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By *reachersdaughter OP   Woman
9 weeks ago

Someplace

A question for everyone, does height matter to you? Taller or shorter?

My ex was 6'3 and it was quite awkward at time to kiss or hold hands

So I was just wondering what everyone prefers...

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby

Probably only saying this because I'm only 5'8" but it's never really mattered to me. I get why taller women may feel a bit awkward and want someone taller than them but it's never really been a problem from my side.

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By *ookie46Woman
9 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Taller but as I’m a bit of a short arse it’s not hard

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

It doesn't matter to me either way. My shortest boyfriend has been 5ft 6, tallest 6ft 3. But as a somewhat tall woman, in my experience, some short men have a problem with me being taller than them 😆

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By *olden RatioWoman
9 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

I'm not overly fussed if someone is the same height as me, and I don't actively seek tall partners.

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By *vaRoseWoman
9 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Couldn’t give a fuck. Height has never been something I measure attraction on

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Irrelevant to me.

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By *reachersdaughter OP   Woman
9 weeks ago

Someplace


"Probably only saying this because I'm only 5'8" but it's never really mattered to me. I get why taller women may feel a bit awkward and want someone taller than them but it's never really been a problem from my side."

I find taller women with someone shorter hot, but i get why some women would feel awkward about it too

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By *reachersdaughter OP   Woman
9 weeks ago

Someplace


"It doesn't matter to me either way. My shortest boyfriend has been 5ft 6, tallest 6ft 3. But as a somewhat tall woman, in my experience, some short men have a problem with me being taller than them 😆"

My current partner is 5'7, i think so anyway, it doesn't make a difference to me either

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Being 5'1 most people are taller than me. Though I do tend to attract (and be attracted to) men over 6ft. I've been with a few that were 6'4/6'5 which is kinda hilarious really. But also hot

But height isn't much of an issue.

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By *one_maverickMan
9 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

To me... Height has no baring on my attraction to a person. I am 5'8 and would happily have a relationship with a 6ft woman

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
9 weeks ago

South Wales

Not in the slightest bit bothered at all by someone’s height xx

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By *rs GGWoman
9 weeks ago

Up North

I like tall, but have had some of the best sex with guys who are 5'9/5'8. So I think if you're attracted to the guy, height doesn't matter at all.

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby


"Probably only saying this because I'm only 5'8" but it's never really mattered to me. I get why taller women may feel a bit awkward and want someone taller than them but it's never really been a problem from my side.

I find taller women with someone shorter hot, but i get why some women would feel awkward about it too "

Exactly, I sometimes like being with someone shorter than me because of an ego thing of feeling more manly, but it's never been and will never be a deal-breaker for me

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By *ildTimes.Man
9 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

Doesn't matter ultimately, although as it's fab...my "preference" would be towards shorter women 🥪

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
9 weeks ago

Telford

I'm 6'7", so a very short woman would be awkward for me - she might need a step stool to kiss me.

Other than that, I don't really mind and don't have a specific number in mind.

Would be very surprised to find a woman taller than me lol

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands

Being a short arse myself a man's height doesn't matter to me.

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By *ilverFoxOralLoverMan
9 weeks ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I'm 6' 3" and initially would always answer height is not important, but to be honest I'm immediately attracted to tall ladies, 5' 10" and above

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

Height isn’t something I care about, but I laughed at a previous comment about a step stool. When I was with an ex (6’3) when we used to meet up for walks I used to look out for stumps and things to stand on to make us more even for kissing.

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By *ilverFoxOralLoverMan
9 weeks ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"Height isn’t something I care about, but I laughed at a previous comment about a step stool. When I was with an ex (6’3) when we used to meet up for walks I used to look out for stumps and things to stand on to make us more even for kissing."

I've got a stump you can stand on 🤣🤣

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
9 weeks ago

North West

It’s not a deal breaker but ideally I prefer a man who is taller than me when I have heels on 🍭

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By *andadbodMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

no preference, it’s one of those things I don’t really think about when meeting people.

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By *tormidaysWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

I only fancy guys taller than me 🤷‍♀️

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By *an8iMan
9 weeks ago

Bilston

I'm 6'2 and my wife's 5'1, she likes my hight because she feels protected and safe.

