FabSwingers.com forum: Seeing who viewed your profile

By *ature SSBBW Lover 69 OP Man
9 weeks ago

exeter

Probably not just me , but does anyone else have people/couples they like the look of view your profile quite a bit , but then never message , but then you are unable to message them as they have filters up ☹️

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By *sStephenPickleMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

I assume I’ve said something in the forum they didn’t like.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
9 weeks ago

Northampton

Yep

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By *att1990xxxMan
9 weeks ago

Plymouth

Happens all the time!

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By *eckard25Man
9 weeks ago

North West Durham

Maybe they're shy or socially awkward?

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By *luebell888Woman
9 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Maybe they just want to perv and not message. The reason why I hide who I look at is because everyone I looked at messaged me presuming I wanted to get naked with them.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
9 weeks ago

London

"Maybe they just want to perv and not message. The reason why I hide who I look at is because everyone I looked at messaged me presuming I wanted to get naked with them."

You mean you don't? 😪

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By *LiamMan
9 weeks ago

Midlands

I click on profiles all the time. Ot doesn't mean much

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By *inky PerkyCouple
9 weeks ago

Kingston

A view is not the same as a like.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

If it's couples it could be that one of them likes the look of you but the other doesn't want to alter their filters or message. I think it's often the case that one person is doing things the other either isn't aware of or doesn't go along with

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

If they wanted to speak they'd have messaged, try not to read too much into it OP, people look for lots of reasons.

Mrs

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By *inceIlkestonMan
9 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"Probably not just me , but does anyone else have people/couples they like the look of view your profile quite a bit , but then never message , but then you are unable to message them as they have filters up ☹️"

It's usually the men cock hunting

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Sometimes people look just because they're nosey, or they can't remember what you look like or what you've written in your bio etc.

But it's the ones who look multiple times a week incessantly without messaging or interacting with you that I find uncomfortable. If I see someone looking every day but never speaking to me I usually block them. I find it a bit creepy.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
9 weeks ago

Between Sudbury n Haverhill

If they are not local I’d assume it was from the forums. We don’t fall foul of many filters so I’d either wink or send a brief message if we like the look of their profile. If we can’t do that because of a filter we’d just ignore it. What else can you do? Block them?

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By *ecretSearcherMan
9 weeks ago

Reading

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By *_welshMan
9 weeks ago

liverpool / chester

It’s worse when people Wink and they then don’t respond to messages!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Of course. Lots of people perv on here. Some of us in ninja 😉

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By *aggyballs98Man
9 weeks ago

Cheshire

I browse profiles

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
9 weeks ago

Norwich

I can't see who has viewed me as I'm not a member. I like it that way. That way I don't get disappointed as I'm blissfully ignorant.

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"Maybe they just want to perv and not message. The reason why I hide who I look at is because everyone I looked at messaged me presuming I wanted to get naked with them."

This for me too.

I have regular repeat viewers who never message me, I presume there's something in my profile that stops them or they just like to look.

Some may also forget they've looked. I look in ninja mode, as I forget if I've looked at a profile before. Especially when they regularly change their profile pic.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
9 weeks ago

from mars

Yes .. daily …

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By *ackformore100Man
9 weeks ago

Tin town

"Maybe they just want to perv and not message. The reason why I hide who I look at is because everyone I looked at messaged me presuming I wanted to get naked with them."

What? You mean those aren't the rules?

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By *hyKentGuyMan
9 weeks ago

sheerness

"Maybe they just want to perv and not message. The reason why I hide who I look at is because everyone I looked at messaged me presuming I wanted to get naked with them.

This for me too.

I have regular repeat viewers who never message me, I presume there's something in my profile that stops them or they just like to look.

Some may also forget they've looked. I look in ninja mode, as I forget if I've looked at a profile before. Especially when they regularly change their profile pic. "

Sorry had to view after reading this thread. Xxx. Should I now message?..lol

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By *ackformore100Man
9 weeks ago

Tin town

Could be they opened your profile by mistake and now it's the page that opens up everytime they open fab.

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By *y serendipityCouple
9 weeks ago

Warrington

Had a few thar just constantly view and never message. Xx

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By *tevi00Man
9 weeks ago

Peterborough

I have views and no messages, Seems to be pretty common

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I block lurkers constantly. Either message or move on. (Actually hid my profile today as too many local lurkers!!)

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By *hat.coupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Kent

We get loads of views, but not many approaches. People looking multiple times and not approaching us doesn't bother me personally. Our pictures are on here to show who we are and how we are, so we can't get the hump when people choose to look at them right? 🤷🏼‍♀️

If you want to look, look. Knock yourself out x

Mrs x

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By *ublinjonnMan
9 weeks ago

dublin

Mine just doesn't get viewed!! Lol

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I look at plehty of profiles. It doesn't mean I want to get to know them, or jump into bed with them. Sometimes I'm curious because they've posted something, sometimes I saw a pic I liked, sometimes I have looked before, but can't remember the details/ want to see if anything's changed/ just feel like looking again. I mean, it's just a view. I look at people in the street, too. Sometimes I look again. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *mmaleiaWoman
9 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I browse profiles all the time, sometimes I fab some pics, doesn’t mean I’m interested in having sex with them

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By *avexxMan
9 weeks ago

cheshire

"I browse profiles all the time, sometimes I fab some pics, doesn’t mean I’m interested in having sex with them "
..this

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By *an8iMan
9 weeks ago

Bilston

I have afew regular visitors to my profile who say they aren't looking for single men but look at my profile 3/4 times a week.

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By *fffunCouple
9 weeks ago

Somewhere just outside London

We had a couple view too much where it was like every half hour. Don't mind a perve and that's why we have what we have on our profile but that was crazy. Had to block them. It was a little too much

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By *remiumbondMan
9 weeks ago

Morpeth

Love looking at profiles to see pics & videos.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
9 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

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By *ongAndThick123Man
9 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

How do you know they like the look of your profile if they haven’t messaged?

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By *avie65Man
9 weeks ago

In the west.

I look at people who comment on the forums to see what they look like but I don’t message them. I’m sure it’s the same the other way round as well. It’s kind of like putting a face to the name.

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By *ackformore100Man
9 weeks ago

Tin town

"We had a couple view too much where it was like every half hour. Don't mind a perve and that's why we have what we have on our profile but that was crazy. Had to block them. It was a little too much "

Amazing pics and videos so somewhat understandable... I'll be back in half an hour

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