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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over

How often do you do it? As you go along or springclean fashion, so to speak? I have a few so called friends on the friends list who have not spoken to for quite sometime and others that don't make any effort so I am thinking is time. What do you do?

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By *inkShyWoman
3 days ago

near Windsor

I do the same. On here, and in the real world.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over


"I do the same. On here, and in the real world."

Just out of interest, do you just remove from list or block too?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
3 days ago

Paradise, Herts

Never. I don’t have friend pics so

No point in adding friends. Also I can’t seem to delete friends for some reason so I don’t add them. Most of mine haven’t been online for years 🤣

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By *ookie46Woman
3 days ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Never. I don’t have friend pics so

No point in adding friends. Also I can’t seem to delete friends for some reason so I don’t add them. Most of mine haven’t been online for years 🤣"

Cough cough

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By *ora the explorerWoman
3 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Never. I don’t have friend pics so

No point in adding friends. Also I can’t seem to delete friends for some reason so I don’t add them. Most of mine haven’t been online for years 🤣

Cough cough "

Well apart from the extra special ones ❤️

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By *inkShyWoman
3 days ago

near Windsor


"I do the same. On here, and in the real world.

Just out of interest, do you just remove from list or block too? "

Just remove if it's fizzled out. If I've been annoyed, block x

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over


"Never. I don’t have friend pics so

No point in adding friends. Also I can’t seem to delete friends for some reason so I don’t add them. Most of mine haven’t been online for years 🤣"

Not sure why but made me laugh thinking about you being stuck with them even if you don't want them

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By *ora the explorerWoman
3 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Never. I don’t have friend pics so

No point in adding friends. Also I can’t seem to delete friends for some reason so I don’t add them. Most of mine haven’t been online for years 🤣

Not sure why but made me laugh thinking about you being stuck with them even if you don't want them "

🤣🤣. There’s a couple I don’t want. I just thought actually, if I blocked them they’d go wouldn’t they 🤣

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By *usty kayWoman
3 days ago

Burnham on Sea

I tend to do it every time I hide my profile. If I haven't spoken to them or meeting is never going to happen they get cut. Hardly anyone ever notices

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By *hunky GentMan
3 days ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Don't delete meeeeee.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over


"Never. I don’t have friend pics so

No point in adding friends. Also I can’t seem to delete friends for some reason so I don’t add them. Most of mine haven’t been online for years 🤣

Not sure why but made me laugh thinking about you being stuck with them even if you don't want them

🤣🤣. There’s a couple I don’t want. I just thought actually, if I blocked them they’d go wouldn’t they 🤣"

you have to try and see. What relief that must be

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By *ora the explorerWoman
3 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"Never. I don’t have friend pics so

No point in adding friends. Also I can’t seem to delete friends for some reason so I don’t add them. Most of mine haven’t been online for years 🤣

Not sure why but made me laugh thinking about you being stuck with them even if you don't want them

🤣🤣. There’s a couple I don’t want. I just thought actually, if I blocked them they’d go wouldn’t they 🤣

you have to try and see. What relief that must be "

I can’t delete pics either! I’ve got hundreds of pics on here from when I was all sexy and stuff! It’s really bloody depressing! 🤣🤣

Can I block myself?

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over


"Don't delete meeeeee. "

I forgot about you. Just kidding

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By *hunky GentMan
3 days ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"

Can I block myself? "

I'm sure you've tried.

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By *zeroMan
3 days ago

Glasgow

Never. I'm usually the one being culled. I'll think to myself "oh I haven't seen so and so for a while" and then I no longer see them on my friends list.

The only time I delete is if we have had a particularly unpleasant interaction

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over


"Never. I don’t have friend pics so

No point in adding friends. Also I can’t seem to delete friends for some reason so I don’t add them. Most of mine haven’t been online for years 🤣

Not sure why but made me laugh thinking about you being stuck with them even if you don't want them

🤣🤣. There’s a couple I don’t want. I just thought actually, if I blocked them they’d go wouldn’t they 🤣

you have to try and see. What relief that must be

I can’t delete pics either! I’ve got hundreds of pics on here from when I was all sexy and stuff! It’s really bloody depressing! 🤣🤣

Can I block myself? "

That is odd you can't do that. I am sure you are still very sexy, maybe just to different, possibly better, people.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
3 days ago

Paradise, Herts


"

Can I block myself?

I'm sure you've tried. "

I am my friend and I’m

On my hotlist 🤣 and I’m always messaging myself from a thread by accident 🤣🤣🤣

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By *rightonsteveMan
3 days ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"

Can I block myself?

I'm sure you've tried.

I am my friend and I’m

On my hotlist 🤣 and I’m always messaging myself from a thread by accident 🤣🤣🤣"

I’m friends with myself, hotlisted myself and winked at myself.

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By *hunky GentMan
3 days ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"

Can I block myself?

I'm sure you've tried.

I am my friend and I’m

On my hotlist 🤣 and I’m always messaging myself from a thread by accident 🤣🤣🤣"

Phew. It's not just me that does that then.

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By *hortieWoman
3 days ago

Northampton

Probably bi monthly ish for hot list clear out.

Winks I completely disregard.

Messages, I'm pretty on top of.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over


"

Can I block myself?

I'm sure you've tried.

I am my friend and I’m

On my hotlist 🤣 and I’m always messaging myself from a thread by accident 🤣🤣🤣

Phew. It's not just me that does that then. "

I did not even know that was possible till recently I noticed I was on my hotlist and no idea how.

