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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gals read a message, save it for 5-6 days without a reply, then just delete it?

I would rather it was deleted right away if i'm not her type. That way you know where you stand, if that makes sense? Or are they just teasing us single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gals read a message, save it for 5-6 days without a reply, then just delete it?

I would rather it was deleted right away if i'm not her type. That way you know where you stand, if that makes sense? Or are they just teasing us single guys? "

Cos.. We're gonna reply but then we start straightening hair or tidying make up brushes and forget and when we remember days and days later we feel like wassaks and delete it because we thing we've missed the train. Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if a message is forgettable, it will generally be forgotten

same applies to its sender

a process along the lines of :

read, forget, delete days later

that's a general comment btw and not meant to be in any way personal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gals read a message, save it for 5-6 days without a reply, then just delete it?

I would rather it was deleted right away if i'm not her type. That way you know where you stand, if that makes sense? Or are they just teasing us single guys?

Cos.. We're gonna reply but then we start straightening hair or tidying make up brushes and forget and when we remember days and days later we feel like wassaks and delete it because we thing we've missed the train. Maybe. "

Aaah, so make up n hair has a feckin lot to answer for then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if a message is forgettable, it will generally be forgotten

same applies to its sender

a process along the lines of :

read, forget, delete days later

that's a general comment btw and not meant to be in any way personal"

None taken mate! I thought that myself but don't want to admit to myself i'm forgettable! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to reply to all messages.. I make the odd exceptions... But sometimes I am not in a situation I can reply.. and the I forget.. and clear all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they've filed you unde "last resort (if batteries run out)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might open a message and have every intention of replying, then real life gets in the way or think I can answer later etc...then the message falls off the screen and have to delete or reply to others before getting back ones you haven't answered.

So nope not a tease on my behalf.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Gals read a message, save it for 5-6 days without a reply, then just delete it?

I would rather it was deleted right away if i'm not her type. That way you know where you stand, if that makes sense? Or are they just teasing us single guys? "

I don't mean any offense, but simply because....they can. They know they can afford to do that, and so, many do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gals read a message, save it for 5-6 days without a reply, then just delete it?

I would rather it was deleted right away if i'm not her type. That way you know where you stand, if that makes sense? Or are they just teasing us single guys? "
As someone said, if its forgettable or hasnt included pic request, then I delete but I will always say no thank you, unless its particularly rude or offensive. Luckily I dont get too many of those. Dont get too many messages actually

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they've filed you unde "last resort (if batteries run out)" "

I can only live in hope eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I will read a message on my phone and not reply/delete straight away as I may want to look at the profile/pics on a bigger screen when I get home.

Also if you've had a lot of messages it can fall off the page and doesn't come back until you empty the first page, so could have fallen into that no-mans-land until a bulk delete is done as you can't navigate to the second page of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be grateful you get that far. 99% of mine get binned straight away lol. Doesn't stop me though. Just keep sending them. Ladies love it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gals read a message, save it for 5-6 days without a reply, then just delete it?

I would rather it was deleted right away if i'm not her type. That way you know where you stand, if that makes sense? Or are they just teasing us single guys? "

Been thinkin the exact same thing

I quick not interested because..... Wouldn't go a miss either. Even if its because your a minger at least I'd know to get a better face pic sorted lol

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Sometimes I will read a message on my phone and not reply/delete straight away as I may want to look at the profile/pics on a bigger screen when I get home.

Also if you've had a lot of messages it can fall off the page and doesn't come back until you empty the first page, so could have fallen into that no-mans-land until a bulk delete is done as you can't navigate to the second page of messages"

Pretty much this... Or I just forget

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Personally, I tend to do a block delete once a week and I guess many women are the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not ranting or anything. Just honestly curious. And after reading the gals answers, i see the point now! Cheers for replying and letting it sit in forums for a week!

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I only open a message if I intend to reply to it straight away, if it isn't from someone I want to get into a conversation with right at that minute I usually leave it til I have the time.

Occasionally it is a message that needs both of us to make a decision I will leave it til Dave has had a chance to see it, but that is pretty rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even your forum posts get ignored for ages lol. Just kidding.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

maybe they think "aww i'll answer the next time he sends one"

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