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By *ature SSBBW Lover 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

exeter

Probably not just me , but does anyone else have people/couples they like the look of view your profile quite a bit , but then never message , but then you are unable to message them as they have filters up ☹️

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume I’ve said something in the forum they didn’t like.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Yep

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By *att1990xxxMan
over a year ago

Cornwall/ Plymouth

Happens all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're shy or socially awkward?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Maybe they just want to perv and not message. The reason why I hide who I look at is because everyone I looked at messaged me presuming I wanted to get naked with them.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Maybe they just want to perv and not message. The reason why I hide who I look at is because everyone I looked at messaged me presuming I wanted to get naked with them."

You mean you don't? 😪

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I click on profiles all the time. Ot doesn't mean much

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By *inky PerkyCouple
over a year ago

Narnia

A view is not the same as a like.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If it's couples it could be that one of them likes the look of you but the other doesn't want to alter their filters or message. I think it's often the case that one person is doing things the other either isn't aware of or doesn't go along with

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If they wanted to speak they'd have messaged, try not to read too much into it OP, people look for lots of reasons.

Mrs

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By *inceIlkestonMan
over a year ago

Ilkeston


"Probably not just me , but does anyone else have people/couples they like the look of view your profile quite a bit , but then never message , but then you are unable to message them as they have filters up ☹️"

It's usually the men cock hunting

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By *estructionDollyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Sometimes people look just because they're nosey, or they can't remember what you look like or what you've written in your bio etc.

But it's the ones who look multiple times a week incessantly without messaging or interacting with you that I find uncomfortable. If I see someone looking every day but never speaking to me I usually block them. I find it a bit creepy.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

If they are not local I’d assume it was from the forums. We don’t fall foul of many filters so I’d either wink or send a brief message if we like the look of their profile. If we can’t do that because of a filter we’d just ignore it. What else can you do? Block them?

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By *ecretSearcherMan
over a year ago

Reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s worse when people Wink and they then don’t respond to messages!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Of course. Lots of people perv on here. Some of us in ninja 😉

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I browse profiles

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By *urvyMilf4BlackMenWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I can't see who has viewed me as I'm not a member. I like it that way. That way I don't get disappointed as I'm blissfully ignorant.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Maybe they just want to perv and not message. The reason why I hide who I look at is because everyone I looked at messaged me presuming I wanted to get naked with them."

This for me too.

I have regular repeat viewers who never message me, I presume there's something in my profile that stops them or they just like to look.

Some may also forget they've looked. I look in ninja mode, as I forget if I've looked at a profile before. Especially when they regularly change their profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes .. daily …

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Maybe they just want to perv and not message. The reason why I hide who I look at is because everyone I looked at messaged me presuming I wanted to get naked with them."

What? You mean those aren't the rules?

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By *hyKentGuyMan
over a year ago

sheerness


"Maybe they just want to perv and not message. The reason why I hide who I look at is because everyone I looked at messaged me presuming I wanted to get naked with them.

This for me too.

I have regular repeat viewers who never message me, I presume there's something in my profile that stops them or they just like to look.

Some may also forget they've looked. I look in ninja mode, as I forget if I've looked at a profile before. Especially when they regularly change their profile pic. "

Sorry had to view after reading this thread. Xxx. Should I now message?..lol

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Probably not just me , but does anyone else have people/couples they like the look of view your profile quite a bit , but then never message , but then you are unable to message them as they have filters up ☹️"

Could be they opened your profile by mistake and now it's the page that opens up everytime they open fab.

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By *y serendipityCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

Had a few thar just constantly view and never message. Xx

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By *tevi00Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I have views and no messages, Seems to be pretty common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block lurkers constantly. Either message or move on. (Actually hid my profile today as too many local lurkers!!)

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By *hat.coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We get loads of views, but not many approaches. People looking multiple times and not approaching us doesn't bother me personally. Our pictures are on here to show who we are and how we are, so we can't get the hump when people choose to look at them right? 🤷🏼‍♀️

If you want to look, look. Knock yourself out x

Mrs x

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By *ublinjonnMan
over a year ago

dublin

Mine just doesn't get viewed!! Lol

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I look at plehty of profiles. It doesn't mean I want to get to know them, or jump into bed with them. Sometimes I'm curious because they've posted something, sometimes I saw a pic I liked, sometimes I have looked before, but can't remember the details/ want to see if anything's changed/ just feel like looking again. I mean, it's just a view. I look at people in the street, too. Sometimes I look again. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *mmaleiaWoman
over a year ago

Trowbridge

I browse profiles all the time, sometimes I fab some pics, doesn’t mean I’m interested in having sex with them

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"I browse profiles all the time, sometimes I fab some pics, doesn’t mean I’m interested in having sex with them "
..this

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By *igBeardyDanMan
over a year ago

Bilston

I have afew regular visitors to my profile who say they aren't looking for single men but look at my profile 3/4 times a week.

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By *uffinandTheJokerCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere just outside London

We had a couple view too much where it was like every half hour. Don't mind a perve and that's why we have what we have on our profile but that was crazy. Had to block them. It was a little too much

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By *readPitt1960Man
over a year ago

Ashington

Love looking at profiles to see pics & videos.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not just me , but does anyone else have people/couples they like the look of view your profile quite a bit , but then never message , but then you are unable to message them as they have filters up ☹️"

How do you know they like the look of your profile if they haven’t messaged?

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I look at people who comment on the forums to see what they look like but I don’t message them. I’m sure it’s the same the other way round as well. It’s kind of like putting a face to the name.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"We had a couple view too much where it was like every half hour. Don't mind a perve and that's why we have what we have on our profile but that was crazy. Had to block them. It was a little too much "

Amazing pics and videos so somewhat understandable... I'll be back in half an hour

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