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By *hunky GentMan
3 days ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"

Can I block myself?

I'm sure you've tried.

I am my friend and I’m

On my hotlist 🤣 and I’m always messaging myself from a thread by accident 🤣🤣🤣

Phew. It's not just me that does that then.

I did not even know that was possible till recently I noticed I was on my hotlist and no idea how. "

To be fair - I should be on everyone's 'Hotlist', including my own.

I'm that sexy. 😆 🤣 😂

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By *layfullsamMan
3 days ago

Solihull

I cant afford to cull my fab friends list I’ll have none lol

Glass half full that the couple who left in 2019 return and message me for a meet lol

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over


"

Can I block myself?

I'm sure you've tried.

I am my friend and I’m

On my hotlist 🤣 and I’m always messaging myself from a thread by accident 🤣🤣🤣

Phew. It's not just me that does that then.

I did not even know that was possible till recently I noticed I was on my hotlist and no idea how.

To be fair - I should be on everyone's 'Hotlist', including my own.

I'm that sexy. 😆 🤣 😂 "

To be honest I use my hotlist for other stuff not for it's intended purpose

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By *issmorganWoman
3 days ago

Calderdale innit

I have a v short list and only include people I've met or chatted to for a good while. So I don't need to cull mine.

I used to add more, but found people didn't keep in touch and only then spoke, if I removed them as a friend.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over


"I have a v short list and only include people I've met or chatted to for a good while. So I don't need to cull mine.

I used to add more, but found people didn't keep in touch and only then spoke, if I removed them as a friend. "

That's the way to do it. I am making a not of that.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over


"Don't delete meeeeee. "

And another thing chunky. Unless you have done already, if you don't vote for my fab menu thread yiu are definately off that list. I am currently cheching to see whicj ines on the list have not voted yet

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By *hunky GentMan
3 days ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Don't delete meeeeee.

And another thing chunky. Unless you have done already, if you don't vote for my fab menu thread yiu are definately off that list. I am currently cheching to see whicj ines on the list have not voted yet "

Yes boss

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By *armite 500Man
3 days ago

Darlington

if I don’t chat with them then there not friends so they get deleted after a month or so

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 days ago

The Big Smoke

I’ve never had one OP but I’m just doing my first now. Time to have a clean slate 😘

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over


"I’ve never had one OP but I’m just doing my first now. Time to have a clean slate 😘"

I'd say

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By *eliWoman
3 days ago

.

Just when I feel like it/there's a reason to remove friends. I don't have many on there, the last cull was a few weeks ago.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
3 days ago

Manchester

I very often remove people from there. Some notice and message.

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By *ib.Man
3 days ago

Hampshire

I don't really add anyone, so don't have to bother.

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By *enegadeMMan
3 days ago

Witney

If there’s no interaction / no sign of things progressing then it’s time to bid farewell

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By *IXEN200Woman
3 days ago

newcastle upon tyne


"I have a v short list and only include people I've met or chatted to for a good while. So I don't need to cull mine.

I used to add more, but found people didn't keep in touch and only then spoke, if I removed them as a friend. "

This happens to me too

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 days ago

Crumpet Castle

To everyone on the thread...

What do you do to be a friend to the people you add as friends ?

What are your expectations of them and do they know those expectations before they are added ?

I'm really curious..

What's the job of a Fab Friend ?

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
3 days ago

All over

Just realised one of them has not been in for 7 months. It was the first one to go

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By *ib.Man
3 days ago

Hampshire


"To everyone on the thread...

What do you do to be a friend to the people you add as friends ?

What are your expectations of them and do they know those expectations before they are added ?

I'm really curious..

What's the job of a Fab Friend ?"

Snacks on demand and a contract to fuck.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 days ago

Herts/Beds/London

I should do one.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
3 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"To everyone on the thread...

What do you do to be a friend to the people you add as friends ?

What are your expectations of them and do they know those expectations before they are added ?

I'm really curious..

What's the job of a Fab Friend ?

Snacks on demand and a contract to fuck."

Sounds do-able ..

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By *enda83Man
3 days ago

newcastle

I have none since having to get a new account but when i did I just left them there as did no harm them being there, I had a few that requested friend and I accepted but they never ever bothered to messaged ha

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
3 days ago

Reading

I’ve not done one as this account isn’t that old, and I only add people that I’ve either met in real life or have been chatting to for a while and it’s only geography or diaries that stop us from meeting. I use my hotlist for stalking people instead

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By *aveyougotmymarblesMan
3 days ago

3rd rock from the sun

There are so few on my list I dare not cull any

None of the rest I invited accepted

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By *orphia2003Woman
3 days ago

Tonypandy.

Every few months.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
2 days ago

All over

Job done. Just last two I am debating with myself on. Might leave them on for a tad longer for now.

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yeah, probably about once a year or something I delete all those that I’m not speaking to anymore or that I’ve decided I wouldn’t meet.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
2 days ago

Maidstone

I do it as I go along. It's about the only admin I do on my account as I don't read or delete most of what's in my inbox

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
2 days ago

Maidstone


"I do it as I go along. It's about the only admin I do on my account as I don't read or delete most of what's in my inbox "

I've only got a handful in my friend list anyway so it's easy to keep on top of.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
2 days ago

Bristol

Every now and then, if a profile has been inactive for a while or there been no interaction

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