FabSwingers.com forum: A Wednesday question...yes or no

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It might help

It might not

Yes or no, do you pass by silhouette profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yes. I pass them by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Yes

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Yes

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By *carlettsWoman
over a year ago

Harpenden

Mostly yes but I'm nosey so sometimes I'm intriged

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By *horskin!Man
over a year ago

your kink

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes

Mrs

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By *y serendipityCouple
over a year ago

Warrington

Yes x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

Generally yes but I had a message from one out of the blue a few days ago, that has turned into a very sexy conversation.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
over a year ago

Trowbridge

99% of the time yes, I have gone on to meet a no pictured profile purely from his bio & funny message.

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By *ndymac888Man
over a year ago

Dumbarton

I might have a look if the message, but mostly yeah.

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By *ein-guyMan
over a year ago

Isle of Wight

Only if they have no public pictures to view too. A blank profile picture might just be an extra layer of discretion but we all have different views and opinions

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By *i versMan
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Yes mostly but look at some now and again

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

Yeah. Absolutely nothing to entice you in.

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By *apt peteMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Yes I tend to ignore.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yup. It doesn't take much to add a photo these days.

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By *infullyObedientWoman
over a year ago

Woodley

Not always

Yes if there are no public pics either.

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By *inky PerkyCouple
over a year ago

Narnia

Always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. You gotta make an effort to get in my boxers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

If i get a message from a silhouette profile then I will look at their profile.

If im searching then I ignore those profiles.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
over a year ago

Castlebar

99% of the time yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... more so if they do not have public pics xx

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yes

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By *vaRoseWoman
over a year ago

Ankh-Morpork

Yes

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

Always.

It is so simple to add a picture & we are all carrying around cameras.

What would the sex be like if adding a picture is too much effort??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, because sometimes they have public pics, or if interesting friends only pics could be available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost always.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
over a year ago

In fair Verona.

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wonder if any new profiles will see this and it could help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if no other public photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly yes but I'm nosey so sometimes I'm intriged

Exactly this

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
over a year ago

North West

"It might help

It might not

Yes or no, do you pass by silhouette profiles?"

Almost always, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes my nosiness gets the better of me especially if the first line of the message catches my attention too

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Not always……if the message catches my eye I will have a look and quite often there will be a face pic in the message xx

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By *anchesterTaurusMan
over a year ago

Prestwich

Yes, most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always, depends on the message attached.

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By *zeroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am nosey now. I got a message once from a silhouette asking if I was going to a club night and if I was looking to speak. Blank profile, thought she was fake so deleted the message.

Met her later that night and she was annoyed I ignored her 🤷

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By *smiaTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Yea

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By *estructionDollyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes, I don't even consider them

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline/Leeds

Yes 🤓

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

No, sometimes there are profile pictures, or interesting profile text.

Maybe I'm just nosy

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
over a year ago

Reading

Most of the time yes, but if the first line of the message intrigues me, I might look but if there are no public photos, then I’ll delete the message.

On a search, then it’s an easy filter and they are ignored.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Yes.

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
over a year ago

Your to do list

Yes

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

No Never.

Most pics on here are either flattering pics of tits arses or cocks and bear very little resemblance to the person in reality.

I tend to latch on to what is said. Face pics come sooner or later.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yeah

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By *ude LawMan
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *ude LawMan
over a year ago

"Yes."

I mean no.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

I will look at the profile words to see if anything stands out but usually think if there are no profile pics then something dodgy is occurring

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By *oungNew14791Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Depends on messages that are sent and conversations that are had.

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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"It might help

It might not

Yes or no, do you pass by silhouette profiles?"

Yes.

Every now and then I seen one, yet they have visible public photos in their gallery.

So I either assume it's left blank in error or they simply couldn't decide on which photo to use.

Either way....it's a skip. And incoming mail on the couples profile from silhouettes goes straight in the bin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Normally I ignore blank profiles. But if they message me, that’s different. I’ll go on the message, rather than the blankness of the profile. It’s worked out well before …

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Yes.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"It might help

It might not

Yes or no, do you pass by silhouette profiles?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ifeforelivingMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Yes if the can't be bothered why should I bother

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"It might help

It might not

Yes or no, do you pass by silhouette profiles?"

Usually but not always. The couple I met for six years didn't have a photo. I took the risk and it worked out very OK.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

No.

If the the profile resonates, that's all that matters to me.

I will make a comment based on something a few decades ago. I was involved with a website for folks in a gaming clan. The whole clan had photos on their profiles except for one person. He messaged me and said "I need to have a chat with you. I'm really worried but I hear you are a very social and mature clan with a good name. I'd like to do a cam chat with you if I may ?"

We did a cam session.

I was expecting either another "Kevin the teenager", or "Bert a middle-aged trucker".

I got neither.

She was beyond supermodel looks. I do not exaggerate in the slightest.

She said to me, "Do you see why I don't want to use my photo on the clan page? I won't get a second's peace. Can I have a cover story ? Socially inept male teenager, crippling anxiety, acne and my voice is mid-break so I hate talking on Teamspeak"

I agreed and said for the rest of her time with us, she'd be "Kevin".

Only me and Mrs DS knew her real secret.

She was one of the nicest players we ever had and I'm humbled she found a home with us.

Another reason why silhouette profiles don't bother me in the slightest.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

No, the odds aren’t stacked against you quite so much with everyone else passing them by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of the time.

But that said, there has been the odd diamond hidden in there.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes x

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By *ampireLoveMan
over a year ago

Essex

No. I will still look at their profile. They may not have figured out how to make their pictures their main profile pic. But will pass by someone with no pics at all and poor bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I normally don't even open a dm from a silhouette, but I have chatted to them in the past, it's not much fun when you've absolutely no idea what a person looks like & some of the silhouettes Junp straight in to sex talk, it's just weird, no excuse for anybody not to have a profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I normally don't even open a dm from a silhouette, but I have chatted to them in the past, it's not much fun when you've absolutely no idea what a person looks like & some of the silhouettes Junp straight in to sex talk, it's just weird, no excuse for anybody not to have a profile pic "

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By *arierWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Yes. Also a profile with no verifications. My paranoia instantly screams photo collector

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. It amazes me that people expect to get success with them. The opposite of Carrick real

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