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Cannot accom, Cannot travel

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By *oleABC OP   Man
9 weeks ago

mayo

What is one to make of this often seen mixed message

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
9 weeks ago

Willenhall


"What is one to make of this often seen mixed message"

You either need to live within walking distance and be able to accommodate and/or you need to be able to travel (i.e. drive) and be able to accommodate?

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

Reasons that jump to mind:-

a) Less likely to turn up in searches which cuts back a little of the tsunami of messages most single fems deal with

b) They may well only be interested in hotel or club meets

c) They can't accommodate but also do not have a driving license or easy access to public transport so if a meet was to be arranged you'd be expected to host and organise transport

d) They're not particularly interested in meeting. They may just be in here to keep in touch with friends or prefer remote play.

Be sure to read the rest of their profile and make a judgement call from there.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
9 weeks ago

West Dublin

They have kids who live with them full time.

Cannot travel long distances as cannot leave kids overnight etc

This is my circumstance.

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By *an1978Woman
9 weeks ago

Wales


"Reasons that jump to mind:-

a) Less likely to turn up in searches which cuts back a little of the tsunami of messages most single fems deal with

b) They may well only be interested in hotel or club meets

c) They can't accommodate but also do not have a driving license or easy access to public transport so if a meet was to be arranged you'd be expected to host and organise transport

d) They're not particularly interested in meeting. They may just be in here to keep in touch with friends or prefer remote play.

Be sure to read the rest of their profile and make a judgement call from there.

"

Well written..

a) and d) for me, but also the point in the comment above about kids is a very good point.

So that too.

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By *occerstar579Man
9 weeks ago

Harrogate

You pick them up from somewhere near there home....take back to yours to fuck...drop them off back near their house so hubby/wife dont know

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I don't accommodate through choice (I don't want random strangers in my house for sex) and I don't have a car. I am quite clear on my profile that I am looking for meets in Bridgwater only. It doesn't stop men messaging and asking me to meet them miles away though..

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By *ellinever70Woman
9 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It keeps the thirsty at bay

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By *orphia2003Woman
9 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Don't accommodate as I don't want to, unless I know someone well. I also live with family members including children, which factors into equation.

Don't drive, so reliant on public transport and it's not the most practical in my area. Places that look closely can be a bitch to get to.

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By *ir SupremacyMan
9 weeks ago

Bolton

Meet at a club possibly.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
9 weeks ago

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Does it really matter what others list if you're not actively speaking to them anyway? I mean if you were, you'd be able to ask the individual directly why.

But as others have said there can be more than one reason for this.

* to put people off messaging

*children at home and no set childcare in place.

*not actively looking for anyone right now

*only wanting to find local people.

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By *enda83Man
9 weeks ago

newcastle

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By *JB1954Man
9 weeks ago

Reading

I read a profile the other day stating this. In profile description. Basically said. If you cannot work out about cannot meet , cannot travel. Then will explain. Need to be pick up somewhere near where live ?

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