FabSwingers.com forum: What do people think about “Swingers socials.”

By *uality By Design OP Man
9 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Is it something that you have pondered about.

Would you attend one.

Have you attended any.

What do you think are the benefits/ drawbacks.

Do you think that they are a waste of time.

Would you rather just meet up with someone.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
9 weeks ago

London

I've enjoyed all the ones I've attended.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I've done socials as a single girl, I had a really good time, people were friendly, made some new friends. If you go in with no expectations other than to meet some friendly people and have a nice social time then they are worth it. Any other connections you make are just a bonus.

Going in expecting your are gonna find someone to have sex with, and you might set yourself up for disappointment.

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By *avenNightsMan
9 weeks ago

Canvey Island

I’d go to one, but the ones here in Essex do seem a bit elitist..

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By *zeroMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow

I have enjoyed most of the ones I've been to.

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By *ivilised matureMan
9 weeks ago

East Sheen/ Barnes

Not been to any but would happily accept an invitation

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

We've enjoyed the ones we've been to.

They're only a waste of time if you feel that being social is

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By *ookie46Woman
9 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I love an organised social event and some of the best people in my life I’ve met through them

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

Group socials don't work for me as I am shy.

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Had a great time at the ones I’ve been to.

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By *he Filthy Gorgeous OnesCouple
9 weeks ago

Cheltenham

We are a very sociable couple.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
9 weeks ago

Voldsøy

I've really enjoyed the ones I've been to! They were just like a night at the pub, but with like-minded people. I've met some lovely new friends through them.

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9 weeks ago

I really enjoy them that said it does depend on who is attending them

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By *eyond PurityCouple
9 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve been to quite a few and love them.

We’ve got quite a few new friends from meeting at socials

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By *abioMan
9 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Is it something that you have pondered about.

Would you attend one.

Have you attended any.

What do you think are the benefits/ drawbacks.

Do you think that they are a waste of time.

Would you rather just meet up with someone.

A x

Yes, great way to talk to people and network…

If we are saying to people find ways to differentiate yourself from others, then going to them is an immediate way of doing that!

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By *tormidaysWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

I've been to two and had a great time

Met some amazing people 🥰

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By *peedyGMan
9 weeks ago

Telford

A chilled social, getting to know people without any expectations would be my preference tbh

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By *r.ZeusMan
9 weeks ago

Basgiath War College

I’ve been to a couple of socials and have enjoyed them

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I’ve loved all the ones I’ve been to and made some awesome friends from them

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By *bwlover372Man
9 weeks ago

high wycombe

Don't go with any expectations and you get to meet some nice people and might get friendship or might get yo play if you like each other

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

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By *ineapplePixie69!Couple
9 weeks ago

Neverland/Wales

Going to our first one next month ☺️

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

Where was my lick? 😉

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By *rHotNottsMan
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It can be beneficial in this lifestyle - for some guys at least - to meet people face-to-face and mingle a bit . But it’s by no means essential you can have a lot of fun without engaging with any of that side of FAB.

It can be a lot of effort and cost I’d say it suits people that want or need to be a bit of a social butterfly and have the time and money for it.

It’s a bit like doing conferences. some really great and lead to unexpected things, some are a huge cost and you wonder why you bothered

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
9 weeks ago

Fucksville

We love social events, they can be amazing they can also be a little bit awkward if everyone else knows each other already but overall they are an awesome way to get on in fab world as you can pick up some veris, make some connections and future plans if you're lucky x don't go expecting anything and you won't be disappointed x it's just networking and making good friends x if single guys made more of an effort to attend they may have more luck overall x

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By *an1978Woman
9 weeks ago

Wales

"I've done socials as a single girl, I had a really good time, people were friendly, made some new friends. If you go in with no expectations other than to meet some friendly people and have a nice social time then they are worth it. Any other connections you make are just a bonus.

Going in expecting your are gonna find someone to have sex with, and you might set yourself up for disappointment. "

This

It is a great way to just meet like minded people where you can be yourself.

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By *hisCharmingMan
9 weeks ago

South Manchester

Found them to be great fun, met loads of wonderful people

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By *sStephenPickleMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

What are they

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
9 weeks ago

Next Door

Group socials are good. A nice way of making everyone who wants to attend feel welcome and its easier to get talking to people.

Hate socials where you have to prove yourself ( send a picture) when you ask the organiser if you can attend.

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By *eardedguy83Man
9 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Been to one. I think I need to try again.

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

Where was my lick? 😉"

You are on my 'to lick' list

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

Where was my lick? 😉

You are on my 'to lick' list

Ooofftttt 😈

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

I'm gonna have to get myself to one of these socials 👅

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

I'm gonna have to get myself to one of these socials 👅"

You must. I need to meet… lick you 😇

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By *sStephenPickleMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

Nasty

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

I'm gonna have to get myself to one of these socials 👅

You must. I need to meet… lick you 😇"

Thats it deffo going to one!

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By *sStephenPickleMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

I'm gonna have to get myself to one of these socials 👅

You must. I need to meet… lick you 😇

Thats it deffo going to one!"

I know one

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

I'm gonna have to get myself to one of these socials 👅

You must. I need to meet… lick you 😇

Thats it deffo going to one!"

You’ve made my day. I love to lick 😘

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By *tormidaysWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

I'm gonna have to get myself to one of these socials 👅

You must. I need to meet… lick you 😇

Thats it deffo going to one!

You’ve made my day. I love to lick 😘"

Hang on whose licking who???🤣

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

I'm gonna have to get myself to one of these socials 👅

You must. I need to meet… lick you 😇

Thats it deffo going to one!

You’ve made my day. I love to lick 😘

Hang on whose licking who???🤣"

Are you asking?

#scissors

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By *tormidaysWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

I'm gonna have to get myself to one of these socials 👅

You must. I need to meet… lick you 😇

Thats it deffo going to one!

You’ve made my day. I love to lick 😘

Hang on whose licking who???🤣

Are you asking?

#scissors"

I'm not the one indiscriminately offering to lick all the lovely ladies 🤣

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By *herrybakewellCouple
9 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Its a good way of meeting new people without feeling any form of pressure to do anything physical.

Theyre really good for new people as well, to hear and learn about the swinger world.

And also, its a good way to get verifications.

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

I'm gonna have to get myself to one of these socials 👅"

Promises promises

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

Nasty"

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

I'm gonna have to get myself to one of these socials 👅

You must. I need to meet… lick you 😇

Thats it deffo going to one!

You’ve made my day. I love to lick 😘

Hang on whose licking who???🤣"

Depends if the spaghetti is wet or not

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By *tormidaysWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"I've had a great time at all the ones I've been to... Met lots of friends that I might or might not have later licked

I'm gonna have to get myself to one of these socials 👅

You must. I need to meet… lick you 😇

Thats it deffo going to one!

You’ve made my day. I love to lick 😘

Hang on whose licking who???🤣

Depends if the spaghetti is wet or not

🥰

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By *sWyldWoman
9 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Over my too many years here I've been to quite a few and even organised a few .

Some have been better than others but it's nearly always a good way to meet new people .

As someone else pointed out you should never go expecting more than to meet people.. you also get what you put in. If you make the effort to say hello in general people will chat. If you hide in the corner giving don't approach me vibes , then they may not!

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By *ustforshow25Couple
9 weeks ago

Leatherhead

We try to make our local one as often as we can, has always been a great chance to meet and talk with like minded people and learnt a lot from them. It's held in a local pub so also encourages people to be more open to talking as you know that no one is doing so purely in the hope it will go further.

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