FabSwingers.com forum: Abuse me

By *lasgowg53 OP Man
6 weeks ago

glasgow

What does a woman want dome to her or says to her when she says abuse me daddy ??

Any advise would be welcome thanks.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
6 weeks ago

West Suffolk

You have been watching too much porn

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

My advice is to ask the woman saying it.

There is nobody else alive who knows especially not people who have never met her

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Therapy.

She might not realise it yet, but 💜

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By *lasgowg53 OP Man
6 weeks ago

glasgow

From what a have found some woman like to be called sluts.

And told to do stuff.

And be brought down.

Or treated like a slut.

Just looking for some advise as to what stuff to say.

If any woman like it there self or guys have other woman that have asked them the same thing as that ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
6 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

People like very different things. What's got and a turn on for some will be an absolute red line for others.

Talk to the person it's relevant to. Ask about what they don't like specifically so you know what to avoid.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
6 weeks ago

Manchester

Why are you asking us?

Perhaps you ask her? She is the only person who can answer your question.

Women are not all the same and we all like different things.

This is why people should discuss likes/dislikes/boundries before jumping any sort of risky "play".

Best not to make assumptions or ask third parties, rather the person involved.

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By *lasgowg53 OP Man
6 weeks ago

glasgow

Thank you.

A was really just looking for some advice so a looked and knew what a was doing

Before a dropped the bomb shell that a wasnewto this stuff andnot sure where the line was lol x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 weeks ago

Reading

That's what everyone is saying though. Every woman's line is different. What will turn one woman on will have another running for the hills.

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By *lphacoupleCouple
6 weeks ago

london

Most definitely discuss with her, like others have said every woman is different what I may mean by "abuse me daddy" may be totally different to another ladies wants when she says that 🙂

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
6 weeks ago

Coventry

You're asking the wrong people.

This is where its totally OK to open a discussion with her if she is serious about play and not just a fantasist. Because ultimately we are not mind readers. And as much as its fair to say their are bad and inexperience Doms it also fair to say (and often forgotten) there are bad or inexperience subs.

So have a conversation with her. Clarify how she wants to get down and how you want to too. This is important and not only will it help you understand and get the best out of each other it will help prevent disaster including medical or legal disaster. Likewise this is where you what out for red flags from her. Does she actually know what she wants to explore and understand limitations etc. Or is she very nieve, dangerous or have a mismatch in what you both want/can do. Can you meet each others expectations.

Anyways have a conversation, Clarify this stuff, make notes. Just make sure you're on the same page. And it doesn't have to be weird or awkward. Discussing this stuff in its self can be really hot and a lot of fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Thank you.

A was really just looking for some advice so a looked and knew what a was doing

Before a dropped the bomb shell that a wasnewto this stuff andnot sure where the line was lol x"

Women are telling you to ask her. Listen to them

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By *ad NannaWoman
6 weeks ago

East London

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By *ad NannaWoman
6 weeks ago

East London

"There's all kinds of abuse, and there will be a line you mustn't cross. Even if she's urging you to.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Dartford

You need to find out boundaries and how she wants to be treated in advance. I love it my husband is rough with me, holding my throat, slapping my face, slapping my tits, biting my nipples or just fucking me really hard. But we have spoken about this beforehand so he knows my limits and I love it when he asks me questions about what I want and how to give it me. It's sexy when men listen and ask what you want. Generally you will find most women want to experience some kind of dominant play where the man is stronger and in charge in one way or another.

Communication is key x

Mrs x

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