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By *lueboat21 OP   Man
9 weeks ago

dublin city

Hi. I’m new to this and would like to know what I can do to better my profile. All and any criticism welcome. I’m also struggling with the first message so any help on that would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

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By *carlettsWoman
9 weeks ago

Harpenden


"Hi. I’m new to this and would like to know what I can do to better my profile. All and any criticism welcome. I’m also struggling with the first message so any help on that would be greatly appreciated. Thanks "

Some more bio would be good, doesn't say much. Be polite, be respectful but also good to be yourself

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, your profile is quite succinct; you need a lot more detail.

Your age and location is already stated in your profile and you've repeated yourself in your profile text. Also, "looking for someone I can hang out with" is quite vague.

Talk about yourself: what are your passions, desires and interests - inside and outside of the bedroom. Make your profile stand out so that it best represents you and doesn't come across as generic.

Wishing you all the luck. 🌈

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By *rdere OpusCouple
9 weeks ago

Brum - ish

The main objective of your profile is to allow others to gauge compatibility with you. It’s to tell them what you’re looking for, what you’re interested in and what you offer. Don’t fall into the trap of trying to appeal to as many people as possible, you’re trying to find your people.

In terms of first message, this should be a tailored version of the above. Message people with common interests and tell them why they might be interested in you, out of all the thousands of other men on the site.

Good luck.

L

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By *ellhungvweMan
9 weeks ago

Cheltenham

The secret is that there is no secret. Everyone is different and so we all need a different way of working.

My honest advice would just be to try something and see how it goes. If it doesn’t work then try something else. Repeat until you find the the way for you. Almost no one changes their approach - they just keep trying the same thing and then wondering why it isn’t working. Sounds obvious but….

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By *ovinglife!40Man
9 weeks ago

Hinckley


"Hi. I’m new to this and would like to know what I can do to better my profile. All and any criticism welcome. I’m also struggling with the first message so any help on that would be greatly appreciated. Thanks "

Do you think that the content of your profile represents your best efforts?

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By *illan-KillashMan
9 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Hi. I’m new to this and would like to know what I can do to better my profile. All and any criticism welcome. I’m also struggling with the first message so any help on that would be greatly appreciated. Thanks "

You've typed more words in this question than you have in your biog.

Thats the biog which tells visitors all about you, what you're looking for, what you bring to the table and your personality.

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By *lueboat21 OP   Man
9 weeks ago

dublin city

Thanks for your advice 🙏

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