Being a gentleman vs too laid back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I like to think I was raised very well have have huge respect for others, so I've never been one to be 'too forward' out of not wanting to make a woman feel awkward. So the question is, how can a guy still be a gentleman, but still be flirty and direct and clear to the fact he thinks your sexy and is very interested in things being sexual (not friend-zone)? I think online this is a lot harder to judge/balance then in person...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t overthink it.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

What you do is, you be a gentleman, while being flirty and direct and clear.

I'm not sure at what point they become mutually exclusive, if at all 💜

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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's relatively easy to do both.

Not diving straight in with the sex stuff and talking to someone like a human being rather than a means to get off are good start points.

It pays to build some kind of connection first and establish that you both enjoy eachothers conversation. When the time comes to get a little flirty it's a natural progression rather than an initial agenda.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Laid back gentleman sounds just about right to me OP.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Who isn't going to say they are a gentleman on here when the competition to impress is so overwhelming?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Who isn't going to say they are a gentleman on here when the competition to impress is so overwhelming?"

Anyone who understands the concept of show don't tell I think 💜

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