue y-fronts.

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By *atman_and_PoisonIvyCouple
5 weeks ago

The Batcave, nr. Cannock

It really depends for me on what time of day, who we’re meeting and how much flirt has been in the messages

P x

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By *oodmessMan
5 weeks ago

yumsville

Haven't met in a while, but whatever I see first in the draws or wardrobe... paired with jeans and trainers

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By *exyInLatinMan
5 weeks ago

Warsop

Depends on the location but usually chinos (tight ones), t shirt and nice shoes, make sure the aftershave is on as well 😜

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By *sStephenPickleMan
5 weeks ago

Ends

Probably jeans and a nice T. Simple, comfy and nice.

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By *ude LawMan
5 weeks ago

Harrogate

Full t suit and a deerstalker.

I used to wear plus fours as well, but they made me look like a bit of a twat.

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By *ude LawMan
5 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Full t suit and a deerstalker.

I used to wear plus fours as well, but they made me look like a bit of a twat."

Right. It appears you can't write the name of a well known fabric on here but you can write cunt.

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By *aizyWoman
5 weeks ago

west midlands

"Full t suit and a deerstalker.

I used to wear plus fours as well, but they made me look like a bit of a twat."

What about a pipe and 🧐?

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By *ude LawMan
5 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Full t suit and a deerstalker.

I used to wear plus fours as well, but they made me look like a bit of a twat.

What about a pipe and 🧐?"

Smoking kills.

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By *aizyWoman
5 weeks ago

west midlands

"Full t suit and a deerstalker.

I used to wear plus fours as well, but they made me look like a bit of a twat.

What about a pipe and 🧐?

Smoking kills."

You don't have to light it but it finishes the look, something to think about, you can get pipes that blow bubbles!

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By *estructionDollyWoman
5 weeks ago

Manchester

"Full t suit and a deerstalker.

I used to wear plus fours as well, but they made me look like a bit of a twat.

Right. It appears you can't write the name of a well known fabric on here but you can write cunt."

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By *olo180Man
5 weeks ago

West London

Shave, best aftershave and a haircut.

If you feel good then that usually radiates out

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By *ozzybear1981Man
5 weeks ago

preston

I always wear smart casual unless I’m in gym gear or home wear to be fair

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
5 weeks ago

South Wales

If it’s a social meet for a coffee I tend to wear a skirt, nice top and boots, nothing too over the top but with some really good lingerie underneath xx 😘

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

I always dress to feel confident. I learned early on that people treat you differently depending on how you're dressed.

If I'm meeting someone from fab for the first time it will always be socially so I'll dress to suit the venue.

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By *exyInLatinMan
5 weeks ago

Warsop

"Full t suit and a deerstalker.

I used to wear plus fours as well, but they made me look like a bit of a twat.

What about a pipe and 🧐?

Smoking kills.

You don't have to light it but it finishes the look, something to think about, you can get pipes that blow bubbles!

I would really one of those

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By *oomerangboyMan
5 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Smart casual, shaved trimmed and smelling delightful ! X

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"I always dress to feel confident. I learned early on that people treat you differently depending on how you're dressed.

If I'm meeting someone from fab for the first time it will always be socially so I'll dress to suit the venue. "

Does that mean if you met me at a Star Wars convention you'd wear a Princess Leia costume?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I always dress to feel confident. I learned early on that people treat you differently depending on how you're dressed.

If I'm meeting someone from fab for the first time it will always be socially so I'll dress to suit the venue.

Does that mean if you met me at a Star Wars convention you'd wear a Princess Leia costume?

I think I'm Princess Leia in her later years nowadays

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"I always dress to feel confident. I learned early on that people treat you differently depending on how you're dressed.

If I'm meeting someone from fab for the first time it will always be socially so I'll dress to suit the venue.

Does that mean if you met me at a Star Wars convention you'd wear a Princess Leia costume?

I think I'm Princess Leia in her later years nowadays "

Deal - although, maybe you'd wear the gold bikini for next time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I always dress to feel confident. I learned early on that people treat you differently depending on how you're dressed.

