FabSwingers.com forum: Boring?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone else sometimes feel they or their profile are so boring?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is must get round to changing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years I've put a lot more detail on our profile but I've come to think that most people don't read it anyway. I personally find long profiles boring anyway and if they go on like war and peace I just close them.

I think profiles are a quick overview of you. If people like what they see you can fill them in on anything else. There's always dialogue before meets after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no never, i just dont take such trivial things that seriously.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I didn't write my profile for myself, I wrote it for other people, so it's up to them to decide. Personally, I'm not boring. I can't comment on my profile.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Does anyone else sometimes feel they or their profile are so boring?"
No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no tell you the truth I never think about my profile . lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok cool. thanks for your replies. I change mine sometimes as often as I change my underwear lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines is just "me" i guess and although i might do odd tweek up - it basically remains same

i think profiles should try and reflect a positive image about the real you as after all your looking to meet and telling loads of lies will soon be found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah mine deffo needs an upgrade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be to some, but it's never hindered me meeting so guess it isn't to all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't write my profile for myself, I wrote it for other people, so it's up to them to decide. Personally, I'm not boring. I can't comment on my profile.

Yawn!

It's terrible Steve! Not enough Star Wars references for starters!! Who's gonna cut and paste and nick that!

To the OP - we all have moments when we think "Am I saying enough to interest others?" in terms of messages, forum posts and our own profiles.

The joy of the site is that it's ever changing - fluid - and at any point you can update your profile content, interests, status updates, pics, change your message style and forum posts - pretend to be someone completely different for a while should you choose!

It's a virtual interaction. You therefore have the ability to act in any way you choose - without the fear of someone sat opposite you either yawning, laughing - or thinking "OMG! What have I let myself in for here!!!"

*at least until the first meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda guess the only measure of a truly effective profile is one which only attracts the attention of suitable partners…….

Yeah like that’s gonna happen …. Pffft….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trying to re-write mine at the minute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else sometimes feel they or their profile are so boring?"

Yes absolutely, but I can't think of anything else to put..... So maybe I am boring lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I re-vamped mine yesterday. Still crap though as i find it REALLY difficult to talk about myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need some decent pics for mine otherwise i think its ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need some decent pics for mine otherwise i think its ok"

snap

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone else sometimes feel they or their profile are so boring?

Yes absolutely, but I can't think of anything else to put..... So maybe I am boring lol "
I keep adding bits when I get messages from guys who arent my type or moving info around so its clear what Im after. Maybe my self-explanatory profile is not great but I think gives good info

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I haven't read my profile at all this year. As I wrote it I may find it a tad boring to read again.

Perhaps we should do a profile swap-shop and see if people notice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm terrible at selling myself and think my profile reflects that

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I just put who I am and what I want. As stated above, no-one reads the bloody thing anyway.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Hmmmm.....I've had to block all men from looking at my profile as someone nicked bits of it.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I've got mine to the point where I'm happy with it. Not too long. Says what I'm looking for without saying what I'm not looking for. I'd describe it as consise and to the point. Bit like me lol.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"i'm terrible at selling myself and think my profile reflects that"

Simply rely on your avatar then.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'm terrible at selling myself and think my profile reflects that

Simply rely on your avatar then....."

that's working so far

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Does anyone else sometimes feel they or their profile are so boring?"

Just recently changed mine to make it shorter and more succinct.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've changed mine a few times, but alawys try and be honest. I change my pics often too as I get bored with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else sometimes feel they or their profile are so boring?"

Nope i'm awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else sometimes feel they or their profile are so boring?

Nope i'm awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else sometimes feel they or their profile are so boring?

Nope i'm awesome

In fact I think I should get an extra

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Does anyone else sometimes feel they or their profile are so boring?

Just recently changed mine to make it shorter and more succinct."

Lucky cinct!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

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