FabSwingers.com forum: Advice yesterday.

By *igladNE OP Man
9 weeks ago

newcastle

Hi everyone, yesterday I asked for advice about how to encourage my wife to explore the lifestyle. I got some excellent advice ( and some snarky comments and messages!). Last night however I discussed it with my wife , explained why I wanted to try it and asked if it was just her body image that was stopping her. She said that she would like to try soft stuff first and take it from there but she has said that it WAS her poor self image and that she is body conscious..As a result we have both joined a gym, she has booked herself some sunbeds and has booked some sessions with a personal trainer. Even if she doesn't want to progress the lifestyle any further, she is already walking with a bit of a spring in her step...

Oh she has also suggested the 2 of us go away on holiday in October or November to a resort where swinging happens. I'll be asking for recommendations nearer the time !!! Thanks everyone who responded.