If I'm meeting someone from fab for the first time it will always be socially so I'll dress to suit the venue.

Does that mean if you met me at a Star Wars convention you'd wear a Princess Leia costume?

I think I'm Princess Leia in her later years nowadays

Deal - although, maybe you'd wear the gold bikini for next time.

like Superman with bottoms over my trousers 🥳😉

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"I always dress to feel confident. I learned early on that people treat you differently depending on how you're dressed.

If I'm meeting someone from fab for the first time it will always be socially so I'll dress to suit the venue.

Does that mean if you met me at a Star Wars convention you'd wear a Princess Leia costume?

I think I'm Princess Leia in her later years nowadays

Deal - although, maybe you'd wear the gold bikini for next time.

like Superman with bottoms over my trousers 🥳😉"

Ooft, now ya talking.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I always dress to feel confident. I learned early on that people treat you differently depending on how you're dressed.

If I'm meeting someone from fab for the first time it will always be socially so I'll dress to suit the venue.

Does that mean if you met me at a Star Wars convention you'd wear a Princess Leia costume?

I think I'm Princess Leia in her later years nowadays

Deal - although, maybe you'd wear the gold bikini for next time.

like Superman with bottoms over my trousers 🥳😉

Ooft, now ya talking.

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By *ad NannaWoman
5 weeks ago

East London

I usually wear smart jeans, boots, a nice top/jumper, or a smashing blouse.

Maybe flat sandals if it's hot.

I'll straighten my hair, which will mean it will rain.

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By *ad NannaWoman
5 weeks ago

East London

I want someone who will happily pick me up in my pyjamas and take me straight to his bed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I usually wear smart jeans, boots, a nice top/jumper, or a smashing blouse.

Maybe flat sandals if it's hot.

I'll straighten my hair, which will mean it will rain."

Can you not straighten your hair until next Monday please. I have stuff to do

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By *midnight-Woman
5 weeks ago

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If I've driven for 2 hours then chances are I'm arriving in flats and jeans

I had a short exciting drive in April in my lingerie, heels, holdups and oversized coat

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By *hunky GentMan
5 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"If I've driven for 2 hours then chances are I'm arriving in flats and jeans

I had a short exciting drive in April in my lingerie, heels, holdups and oversized coat

If you need a chauffeur next time - give me a shout.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
5 weeks ago

Ends

A shirt and a nice tie today, OP.

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By *luebell888Woman
5 weeks ago

Glasgowish

A smile, always a smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I wear something that I feel comfortable wearing, but also don't mind if there's something that I know the other person likes. If i feel like I'm the sexy bitch I am to them as well as me then we're on to a winner

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By *hris_P_BaconnEggMan
5 weeks ago

San Fran Exeter

Not had a meet, but I would memorise some terrible jokes to break the ice. First 5 mins is the worst. Get through those, and come out smiling, you can get through the rest!

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By *moothshaftMan
5 weeks ago

Coventry

"Full t suit and a deerstalker.

I used to wear plus fours as well, but they made me look like a bit of a twat.

Right. It appears you can't write the name of a well known fabric on here but you can write cunt."

Also the name of a well known Scottish river?

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By *ohnnySweetMan
5 weeks ago

LONDON

"Full t suit and a deerstalker.

I used to wear plus fours as well, but they made me look like a bit of a twat."

No Argyle socks?

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
5 weeks ago

kendal

I always want to look good and feel good at the same time.....

Went for a social yesterday so, curled my hair, painted my face, crisp white shirt, unbuttoned just enough to be suggestive, but not far enough it was slutty, black (almost suit like) shorts and my favourite flat shoes. Flirty, yet smart and true to my own style is my usual go too.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
5 weeks ago

Reading

I'll wear a dress

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By *ittlebirdWoman
5 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Full t suit and a deerstalker.

I used to wear plus fours as well, but they made me look like a bit of a twat.

Right. It appears you can't write the name of a well known fabric on here but you can write cunt."

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *orbidden eastMan
5 weeks ago

london dodging electric bikes

I like to state there is no pressure. We just meeting up and see what happens. Simple as that really 🤷‍♂️

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