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By *agic.M OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Orpington

This might have been touched upon

in the past...

Whenever I get to know someone new and we chat about what we like sexually, I always get the question regarding sexy lingerie, and if I like a woman wearing them...to that I always say I prefer a woman naked 👀 (simply because I love naked cuddles as a foreplay). I don't mind a woman wearing something sexy if she feels more comfortable and sexier with it, but it's not like I see the woman being sexier with the lingerie on. So my question is...if you are wearing sexy lingerie, is it just for you to feel sexier in your own skin, or is it important that your (sexual) partner sees you as more sexually attractive and being more of a turn on for them, when you wear the lingerie ?

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By *weetWithATw1stWoman
9 weeks ago

MiddleofMyStreet

for me... I wear lingerie i feel amazing in. I know most will prefer me naked but hey ho i have body hang ups... however when im in one of my lacy outfits (99% of them are easy access and all that) I feel amazing.

also I kinda of have a thing about being fucked whilst im still wearing some sort of clothing... dress hitched up knickers to the side... and im fucking a guy with his suit trousers barely down...

but thats just me xx

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By *iss.BellaWoman
9 weeks ago

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For me, I like to try and keep my stomach covered.. it just makes me feel more at ease. If my stomach isn't hidden I find myself thinking about that rather than enjoying the experience

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
9 weeks ago

Next Door

I like wearing sexy undies for me and if it turns him on more then it's all good. I will wear nice undies on meets rather than no pants etc.

Love naked cuddles after sex or just cuddles on its own.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"This might have been touched upon

in the past...

Whenever I get to know someone new and we chat about what we like sexually, I always get the question regarding sexy lingerie, and if I like a woman wearing them...to that I always say I prefer a woman naked 👀 (simply because I love naked cuddles as a foreplay). I don't mind a woman wearing something sexy if she feels more comfortable and sexier with it, but it's not like I see the woman being sexier with the lingerie on. So my question is...if you are wearing sexy lingerie, is it just for you to feel sexier in your own skin, or is it important that your (sexual) partner sees you as more sexually attractive and being more of a turn on for them, when you wear the lingerie ? "

Lingerie is nice to spice things up, it’s sexy in its own right.

Personally OP, I feel sexier naked.. bare and vulnerable 😇

When I do wear lingerie it’s usually because I know they like it..😏

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I guess kinda a bit of both?

I feel more confident and sexy in nice lingerie that makes me feel fierce. I feel more vulnerable and exposed when I'm totally naked and it makes me less confident, unless I'm with someone I know well and I'm totally comfortable with.

I always used to think men liked lingerie but almost every guy I've met has said they prefer a woman naked. So I guess I wear it more for me and my own confidence?

I don't really know *why* I just know how it makes me feel 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Nah, it's about me feeling good about the way I look.

It's a bonus if they're into it, but far from a key factor 💜

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
9 weeks ago

North West

For me the lingerie is like pretty wrapping on a nice present. Putting it on is part of the anticipation and sets my mood. I very much enjoy being unwrapped. 😅

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"For me the lingerie is like pretty wrapping on a nice present. Putting it on is part of the anticipation and sets my mood. I very much enjoy being unwrapped. 😅"

This is 🥵😍 what a way to put it!

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By *agic.M OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Orpington


"For me the lingerie is like pretty wrapping on a nice present. Putting it on is part of the anticipation and sets my mood. I very much enjoy being unwrapped. 😅

This is 🥵😍 what a way to put it!"

If you give me a present I will say "thank you, you shouldn't have" and open it in 1.7 seconds 🤭

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

First and foremost it’s for me, I like to wear it, it boosts my confidence and I enjoy the ritual of getting ready. However he also enjoys it, and the visual stimulation he gets also turns me on. But invariably he unwraps me like a gift and we share some of our most intimate moments skin to skin

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By *untogetherCouple
9 weeks ago

Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K.


"For me the lingerie is like pretty wrapping on a nice present. Putting it on is part of the anticipation and sets my mood. I very much enjoy being unwrapped. 😅"

I feel the same!

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By *untogetherCouple
9 weeks ago

Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K.


"First and foremost it’s for me, I like to wear it, it boosts my confidence and I enjoy the ritual of getting ready. However he also enjoys it, and the visual stimulation he gets also turns me on. But invariably he unwraps me like a gift and we share some of our most intimate moments skin to skin "

Exactly this!

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By *IXEN200Woman
9 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

I'm more comfortable in my own skin now than I ever was, so if you join me at my house I'm usually naked, I love naked cuddles

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands


"For me the lingerie is like pretty wrapping on a nice present. Putting it on is part of the anticipation and sets my mood. I very much enjoy being unwrapped. 😅"

So much this! I love wearing it for me but I also love it being taken off me.

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By *verageHoesCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds


"For me the lingerie is like pretty wrapping on a nice present. Putting it on is part of the anticipation and sets my mood. I very much enjoy being unwrapped. 😅"

Oh, yes. Very much this!

