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By *inx000 OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Manchester

Does anyone else get Arm ache from giving a handjob and have to keep swapping arms if they are taking a while to cum or you are edging them?

I prefer to use my mouth at the same time but were talking about handjobs only!

I suppose its one way to strengthen your arm muscles 😅😏

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Not usually, but it does depend how long I’m edging him for. The prolonged fun of edging means I can switch arms or hand position as often as I need to and build him back up again and again and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I may as well be the first to say it.

“Well if you need someone to practice on to build up strength “

Sorry lol

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
9 weeks ago

Someplace

Yes, I hate it

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By *osmicRobMan
9 weeks ago

Chorlton cum Hardy

A handjob is great for a quickie when I'm really horny. Agree it's not great for the lady when it takes forever for the guy to cum. Love it when the lady finishes me off using her hand though.

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By *oupleofdirtyscotsCouple
9 weeks ago

Scotland

Oh yes. Getting worse with old age too. I tell him to take over as I lick and suck his balls. Always does the trick

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By *ir tootMan
9 weeks ago

Raccoon city

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By *ir tootMan
9 weeks ago

Raccoon city

I wouldn't know. 🤣

Sure are hot though.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
9 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

It’s practice I guess 🤷‍♂️

It’s interesting though, because mine never get tired. 😏

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By *inx000 OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Manchester

I think it depends on the pace your going at and how you are positioned 🤷‍♀️

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By *eyeYCouple
9 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Actually very glad someone brought this up.. Yes!

Though in my defense I struggle with Fibromyalgia so it's not surprising, think it may be a male/female strength thing as any lady who wields a strap on may know.

However D does love receiving a hand job so I persevere, sometimes find wrapping my hand around his balls and pulling them gently down increases his sensitivity and helps btw 😉

I gave one of our lovely ladies the challenge of 5 minutes to get him to cum with her hands only while I finished making breakfast and she managed it, so either the naughtiness of that or as always we're not all the same.. 🤷😈😂 Y x

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By *inx000 OP   Couple
9 weeks ago

Manchester


"It’s practice I guess 🤷‍♂️

It’s interesting though, because mine never get tired. 😏"

Oh I've had more than enough practice 😏

Obviously need more calcium for my weak bones..now what is it they say is a good intake of calcium 🤔 oh yes swallowing a guys load..I know my plans are for tonight now 😏

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
9 weeks ago

North West

It can be the same with fingering too. My right arm was quite achey after Saturday as I'm not used to it. 🤣

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Why not set him and yourself a challenge? Get an egg timer (digital is fine, old school sand filled glass is much more aesthetically pleasing to the eye), lube up the hands and crack on.

He has til the sand runs out/alarm goes off to cum, otherwise you'll stop and go prune the roses, wash the car or catch up on soaps on the tellybox.

After a few sessions he should be dribbling like a Pavlovian dog.

And if he's struggling to meet the time limit, why not try giving him a cheeky finger. Should save on the arm ache and think of the time you'll save for other fun filled activities or domestic chores....😉🤷‍♂️

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Why not set him and yourself a challenge? Get an egg timer (digital is fine, old school sand filled glass is much more aesthetically pleasing to the eye), lube up the hands and crack on.

He has til the sand runs out/alarm goes off to cum, otherwise you'll stop and go prune the roses, wash the car or catch up on soaps on the tellybox.

After a few sessions he should be dribbling like a Pavlovian dog.

And if he's struggling to meet the time limit, why not try giving him a cheeky finger. Should save on the arm ache and think of the time you'll save for other fun filled activities or domestic chores....😉🤷‍♂️"

I wonder if it’s possible to Pavlov a response to the timer going off 🤔. Imagine getting a boner every time your oven alarm beeps

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Don’t grip so hard, you won’t fatigue so quickly.

Though I suppose arm ache is only the equivalent of the jaw ache we get.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why not set him and yourself a challenge? Get an egg timer (digital is fine, old school sand filled glass is much more aesthetically pleasing to the eye), lube up the hands and crack on.

He has til the sand runs out/alarm goes off to cum, otherwise you'll stop and go prune the roses, wash the car or catch up on soaps on the tellybox.

After a few sessions he should be dribbling like a Pavlovian dog.

And if he's struggling to meet the time limit, why not try giving him a cheeky finger. Should save on the arm ache and think of the time you'll save for other fun filled activities or domestic chores....😉🤷‍♂️

I wonder if it’s possible to Pavlov a response to the timer going off 🤔. Imagine getting a boner every time your oven alarm beeps "

Fine if at home.

