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By *ugmesqueezeme OP   Man
9 weeks ago

woburn sands

Do you ever look at a profile and get put off by the age and then realise they're not that much younger/ older than you,?

Sometimes I genuinely forget how old I am and then get that dose of reality that I'm getting old.

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By *rHotNottsMan
9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No, I’m acutely aware of my age these days

But I think I know what you’re saying being in your 40s on FAB as a guy can make you feel a lot younger than you really are and you can lose perspective a little bit. Don’t worry though in 10 years time if you’re still here you’ll be so fucking grounded. 😂

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By *ugmesqueezeme OP   Man
9 weeks ago

woburn sands


"No, I’m acutely aware of my age these days

But I think I know what you’re saying being in your 40s on FAB as a guy can make you feel a lot younger than you really are and you can lose perspective a little bit. Don’t worry though in 10 years time if you’re still here you’ll be so fucking grounded. 😂"

This site has a draw... Once you're in you never really get away. 3rd time back.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
9 weeks ago

Castlebar


"Do you ever look at a profile and get put off by the age and then realise they're not that much younger/ older than you,?

Sometimes I genuinely forget how old I am and then get that dose of reality that I'm getting old."

💯

I feel like I've maybe 3 or 4 years left on here....

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By *ugmesqueezeme OP   Man
9 weeks ago

woburn sands


"Do you ever look at a profile and get put off by the age and then realise they're not that much younger/ older than you,?

Sometimes I genuinely forget how old I am and then get that dose of reality that I'm getting old.

💯

I feel like I've maybe 3 or 4 years left on here...."

It's scary isn't it. I've found myself looking at a 59 something profile.. thinking wow that old. But in reality its not. ( No offence meant,). My mind thinks I'm still 20 something.

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby

I recently came across a profile where I was too old for their upper limit for the first time. Not looking forward to seeing more of that 🥴

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

It's the "I love older women" from 30 year olds that depresses the life out of me these days 😭

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby


"It's the "I love older women" from 30 year olds that depresses the life out of me these days 😭"

Oh I've said that to someone who was 30 before, but totally in a piss-taking way 😂

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By *ugmesqueezeme OP   Man
9 weeks ago

woburn sands


"I recently came across a profile where I was too old for their upper limit for the first time. Not looking forward to seeing more of that 🥴"
I feel your pain

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"It's the "I love older women" from 30 year olds that depresses the life out of me these days 😭

Oh I've said that to someone who was 30 before, but totally in a piss-taking way 😂"

I'm sure she was THRILLED 😜😂

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By *ugmesqueezeme OP   Man
9 weeks ago

woburn sands


"It's the "I love older women" from 30 year olds that depresses the life out of me these days 😭"
. Then you get the creep older guys too .

Almost a perfect storm

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby


"It's the "I love older women" from 30 year olds that depresses the life out of me these days 😭

Oh I've said that to someone who was 30 before, but totally in a piss-taking way 😂

I'm sure she was THRILLED 😜😂"

I was just preparing her for her cougar future 😇😂

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By *hil most chillMan
9 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe


"Do you ever look at a profile and get put off by the age and then realise they're not that much younger/ older than you,?

Sometimes I genuinely forget how old I am and then get that dose of reality that I'm getting old.

💯

I feel like I've maybe 3 or 4 years left on here....

It's scary isn't it. I've found myself looking at a 59 something profile.. thinking wow that old. But in reality its not. ( No offence meant,). My mind thinks I'm still 20 something. "

Yeah I've got to stop thinking of 40 year old women as cougars and more as "women my age" 😅

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By *ugmesqueezeme OP   Man
9 weeks ago

woburn sands


"Do you ever look at a profile and get put off by the age and then realise they're not that much younger/ older than you,?

Sometimes I genuinely forget how old I am and then get that dose of reality that I'm getting old.

💯

I feel like I've maybe 3 or 4 years left on here....

It's scary isn't it. I've found myself looking at a 59 something profile.. thinking wow that old. But in reality its not. ( No offence meant,). My mind thinks I'm still 20 something.

Yeah I've got to stop thinking of 40 year old women as cougars and more as "women my age" 😅"

It's scary isn't it. It's as if no one told me I'm old now 🤣🤣

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"It's the "I love older women" from 30 year olds that depresses the life out of me these days 😭. Then you get the creep older guys too .

Almost a perfect storm "

Yep! I'm in that awkward middle stage

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"It's the "I love older women" from 30 year olds that depresses the life out of me these days 😭

Oh I've said that to someone who was 30 before, but totally in a piss-taking way 😂

I'm sure she was THRILLED 😜😂

I was just preparing her for her cougar future 😇😂"

Doing the lord's work...