N

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By *agic.M OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Orpington

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

For my lover.

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By *agic.M OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Orpington

I can see the gift unwrapping analogy 🤏🎁...kinda sucks that men don't have anything similar...I wonder if putting a ribbon 🎀 on the 🍆 would provide equal excitement for the ladies 🤭

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By *weetWithATw1stWoman
9 weeks ago

MiddleofMyStreet


"I can see the gift unwrapping analogy 🤏🎁...kinda sucks that men don't have anything similar...I wonder if putting a ribbon 🎀 on the 🍆 would provide equal excitement for the ladies 🤭"

I find pulling a guys cock out his boxers fun... especially when it springs out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"I can see the gift unwrapping analogy 🤏🎁...kinda sucks that men don't have anything similar...I wonder if putting a ribbon 🎀 on the 🍆 would provide equal excitement for the ladies 🤭"

Tight trousers and a shirt to me is male lingerie, can’t say I’m one to be too neat about unwrapping though🥵

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By *luebell888Woman
9 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Can't stand lingerie, much more comfortable being naked.

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By *riel13Woman
9 weeks ago

Northampton

These days I feel like an overstuffed sausage in most nice lingerie so prefer being naked

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By *agic.M OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Orpington


"I can see the gift unwrapping analogy 🤏🎁...kinda sucks that men don't have anything similar...I wonder if putting a ribbon 🎀 on the 🍆 would provide equal excitement for the ladies 🤭

Tight trousers and a shirt to me is male lingerie, can’t say I’m one to be too neat about unwrapping though🥵"

Tight trousers? Like skinny jeans? That is not comfortable or sexy from my pov 👀...tight briefs on the other hand 👌 underneath some well fitted trousers- now I feel sexy 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"I can see the gift unwrapping analogy 🤏🎁...kinda sucks that men don't have anything similar...I wonder if putting a ribbon 🎀 on the 🍆 would provide equal excitement for the ladies 🤭

Tight trousers and a shirt to me is male lingerie, can’t say I’m one to be too neat about unwrapping though🥵

Tight trousers? Like skinny jeans? That is not comfortable or sexy from my pov 👀...tight briefs on the other hand 👌 underneath some well fitted trousers- now I feel sexy 😁"

Oh man no! Not skinny jeans!! We will go with fitted trousers.. it’s what I meant anyway😏

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By *ornycougaWoman
9 weeks ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT


"I like wearing sexy undies for me and if it turns him on more then it's all good. I will wear nice undies on meets rather than no pants etc.

Love naked cuddles after sex or just cuddles on its own.

"

Same. I feel so much better about myself in lingerie than naked

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By *untogetherCouple
9 weeks ago

Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K.


"I can see the gift unwrapping analogy 🤏🎁...kinda sucks that men don't have anything similar...I wonder if putting a ribbon 🎀 on the 🍆 would provide equal excitement for the ladies 🤭"

I personally like seeing it go boing when the pants are slowly taken down. There is something about it springing to life that makes me want to taste it.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"I can see the gift unwrapping analogy 🤏🎁...kinda sucks that men don't have anything similar...I wonder if putting a ribbon 🎀 on the 🍆 would provide equal excitement for the ladies 🤭

I personally like seeing it go boing when the pants are slowly taken down. There is something about it springing to life that makes me want to taste it. "

Absolutely this, love a boing too 🤩

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Personally OP I prefer nekkid - for both parties 😘

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By *agic.M OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Orpington


"I can see the gift unwrapping analogy 🤏🎁...kinda sucks that men don't have anything similar...I wonder if putting a ribbon 🎀 on the 🍆 would provide equal excitement for the ladies 🤭

I personally like seeing it go boing when the pants are slowly taken down. There is something about it springing to life that makes me want to taste it.

Absolutely this, love a boing too 🤩 "

That's dangerous , could poke someone in the eye 🍆👀...🤭

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By *i versMan
9 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

Nothing sexier than a female dressed in sexy lingerie x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I personally like seeing it go boing when the pants are slowly taken down. There is something about it springing to life that makes me want to taste it.

Absolutely this, love a boing too 🤩 "

One of mine has definitely noticed how much I appreciate the boing 💜

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

For me my sexy lingerie is a bit of both, I wear it to feel sexy but also as I know the husband likes it it makes it more sexier knowing he finds it hot.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"Nah, it's about me feeling good about the way I look.

It's a bonus if they're into it, but far from a key factor 💜"

Exactly this. I dress solely for me and what I feel good in, which varies.

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By *ighlandCooWoman
9 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I wear it for me as it makes me feel sexier, I like the way it looks on a woman.

Like someone else said, I have certain body hang ups, which, when covered, make me feel better. I enjoy the moment rather than wondering whether he thinks my mum tum is a turn off.

The equivalent for men is the shirt and suit trousers look. Being able to unbutton the shirt, slowly peeling it off....yes please!