Wouldn't recommend using a phone notification ringtone though. Could be awkward for the guy if out and about and someone has the same one.

Getting a stonker whilst wearing cycling shorts in the middle aisle at Aldi because Great Aunt Doris's next door neighbour has text to ask her to get some scented candles, sunflower oil and a large butternut squash might be embarrassing........🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

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By *ein-guyMan
9 weeks ago

East Cowes

I don't often struggle

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Why not set him and yourself a challenge? Get an egg timer (digital is fine, old school sand filled glass is much more aesthetically pleasing to the eye), lube up the hands and crack on.

He has til the sand runs out/alarm goes off to cum, otherwise you'll stop and go prune the roses, wash the car or catch up on soaps on the tellybox.

After a few sessions he should be dribbling like a Pavlovian dog.

And if he's struggling to meet the time limit, why not try giving him a cheeky finger. Should save on the arm ache and think of the time you'll save for other fun filled activities or domestic chores....😉🤷‍♂️

I wonder if it’s possible to Pavlov a response to the timer going off 🤔. Imagine getting a boner every time your oven alarm beeps

Fine if at home.

Wouldn't recommend using a phone notification ringtone though. Could be awkward for the guy if out and about and someone has the same one.

Getting a stonker whilst wearing cycling shorts in the middle aisle at Aldi because Great Aunt Doris's next door neighbour has text to ask her to get some scented candles, sunflower oil and a large butternut squash might be embarrassing........🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️"

Oh but think of the power you could wield ….. there needs to be a truly evil laugh emoji this one isn’t enough

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By *luebell888Woman
9 weeks ago

Glasgowish


"Does anyone else get Arm ache from giving a handjob and have to keep swapping arms if they are taking a while to cum or you are edging them?

I prefer to use my mouth at the same time but were talking about handjobs only!

I suppose its one way to strengthen your arm muscles 😅😏"

I have a very strong left hand.

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By *Silver-Man
9 weeks ago

North Wales

I'm one of those guts that can take a while cumming from a hand job, sorry to the ladies who I've caused them arm ache.

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By *Silver-Man
9 weeks ago

North Wales


"I'm one of those guts that can take a while cumming from a hand job, sorry to the ladies who I've caused them arm ache. "

Guys not guts😂

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Why not set him and yourself a challenge? Get an egg timer (digital is fine, old school sand filled glass is much more aesthetically pleasing to the eye), lube up the hands and crack on.

He has til the sand runs out/alarm goes off to cum, otherwise you'll stop and go prune the roses, wash the car or catch up on soaps on the tellybox.

After a few sessions he should be dribbling like a Pavlovian dog.

And if he's struggling to meet the time limit, why not try giving him a cheeky finger. Should save on the arm ache and think of the time you'll save for other fun filled activities or domestic chores....😉🤷‍♂️

I wonder if it’s possible to Pavlov a response to the timer going off 🤔. Imagine getting a boner every time your oven alarm beeps

Fine if at home.

Wouldn't recommend using a phone notification ringtone though. Could be awkward for the guy if out and about and someone has the same one.

Getting a stonker whilst wearing cycling shorts in the middle aisle at Aldi because Great Aunt Doris's next door neighbour has text to ask her to get some scented candles, sunflower oil and a large butternut squash might be embarrassing........🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

Oh but think of the power you could wield ….. there needs to be a truly evil laugh emoji this one isn’t enough "

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I prefer giving slow, sensual handjobs with oil. Much more my bag

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By *egasus NobMan
9 weeks ago

Wandsworth

I did not tell you to stop

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By *ir tootMan
9 weeks ago

Raccoon city


"I prefer giving slow, sensual handjobs with oil. Much more my bag "

Ooh fuck, the best kind.

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By *lessandra_BWoman
9 weeks ago

Here, There & Everywhere


"Not usually, but it does depend how long I’m edging him for. The prolonged fun of edging means I can switch arms or hand position as often as I need to and build him back up again and again and again. "

^ This is exactly how I like to do it. Is it bad that I love seeing their sexual frustration build each time I stop and start?

I've also been surprised by the number of younger men who didn't know what edging is. But it's certainly been a pleasure educating them

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Filming truck. So you don’t want a BJ/Wank scene to be more than say 7 mins so a bit of lube on the palm of your hand usually oils the wheel of cum.

