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"Turn up, and be truthful about likes and dislikes. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Being able to hold a convo and have a laugh and being hot and good at sex helps." I agree - and what do you think makes somebody good at sex? | |||
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"There's more to just turning up .i think it's when you have a connection with the person or people that puts something extra special to your sex life .poppyxx ![]() Chemistry, I guess? | |||
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"they are the person in their pictures.. ![]() ![]() That does help ![]() ![]() | |||
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"In no particular order... Adventurous Amusing Clean Confident Assertive Witty Not too hairy Oh, and hopefully they're attracted to me otherwise the rohypnol and cable ties have to come out ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"non clingy and someone not looking for a BAFTA for most dramatic performance post meet" interesting one, too ![]() | |||
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"Looking like their photos and being confident." I like confident! ![]() | |||
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"However, expanding on my earlier comment: Friendly, open, relaxed and respectful and hopefully a connection on more than just a physical level. ...with a list like that, you can see why Im a hard man to meet! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"turn up would be good .. always had a laugh and enjoyed the enthusiasm xx" Enthusiasm deffo helps ![]() ![]() | |||
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"When u feel relaxed with them and not just fuck when u walk through the door . Some women might think men are all sex mad but even men need a bit of whooing lol xx" That sounds cool to me ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"turnip would be good .. always had a laugh and enjoyed the enthusiasm xx" Fixed that for you O - love Baldrick ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"truthful .. respectful .. they are the person in their pictures ... clean .. I could go on and on " respectful would be important to me, too. I like them to salut me ![]() | |||
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"There's more to just turning up .i think it's when you have a connection with the person or people that puts something extra special to your sex life .poppyxx ![]() This, plus being able to chat and relax and have a laugh. Finding Mr. Right? ![]() | |||
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"turnip would be good .. always had a laugh and enjoyed the enthusiasm xx Fixed that for you O - love Baldrick ![]() ![]() ![]() Stop it - put him back !! | |||
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"hard cock And for the women? wet pussy" great combination.hun | |||
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"There's more to just turning up .i think it's when you have a connection with the person or people that puts something extra special to your sex life .poppyxx ![]() ![]() relaxing is soooo much part of it, isnt it? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"turnip would be good .. always had a laugh and enjoyed the enthusiasm xx Fixed that for you O - love Baldrick ![]() ![]() ![]() ive got a cunny plan | |||
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"most of whats been mentioned previously but also trust..." I think a good BS detector is important for this. I agree, trust is very important! ![]() | |||
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"Being able to hold a convo and have a laugh and being hot and good at sex helps.I agree - and what do you think makes somebody good at sex? " Being open and attentive to the other persons likes ![]() | |||
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"So, going back to my question regarding what makes somebody good at sex..being attentive is one thing of course but what else? " Not rolling over and snoring after ?? ![]() | |||
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"So, going back to my question regarding what makes somebody good at sex..being attentive is one thing of course but what else? " Stamina ![]() | |||
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"So, going back to my question regarding what makes somebody good at sex..being attentive is one thing of course but what else? Not rolling over and snoring after ?? ![]() Helpful ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So, going back to my question regarding what makes somebody good at sex..being attentive is one thing of course but what else? Stamina ![]() True! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Being a non selfish lover is important. Turning on my partner/making them cum in turn excites myself. Being considerate of their tastes and likes/dislikes. In essence what makes them tick in bed." So getting to know the other person a bit, understanding their sexuality a bit more? | |||
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"I believe that makes for higher quality sex as the brain and feelings are involved to a degree. Just rocking up and poking it in is a tad clinical from my perspective. " Would not work for me at all. I really need a bit of mental stimulation - otherwise it would feel like shagging an animated dildo. | |||
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"Exactly but I'm sure that others would be happy to be pleasured minus an exchange of names and any conversation." Not saying I need their life history or discussing Einstein's relativity ... but yep, conversation is essential. Grunts alone would not do it for me. | |||
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"Exactly but I'm sure that others would be happy to be pleasured minus an exchange of names and any conversation.Not saying I need their life history or discussing Einstein's relativity ... but yep, conversation is essential. Grunts alone would not do it for me. " No theory of relativity - awwww! ![]() | |||
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"I believe that makes for higher quality sex as the brain and feelings are involved to a degree. Just rocking up and poking it in is a tad clinical from my perspective. " I have had occasional meets where we've just got straight down to it immediately - obviously, living in Arse End, it takes time for the person to get here so I've time to anticipate what's going to happen so I'm ready by then and it's something I enjoy sometimes - a change is as good as a rest as they say ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Exactly but I'm sure that others would be happy to be pleasured minus an exchange of names and any conversation.Not saying I need their life history or discussing Einstein's relativity ... but yep, conversation is essential. Grunts alone would not do it for me. No theory of relativity - awwww! ![]() ok then as it's you. But we will stop at string theory! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So, going back to my question regarding what makes somebody good at sex..being attentive is one thing of course but what else? Not rolling over and snoring after ?? ![]() dont say .Stick kettle on love .xxx | |||