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By *bcplCouple
9 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

I hate being naked even in front of my own husband I am just not comfortable in my own skin so I lose all confidence….. put some sexy lingerie on and I’m like superman with his cape haha confidence sky rockets and I feel super sexy. I also love seeing the guys reaction to what I’m wearing I aim to please

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By *ere4It3000Couple
9 weeks ago

Belgium

Makes me feel more sexy and sensual. Let’s me have a better connection with my feminine side. It’s a good warmup and tease for your sexual partner, happy for him to take it of when both feeling the heat 🔥. It’s just making the whole personal experience better imo.

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby

I'm sure like many other guys, I prefer the woman I'm with to be completely naked and it almost makes me a bit sad if they use lingerie to hide certain insecurities. I know it can make them feel sexier and would always encourage them to do what makes them feel comfortable, but it's almost a case of thinking "I wish you saw yourself in the way I do". That's my 2 cents of soppy BS anyway 😅

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By *orphia2003Woman
9 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I wear clothes I like which make me feel good, so all my lingerie is bought with my comfort in mind. If other people like it, that's a bonus.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
9 weeks ago

Hampshire

Both, but I wouldn't wear something for someone else if I didn't feel sexy in it, because that defeats the object.

Usually I give them options to choose from ❤️

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By *itty69xWoman
9 weeks ago

all over

I wear it for myself

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby


"Both, but I wouldn't wear something for someone else if I didn't feel sexy in it, because that defeats the object.

Usually I give them options to choose from ❤️"

This gives the vibe of that parenting tip for picky eaters where you don't ask them what they want, but you give them options instead 😂

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby


"I wear it for myself "

Assuming it eventually comes off too, right? 👀😉

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By *itty69xWoman
9 weeks ago

all over


"I wear it for myself

Assuming it eventually comes off too, right? 👀😉"

For the right man, yes 😘

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby


"I wear it for myself

Assuming it eventually comes off too, right? 👀😉

For the right man, yes 😘"

Noted for potential future reference 😜

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

Watermouth


"for me... I wear lingerie i feel amazing in. I know most will prefer me naked but hey ho i have body hang ups... however when im in one of my lacy outfits (99% of them are easy access and all that) I feel amazing.

also I kinda of have a thing about being fucked whilst im still wearing some sort of clothing... dress hitched up knickers to the side... and im fucking a guy with his suit trousers barely down...

but thats just me xx "

You are so right, sometimes it just has to be drop and go, but naked is best.

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
9 weeks ago

Dublin

I wear lingerie because I love how feminine it is, and it makes me feel sexy and I can express my style through the lingerie I wear. I do love the feeling of being naked, but I am very insecure about my breasts after weight loss and breastfeeding, so a bra definitely gives me more confidence and stops me thinking about how terrible my tits must look when I'm topless. I think lingerie is definitely something that works for me in lots of different ways.

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By *emorefridaCouple
9 weeks ago

La la land

I'm not a lover of lingerie, prefer to be naked. But if the other half has seen something he thinks I'd look nice in, I'll often get it, because why not? It's a bit like a self fulfilling circle, he's well chuffed I've gone and got something he likes, and I like the reaction he has to it. It's all win win in my opinion

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By *weetiepie99Woman
9 weeks ago

cardiff

Lingerie, nah, take it or leave it, literally. But clothes, you feel good in and sexy...yes please

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By *ellinever70Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I realised long ago that wearing any kind of lingerie was never about what it did for me....it was always for the guy

Now I just don't bother

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By *hunky GentMan
9 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford


"I wear lingerie because I love how feminine it is, and it makes me feel sexy and I can express my style through the lingerie I wear. I do love the feeling of being naked, but I am very insecure about my breasts after weight loss and breastfeeding, so a bra definitely gives me more confidence and stops me thinking about how terrible my tits must look when I'm topless. I think lingerie is definitely something that works for me in lots of different ways. "

Anything in blue?

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By *agic.M OP   Man
9 weeks ago

Orpington

It's actually surprising to see how many women on fab are battling with these insecurities (many of which I find incredibly attractive)...but I guess it's true what they say...we are our harshest critic.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I feel like I'm trying too hard in lingerie. It doesn't really make me feel sexy. I feel like I should feel sexy and then that makes me feel sad I don't!!

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By *sStephenPickleMan
9 weeks ago

Ends


"I feel like I'm trying too hard in lingerie. It doesn't really make me feel sexy. I feel like I should feel sexy and then that makes me feel sad I don't!! "

You look sexy naked

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By *ookie46Woman
9 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I love lingerie for photos more than anything.

I much prefer naked skin on skin however that doesn’t mean I won’t open the hotel door wearing something guaranteed to put a smile on his face

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By *cedGemWoman
9 weeks ago

your dreams


"For me, I like to try and keep my stomach covered.. it just makes me feel more at ease. If my stomach isn't hidden I find myself thinking about that rather than enjoying the experience

"

Exactly this

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