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By *ootloversheff92 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

Looking for any advice ahead of possibly watching my girlfriend with another man for the first time. Whst am I likely to feel ect is there anything unexpected I should be prepared for

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By *hogun300Man
4 weeks ago

Dundee


"Looking for any advice ahead of possibly watching my girlfriend with another man for the first time. Whst am I likely to feel ect is there anything unexpected I should be prepared for"

If its something that turns you on you will enjoy it. What you will prob find more difficult is afterwards as you don't want to feel awkward with not knowing what to do or say. its important that it still feels fun for all and aftercare is also important. You both have to be fully on board and keep communicating. It's something that can very good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

First question. Does your GF want to be fucked by other men?

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By *otfunx1Man
4 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Mine wants it so much. Just need her to take next step. Thought turns us both on

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By *ootloversheff92 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

Yes

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By *ellhungvweMan
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham

The honest answer is that neither of you will know how you feel until it happens.

In my experience the couples that really enjoy this place have a very strong relationship. They seem to have total trust in one another and get enjoyment from the pleasure of the other partner. That’s not always two way - some wives don’t like the hubby to play for example but the hubby is fine with that. Whatever works for you both.

If you feel your relationship is strong and you have both talked it through and know what you will do if one of you isn’t enjoying it then I would say go for it.

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By *ustinMan
4 weeks ago

near chester


"Looking for any advice ahead of possibly watching my girlfriend with another man for the first time. Whst am I likely to feel ect is there anything unexpected I should be prepared for"

In my case the first thing was nervous as the time came closer, we all met at a hotel that first time sex was going to happen, we had met socially a couple of times and felt relaxed, but on the night we knew she would be getting fucked we both suffered with nerves and doubts, the not knowing if it would be something amazing or a step too far and cause problems even though we both wanted it.

As it turned out it was amazing and the best thing we ever tried, I made the choice to step back once they started kissing so the guy didn't feel he couldn't relax with her, I wanted him to enjoy her and give her pleasure and hopefully forget I was there.

Watching them kiss then him slowly removing her blouse and bra playing with her tits sucking her nipples then lifting her skirt and fingering her as she opened his shirt, I watched him undoing his trousers and they dropped to the floor as they kissed then to see my wife kiss another guys chest then belly as she slipped down his body and pulled his underpants down as she went, I could feel my insides shaking with excitement as she kissed his massive cock and muttered oh my god then took it in her mouth, he started moaning she sucked on it then he held her hair and I heard her gag and he said oh yes suck it baby. I then heard him say you need fucking you horny bitch and he pulled her up onto her feet and pushed her onto the bed on her back at first, he lay over her as they kissed, her legs were open and he pushed his cock into her, my wife gasped as he slipped inside her very slow, my heart was beating like crazy my body shaking with excitement my head was gone and I could hear my mind saying go on fuck her.

He started picking up pace and my wife kept shouting oh my god oh fucking hell as he thrust his massive cock into her hard.

She was getting fucked and he was showing not mercy, I watched her body shaking as she had one orgasm after another and he just kept on pumping his cock into her like it was his last ever fuck and each time she had an orgasm he got more verbal calling her a horny bitch and saying things like oh yes cum on my cock bitch.

Then he pulled out and told her to roll over and get her arse in the air, my wife did as he said and as she raised her arse he grabbed her hips and pushed his big cock into her again then he slapped her arse making her yelp as he said time to give you what you need you horny bitch and he held her hips and started fucking her so hard she was shouting oh my god oh fuck over and over. He was pulling right back then thrusting in hard then he shouted oh you cock fucking bitch and he thrust his cock into her and stopped for a second then did it again and each time he said you bitch and clearly he was pumping his load into my wife. He thrust into her like this for some time and I kept thinking how much cum is he pumping into her, my wife was saying oh my god each time he trusted in,then he stopped and pushed her down flat on the bed but he didn't pull out he just lay on her back kissing her neck and telling her how amazing she was and how horny.

Eventually he told her to roll onto her back but his cock was still inside her and he just lifted one of her legs as she rolled onto her back, they lay there kissing his cock still inside her and I was shaking all over with excitement but wanting him to pull out so I could see his cum running out of her pussy, but instead he started fucking her again and this did blow my mind as I go soft after I cum.

This guy stayed hard and I watched as he lifted her legs over his shoulders then started to fuck my wife like a wild man and listening to her constantly saying oh my god but with a sound of crying to it. Some time later he shouted oh you cock fucking bitch and once again his body went into spasms as he rammed his cock into my wife then stopped before doing it again and he obviously cum inside her a second time.

They lay there kissing not once looking at me as if I wasn't in the room.

Then he pulled out and rolled onto his side, his cock still semi hard and covered in a mix of his spunk and my wife's cum. I looked between her open legs and I could see his spunk pouring out of her totally abused pussy, I wanted to jump on her and fuck my load into her but I didn't.

He showered and thanked my wife and me then left. I got in bed with her she looked shattered and totally flushed, we talked about what had happened and I told her I wanted to fuck her if she wasn't too sore.

My cock slipped into her and my mind went wild as I felt how full of spunk her pussy was and I could feel it pushing out around my cock, I lasted a few seconds before I started to cum and add my load to his inside my wife.

That was the start of the best ten years of our marriage and swinging was the best thing we ever did.

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By *ueandbillCouple
4 weeks ago

Leyland

You have to be very strong and secure before you go down this path.

What if he gives her something you cant and she loves it ?