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"I believe that makes for higher quality sex as the brain and feelings are involved to a degree. Just rocking up and poking it in is a tad clinical from my perspective. I have had occasional meets where we've just got straight down to it immediately - obviously, living in Arse End, it takes time for the person to get here so I've time to anticipate what's going to happen so I'm ready by then and it's something I enjoy sometimes - a change is as good as a rest as they say ![]() ![]() ![]() Bet that was not lovely Caz though - sure Taz was taking over? | |||
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"I have a meet tomorrow, we have been messaging on Fab and texting each other for a few weeks, the anticipation has been mounting. For me this is the build up to a great meet, likes and dislikes have been discussed. Roll on tomorrow ![]() Good for you - hope you have a fabulous time - please report back (without naming, of courde) ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I believe that makes for higher quality sex as the brain and feelings are involved to a degree. Just rocking up and poking it in is a tad clinical from my perspective. I have had occasional meets where we've just got straight down to it immediately - obviously, living in Arse End, it takes time for the person to get here so I've time to anticipate what's going to happen so I'm ready by then and it's something I enjoy sometimes - a change is as good as a rest as they say ![]() ![]() ![]() Maybe Taz is a bit closer to the surface when that happens, but it is a bit of a fantasy I like to play out now and again. The majority of my 1:1 meets are as much about the craic as the sex and I love long encounters with plenty of chatting as well as rampant sex, but sometimes....mmmmm ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have a meet tomorrow, we have been messaging on Fab and texting each other for a few weeks, the anticipation has been mounting. For me this is the build up to a great meet, likes and dislikes have been discussed. Roll on tomorrow ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" I have had good and bad sex .. The bad ones just fumble their way thru , a quick tweak on nips and whip it out ... I like the kind if meets where we can write sexy texts before the meet and discover our boundaries. When I meet someone for first time , always a social and if he makes a big impression then and I end up longing for him I know it will work . What I do find off putting is if I have made a date to play and there is no sexy talk before that date , I am likely to cancel ![]() So you really enjoy that build up over a period of time. ![]() | |||
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"I have a meet tomorrow, we have been messaging on Fab and texting each other for a few weeks, the anticipation has been mounting. For me this is the build up to a great meet, likes and dislikes have been discussed. Roll on tomorrow ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I believe that makes for higher quality sex as the brain and feelings are involved to a degree. Just rocking up and poking it in is a tad clinical from my perspective. I have had occasional meets where we've just got straight down to it immediately - obviously, living in Arse End, it takes time for the person to get here so I've time to anticipate what's going to happen so I'm ready by then and it's something I enjoy sometimes - a change is as good as a rest as they say ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have a meet tomorrow, we have been messaging on Fab and texting each other for a few weeks, the anticipation has been mounting. For me this is the build up to a great meet, likes and dislikes have been discussed. Roll on tomorrow ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yeah yeah ![]() | |||
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"I have a meet tomorrow, we have been messaging on Fab and texting each other for a few weeks, the anticipation has been mounting. For me this is the build up to a great meet, likes and dislikes have been discussed. Roll on tomorrow ![]() good luck butterfly have fun xx | |||
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"wow two _phrodites mmm" yeah - I am the older one - she is fresh blood ![]() | |||
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"wow two _phrodites mmmyeah - I am the older one - she is fresh blood ![]() Lmao .. I am the newbie ![]() | |||
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"wow two _phrodites mmmyeah - I am the older one - she is fresh blood ![]() ![]() I chose my name from my favourite song from Cream .. Tales of Brave Ulysses ![]() | |||
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"I have a meet Fri and for last few weeks have been sexting and being very norty , we both know our boundaries . The tension is excruciating and have been horny for days ![]() ![]() have fun hun and tell him to suck it for me lol xxx | |||
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"A good meet is one where the man puts me at ease right away being able to have. A good laugh .....and great sex lol xx " Or woman , depending on your preference ![]() | |||
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"I have a meet Fri and for last few weeks have been sexting and being very norty , we both know our boundaries . The tension is excruciating and have been horny for days ![]() ![]() Oh he knows it's a must ![]() | |||
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"wow two _phrodites mmmyeah - I am the older one - she is fresh blood ![]() ![]() ![]() Ah - I took mine from having a love of ancient Greek mythology and Aphrodite being the goddess who tempted Paris. ![]() | |||
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"wow two _phrodites mmmyeah - I am the older one - she is fresh blood ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"wow two _phrodites mmmyeah - I am the older one - she is fresh blood ![]() ![]() ![]() That's my fave Cream song too! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"wow two _phrodites mmmyeah - I am the older one - she is fresh blood ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Bet you it did ![]() | |||
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"Confident phone chat prior to a meet, relaxed & comfortable social meet, if the chemistry and physical attraction is there for all, Stands a bloody good chance of the sex being above average.. especially giving a quick flash of the leather blindfold during the social if it's going to plan.. Indication of exploring other than the norm... ![]() Leather blindfold.... hm.... taking notes! ![]() | |||
