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At a wedding, sad about still being single

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By *lujiz94 OP   Man
2 days ago

Bishop's Stortford

At a wedding this weekend, and I'm rather sad about the fact that I'm still single (and never had a girlfriend) at 31. I've got asperger's syndrome, which makes social interactions quite difficult for me, which really is my main obstacle.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 days ago

Crumpet Castle

I feel what you are saying. Problem is that we often crave what we've never had. We tend to think we have missed out.

I've been married and had children and right now I cannot think of anything worse that being in a monogamous relationship with either gender.

I love having lots of friends ....... but living with someone or having my freedoms curtailed for the 'pleasure' of seeing to their needs.... no thank you.

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By *obilebottomMan
2 days ago

All over

There are plenty of other people who are single. There will people for you that get passed anything you see as an obstacle and ejoying meeting and be with you for who you are. Not any two people are the same. We are all different. Wish you all the very best. Good of you to talk about it also

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By *layfullsamMan
2 days ago

Solihull


"At a wedding this weekend, and I'm rather sad about the fact that I'm still single (and never had a girlfriend) at 31. I've got asperger's syndrome, which makes social interactions quite difficult for me, which really is my main obstacle."

Embrace the good things about singles life while you are, lots of positives

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By *lujiz94 OP   Man
2 days ago

Bishop's Stortford

I'm sure there are positives about being single. I just feel like I'm completely unfuckable.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex

A wedding is quite a different kettle of fish to a marriage.

What you saw was a couple at their best and that can make you wish for what they have.

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By *ugmesqueezemeMan
2 days ago

woburn sands


"A wedding is quite a different kettle of fish to a marriage.

What you saw was a couple at their best and that can make you wish for what they have. "

Similar to everyone on Facebook shows the good and gin stuff. They rarely show the mundane life things.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 days ago

little house on the praire

Op there are a lot of people on fab with adhd or autism maybe search for the threads and you will realise your not alone

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By *layfullsamMan
2 days ago

Solihull


"I'm sure there are positives about being single. I just feel like I'm completely unfuckable."

Fabs can easily make you feel like that, stay on hear for the forums etc but maybe explore other avenues if you want a proper gf

Good luck

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