What if she wants to meet the same guy again and again ?

if you are comfortable with watching her enjoy another man then go for it. The first time you watch her kiss another guy and get aroused is the best feeling in the world, but be very careful its not for everyone

if she is up for it good luck

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By *electableicecreamMan
4 weeks ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
4 weeks ago

The West

The best advice you can get is that if at any time any of the three of you wants to stop then you stop.

Checking in with each other regularly is really good too as someone might not want to ruin the moment by saying that are uncomfortable.

If you can make sure you two have plenty time alone after to reconnect and cuddle and talk. And fuck.

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By *hong80321967Man
4 weeks ago

Wakefield

Life's too short, go for it

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By *hogun300Man
4 weeks ago

Dundee


"Looking for any advice ahead of possibly watching my girlfriend with another man for the first time. Whst am I likely to feel ect is there anything unexpected I should be prepared for

In my case the first thing was nervous as the time came closer, we all met at a hotel that first time sex was going to happen, we had met socially a couple of times and felt relaxed, but on the night we knew she would be getting fucked we both suffered with nerves and doubts, the not knowing if it would be something amazing or a step too far and cause problems even though we both wanted it.

As it turned out it was amazing and the best thing we ever tried, I made the choice to step back once they started kissing so the guy didn't feel he couldn't relax with her, I wanted him to enjoy her and give her pleasure and hopefully forget I was there.

Watching them kiss then him slowly removing her blouse and bra playing with her tits sucking her nipples then lifting her skirt and fingering her as she opened his shirt, I watched him undoing his trousers and they dropped to the floor as they kissed then to see my wife kiss another guys chest then belly as she slipped down his body and pulled his underpants down as she went, I could feel my insides shaking with excitement as she kissed his massive cock and muttered oh my god then took it in her mouth, he started moaning she sucked on it then he held her hair and I heard her gag and he said oh yes suck it baby. I then heard him say you need fucking you horny bitch and he pulled her up onto her feet and pushed her onto the bed on her back at first, he lay over her as they kissed, her legs were open and he pushed his cock into her, my wife gasped as he slipped inside her very slow, my heart was beating like crazy my body shaking with excitement my head was gone and I could hear my mind saying go on fuck her.

He started picking up pace and my wife kept shouting oh my god oh fucking hell as he thrust his massive cock into her hard.

She was getting fucked and he was showing not mercy, I watched her body shaking as she had one orgasm after another and he just kept on pumping his cock into her like it was his last ever fuck and each time she had an orgasm he got more verbal calling her a horny bitch and saying things like oh yes cum on my cock bitch.

Then he pulled out and told her to roll over and get her arse in the air, my wife did as he said and as she raised her arse he grabbed her hips and pushed his big cock into her again then he slapped her arse making her yelp as he said time to give you what you need you horny bitch and he held her hips and started fucking her so hard she was shouting oh my god oh fuck over and over. He was pulling right back then thrusting in hard then he shouted oh you cock fucking bitch and he thrust his cock into her and stopped for a second then did it again and each time he said you bitch and clearly he was pumping his load into my wife. He thrust into her like this for some time and I kept thinking how much cum is he pumping into her, my wife was saying oh my god each time he trusted in,then he stopped and pushed her down flat on the bed but he didn't pull out he just lay on her back kissing her neck and telling her how amazing she was and how horny.

Eventually he told her to roll onto her back but his cock was still inside her and he just lifted one of her legs as she rolled onto her back, they lay there kissing his cock still inside her and I was shaking all over with excitement but wanting him to pull out so I could see his cum running out of her pussy, but instead he started fucking her again and this did blow my mind as I go soft after I cum.

This guy stayed hard and I watched as he lifted her legs over his shoulders then started to fuck my wife like a wild man and listening to her constantly saying oh my god but with a sound of crying to it. Some time later he shouted oh you cock fucking bitch and once again his body went into spasms as he rammed his cock into my wife then stopped before doing it again and he obviously cum inside her a second time.

They lay there kissing not once looking at me as if I wasn't in the room.

Then he pulled out and rolled onto his side, his cock still semi hard and covered in a mix of his spunk and my wife's cum. I looked between her open legs and I could see his spunk pouring out of her totally abused pussy, I wanted to jump on her and fuck my load into her but I didn't.

He showered and thanked my wife and me then left. I got in bed with her she looked shattered and totally flushed, we talked about what had happened and I told her I wanted to fuck her if she wasn't too sore.

My cock slipped into her and my mind went wild as I felt how full of spunk her pussy was and I could feel it pushing out around my cock, I lasted a few seconds before I started to cum and add my load to his inside my wife.

That was the start of the best ten years of our marriage and swinging was the best thing we ever did. "

Sake, he asked for advice not a bed time story. 🤣

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By *amesy6918Man
4 weeks ago

newry

Start slow and see how you feel watching her kissing another guy then onto oral. Don’t just go 2 feet first or yous both might regret it

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By *fweonlymeettwiceMan
4 weeks ago

Madrid

I think I may need to get my wife to read this section of the forum

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By *histle do nicelyMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow South

Do it with a stranger..If it wasnt for you then that person wont be in your company

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
4 weeks ago

notts

Step 1 …… get a girlfriend

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
4 weeks ago

Niche

I think you both need to agree a way to say STOP that's both verbal and non-verbal.

And you need to use it too.

There can't be any 'taking one for the team'.

The guy you make plans with needs to know it's a first for you both to decide if he's interested in taking that on. It's not a small thing for any 1 of you 3.

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By *histle do nicelyMan
1 week ago

Glasgow South


"Looking for any advice ahead of possibly watching my girlfriend with another man for the first time. Whst am I likely to feel ect is there anything unexpected I should be prepared for"
you might not like her enjoying it so much

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