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By *ugmesqueezeme OP   Man
9 weeks ago

woburn sands


"It's the "I love older women" from 30 year olds that depresses the life out of me these days 😭. Then you get the creep older guys too .

Almost a perfect storm

Yep! I'm in that awkward middle stage "

Definitely nothing awkward

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By *exyScientistsCouple
9 weeks ago

Castlebar


"Do you ever look at a profile and get put off by the age and then realise they're not that much younger/ older than you,?

Sometimes I genuinely forget how old I am and then get that dose of reality that I'm getting old.

💯

I feel like I've maybe 3 or 4 years left on here....

It's scary isn't it. I've found myself looking at a 59 something profile.. thinking wow that old. But in reality its not. ( No offence meant,). My mind thinks I'm still 20 something.

Yeah I've got to stop thinking of 40 year old women as cougars and more as "women my age" 😅

It's scary isn't it. It's as if no one told me I'm old now 🤣🤣"

In my head being 50 is grandparent age. I can't accept being over 50 🥺. I think it's an error on my birthcert!

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

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For the most part no; on a positive note Fab has been really great for frequently reminding me that I'm still relatively young.

🩷

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"For the most part no; on a positive note Fab has been really great for frequently reminding me that I'm still relatively young.

🩷

"

You're not that young.

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By *ugmesqueezeme OP   Man
9 weeks ago

woburn sands


"Do you ever look at a profile and get put off by the age and then realise they're not that much younger/ older than you,?

Sometimes I genuinely forget how old I am and then get that dose of reality that I'm getting old.

💯

I feel like I've maybe 3 or 4 years left on here....

It's scary isn't it. I've found myself looking at a 59 something profile.. thinking wow that old. But in reality its not. ( No offence meant,). My mind thinks I'm still 20 something.

Yeah I've got to stop thinking of 40 year old women as cougars and more as "women my age" 😅

It's scary isn't it. It's as if no one told me I'm old now 🤣🤣

In my head being 50 is grandparent age. I can't accept being over 50 🥺. I think it's an error on my birthcert! "

🫂

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

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"For the most part no; on a positive note Fab has been really great for frequently reminding me that I'm still relatively young.

🩷

You're not that young."

🐢 I am. 🐢

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"For the most part no; on a positive note Fab has been really great for frequently reminding me that I'm still relatively young.

🩷

You're not that young.

🐢 I am. 🐢"

☺️

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By *ou only live onceMan
9 weeks ago

London


"For the most part no; on a positive note Fab has been really great for frequently reminding me that I'm still relatively young.

🩷

You're not that young.

🐢 I am. 🐢"

I'm with Lib. Nearly 40 isn't that young. Sorry, Meli.

😉

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

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"For the most part no; on a positive note Fab has been really great for frequently reminding me that I'm still relatively young.

🩷

You're not that young.

🐢 I am. 🐢

I'm with Lib. Nearly 40 isn't that young. Sorry, Meli.

😉"

How's nearly 50 treating you, [redacted]? 😘

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By *ou only live onceMan
9 weeks ago

London


"For the most part no; on a positive note Fab has been really great for frequently reminding me that I'm still relatively young.

🩷

You're not that young.

🐢 I am. 🐢

I'm with Lib. Nearly 40 isn't that young. Sorry, Meli.

😉

How's nearly 50 treating you, [redacted]? 😘"

Don't. I know. I didn't say it got any better...

😭

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

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"For the most part no; on a positive note Fab has been really great for frequently reminding me that I'm still relatively young.

🩷

You're not that young.

🐢 I am. 🐢

I'm with Lib. Nearly 40 isn't that young. Sorry, Meli.

😉

How's nearly 50 treating you, [redacted]? 😘

Don't. I know. I didn't say it got any better...

😭"

Great, now I feel bad. Sorry. Will make it up to you with Werther's and a copy of Private Eye.

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By *ou only live onceMan
9 weeks ago

London


"For the most part no; on a positive note Fab has been really great for frequently reminding me that I'm still relatively young.

🩷

You're not that young.

🐢 I am. 🐢

I'm with Lib. Nearly 40 isn't that young. Sorry, Meli.

😉

How's nearly 50 treating you, [redacted]? 😘

Don't. I know. I didn't say it got any better...

😭

Great, now I feel bad. Sorry. Will make it up to you with Werther's and a copy of Private Eye."

Is Private Eye "old"? Now I feel ancient for not knowing that?!?

Youngsters don't know good satire if it trips them up. Not like my day...yadda yadda.

🤣

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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I just looked at a couple where she is 32 I just didn't think it's gonna happen

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