Trixie

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By *9 pleaseMan
9 weeks ago

wirral

Oh Ho well done sir🤣

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"I prefer giving slow, sensual handjobs with oil. Much more my bag "

Yeah, this! I don't tend to go at it like a steam train til I know he's very close and I want him to cum it's usually long, slow and torturous.

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby

I absolutely love being finished with a hand job. I'm already on the edge and her using lube or spit to make it really wet while really fucking going for it, and seeing her reaction when I I finally finish... Bonus points if she keeps going with a bit of post-orgasm torture while I'm still feeling sensitive 🥵

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By *ohn042024Man
9 weeks ago

Runcorn


"I prefer giving slow, sensual handjobs with oil. Much more my bag

Yeah, this! I don't tend to go at it like a steam train til I know he's very close and I want him to cum it's usually long, slow and torturous. "

Sounds like you like to edge guys 😜

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"I prefer giving slow, sensual handjobs with oil. Much more my bag

Yeah, this! I don't tend to go at it like a steam train til I know he's very close and I want him to cum it's usually long, slow and torturous.

Sounds like you like to edge guys 😜"

Maybe

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By *ir tootMan
9 weeks ago

Raccoon city

Oily Handjobs do things to me, I almost hit myself in the eye from one.

I'm a silly toot

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
9 weeks ago

Preston

Yes but swapping hands helps just have to practise as I’m not great left handed or so hubby tells me lol

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By *and12Couple
9 weeks ago

flint

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"I absolutely love being finished with a hand job. I'm already on the edge and her using lube or spit to make it really wet while really fucking going for it, and seeing her reaction when I I finally finish... Bonus points if she keeps going with a bit of post-orgasm torture while I'm still feeling sensitive 🥵"

Oh the POT is kind of essential after a long edging

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Not really.. however I much prefer getting to use my mouth after a while.. 😍🥵

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby


"I absolutely love being finished with a hand job. I'm already on the edge and her using lube or spit to make it really wet while really fucking going for it, and seeing her reaction when I I finally finish... Bonus points if she keeps going with a bit of post-orgasm torture while I'm still feeling sensitive 🥵

Oh the POT is kind of essential after a long edging "

Sounds like you know what you're doing 👀

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago


"I absolutely love being finished with a hand job. I'm already on the edge and her using lube or spit to make it really wet while really fucking going for it, and seeing her reaction when I I finally finish... Bonus points if she keeps going with a bit of post-orgasm torture while I'm still feeling sensitive 🥵

Oh the POT is kind of essential after a long edging "

I’m just waiting for the ruined orgasms to come out the bag of tricks 🤭

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By *hunky GentMan
9 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

I've just found a new vocation: handjob trainer - I could help train ladies by letting them practice on me.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Chichester

Ha I love wanking do don’t get tired using my arm / hands

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
9 weeks ago

Voldsøy


"I absolutely love being finished with a hand job. I'm already on the edge and her using lube or spit to make it really wet while really fucking going for it, and seeing her reaction when I I finally finish... Bonus points if she keeps going with a bit of post-orgasm torture while I'm still feeling sensitive 🥵"

My new favourite thing!

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By *ir tootMan
9 weeks ago

Raccoon city


"I absolutely love being finished with a hand job. I'm already on the edge and her using lube or spit to make it really wet while really fucking going for it, and seeing her reaction when I I finally finish... Bonus points if she keeps going with a bit of post-orgasm torture while I'm still feeling sensitive 🥵

My new favourite thing! "

📝

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By *hil most chillMan
9 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

You ladies need to stop moaning and get to the gym! I give myself a handjob for hours at a time and you won't catch me moaning about it!

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By *ohn042024Man
9 weeks ago

Runcorn


"I prefer giving slow, sensual handjobs with oil. Much more my bag

Yeah, this! I don't tend to go at it like a steam train til I know he's very close and I want him to cum it's usually long, slow and torturous.

Sounds like you like to edge guys 😜

Edging is pure torture but I get the appeal 😂

Maybe "

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By *aron_xMan
9 weeks ago

London

Practice makes perfect

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By *ringItOnBaby!Man
9 weeks ago

Wigan

I guess anything repetative for a long time will ache! When down on a woman I cant help 'reposition' evey 10 mins or so, especially from the side angle as it gets my arm/shoulder after a while haha

Its all about 'mixing it up'

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By *heGateKeeperMan
9 weeks ago

Stratford

Love a good hand shandy

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By *asty tatsyMan
9 weeks ago

london


"I prefer giving slow, sensual handjobs with oil. Much more my bag "

This I can get on board with as in on me not doing 😁

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