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"wow two _phrodites mmmyeah - I am the older one - she is fresh blood ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() She did indeed ![]() | |||
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"wow two _phrodites mmmyeah - I am the older one - she is fresh blood ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It's a very evocative song , great tune and great lyrics ![]() | |||
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"wow two _phrodites mmmyeah - I am the older one - she is fresh blood ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Aphrodite's signature ![]() | |||
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"wow two _phrodites mmmyeah - I am the older one - she is fresh blood ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() They drop their knickers voluntarily ![]() | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() ![]() I like your style!;-) | |||
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"In my case - getting there in one piece ![]() ![]() No comment, Missy ![]() | |||
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"Honesty, hygienic, good chemistry, fun and sexy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"On time. Respectful ( not everyone like being felt up in public). Witty and amusing Being able to make a connection. Being able to communicate and not just about sex Smells good and clean Able to make it to Dudley ![]() ![]() Love the last one ![]() | |||
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"On time. Respectful ( not everyone like being felt up in public). Witty and amusing Being able to make a connection. Being able to communicate and not just about sex Smells good and clean Able to make it to Dudley ![]() ![]() ![]() I walk most place but if it too far the dog moans ![]() ![]() | |||
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"On time. Respectful ( not everyone like being felt up in public). Witty and amusing Being able to make a connection. Being able to communicate and not just about sex Smells good and clean Able to make it to Dudley ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"For me its Clean Smells good Able to make/hold convo Chemistry that makes you feel like you known them for years not just a front for a fuck lol. Shaved,carrying condoms and up for pictures and videos ![]() ![]() ![]() So good to see people who share the desire for some conversation. I mean nothing wrong with a quickie sometimes but overall I prefer a kid of connection in the scene. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"For me its Clean Smells good Able to make/hold convo Chemistry that makes you feel like you known them for years not just a front for a fuck lol. Shaved,carrying condoms and up for pictures and videos ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Kid I had to read it twice ![]() | |||
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"For me its Clean Smells good Able to make/hold convo Chemistry that makes you feel like you known them for years not just a front for a fuck lol. Shaved,carrying condoms and up for pictures and videos ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ooops thanks for pointing that out - I mea "kind " of connection, of course. Thanks Nucs. ![]() | |||
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"For me its Clean Smells good Able to make/hold convo Chemistry that makes you feel like you known them for years not just a front for a fuck lol. Shaved,carrying condoms and up for pictures and videos ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I agree i love to laugh and chat esp while getting hot n horny ![]() | |||
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"For me its Clean Smells good Able to make/hold convo Chemistry that makes you feel like you known them for years not just a front for a fuck lol. Shaved,carrying condoms and up for pictures and videos ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Over the year I am sure I have laughed more people into bed than charmed into bed ![]() | |||
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"Cougar and Nucs - isnt that what having a relaxed atmosphere without pressure is all about? I cannot see the fun in any activity, never mind sex, where I am not relaxed and happy... ![]() Very true if someone is on edge the chances of fun and laughter is remote ![]() | |||
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"Cougar and Nucs - isnt that what having a relaxed atmosphere without pressure is all about? I cannot see the fun in any activity, never mind sex, where I am not relaxed and happy... ![]() ![]() And then I cannot see sexy play happening, or if it does it cannot be very enjoyable. | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() if I feel relaxed around them x | |||
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"Cougar and Nucs - isnt that what having a relaxed atmosphere without pressure is all about? I cannot see the fun in any activity, never mind sex, where I am not relaxed and happy... ![]() ![]() Even if I try really really hard ![]() | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() I really could not agree more - without that anything else is irrelevant. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() Relaxation and the feel of being drawn to them | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() yes times fly when your having fun. xxx so when it don't on a meet you know there's something wrong .. I have to feel relaxed around people . xx | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() Bet there are plenty queing to be felt by you ![]() | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() After I have walked to Worcester I was going to head to Norfolk, sure the dog will have something to say ![]() | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I think we should turn this into a sponsored charity walk. ![]() | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Now there's a thought | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ok I will moor up on the river bank next to lovely river side pub , lol ![]() | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You could drum up some local support ![]() | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Jo what can I say besides what a lady ![]() | |||
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"What makes somebody a good meet? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Funny you should mention charity walk I am in progress of trying to arrange a shark swim for myself, just trying to get someone let me do it ![]() | |||
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