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By *sStephenPickleMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

Nah height doesn’t bother me. Taller than me, shorter than me, same height, I don’t mind. If she’s hot shes hot.

I would gladly be Tom Holland to someone’s Zendaya

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
9 weeks ago

Telford


"Height isn’t something I care about, but I laughed at a previous comment about a step stool. When I was with an ex (6’3) when we used to meet up for walks I used to look out for stumps and things to stand on to make us more even for kissing."

You should carry a step stool with you for emergencies!

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By *urry BlokeMan
9 weeks ago

I like other short folk

5ft10 max

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By *abs Big BangersWoman
9 weeks ago

Cotswolds

Taller than me preferably

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By *urls and DressesWoman
9 weeks ago

Somewhere near here

At 5’1.5” I don’t tend to worry about height, men are normally taller than me

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By *one_maverickMan
9 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

I've never cared about height. My ex is 5'4, I've been attracted to women that are 4'10 and also 6ft. It's more about the person and if I'm attracted to them than how tall they are

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By *inxy777Woman
9 weeks ago

essex

Not really an issue, as I’m short! x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Everyone is taller than me anyway 🤣

I do like tall men and women though 😘

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By *verageHoesCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

It's not a factor of attraction for me. My shortest partner was 5'6" and the tallest ones have been 6'2". However, the most perfect big spoon to my little spoon is 6'.

N

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By *3dfMan
9 weeks ago

Llandudno

It’s refreshing to see that it doesn’t matter to the majority, a big thing seems to made about height on tinder. I’m only 5”9 so it had me worried for a while, ha!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
9 weeks ago

bradford

it dosnt matter to me as I would bend down to kiss her as ive done so often over the years.

my ex was taller than me and having standing sex was fun, que the phone books just to gain that extra height needed for said episode.

all in good fun and was a right laugh and yes she teased me about it.

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

I'm not tall. I am 5' 7". It really doesn't bother me - the tallest I've met was 5' 10". From what I've read from women's profiles it matters to them, which is totally fine. I just bypass those profiles and respect their preferences.

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By *linyMan
9 weeks ago

Manchester/London

I’m 6’5” and have never met a lady as tall as me but an ex was 6’1” and kissing was a lot easier for me but generally everything else is exactly the same. Height does not matter to me, it’s the personality that counts.

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By *igjonny090Man
9 weeks ago

blackpool and Manchester

I’m 6’6 so I tower over most people, it’s never been an issue for me to bend down to kiss but when you’re laid down we are all the same height then

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By *urFantasy21Couple
9 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

We are both vertically challenged and I find anything 6 foot or over too awkward x

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By *weetWithATw1stWoman
9 weeks ago

MiddleofMyStreet

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By *weetWithATw1stWoman
9 weeks ago

MiddleofMyStreet

I prefer guys taller then me... just something about it i cannot seem to explain into words... but i am a short ass so its easily done (being taller then me haha) xx

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By *rostgiantMan
9 weeks ago

Wilts


"Being 5'1 most people are taller than me. Though I do tend to attract (and be attracted to) men over 6ft. I've been with a few that were 6'4/6'5 which is kinda hilarious really. But also hot

But height isn't much of an issue. "

I'm the opposite, I'm 6'10" and most people are shorter than me

Height doesn't matter any more than hair colour or eye colour

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By *p1234Man
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

I'm 6"3 I was lucky haha when I left school I was 5'6

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By *obboMan
9 weeks ago

Lincoln

Well this isn't the pick me up I needed. Im 6 foot 5 and thought that would score me points haha

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By *inkyropecoupleCouple
9 weeks ago

carluke

It comes down to preferences, in the same way as looks, body types and personalities.

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By *dalisqueWoman
9 weeks ago

land of make believe

I am 5'10 & physically I would prefer a man 6'4+ however personality & connection is far more important than if I am taller than them in heels.

🩵

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
9 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

Not really, I’ve fancied taller women and shorter women.

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By *ighlandCooWoman
9 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Height isn't a consideration for me as I'm a short arse. Most men are taller than me!

There is something about being a short woman with a guy who can throw me around a little.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
9 weeks ago

In fair Verona.


"…

There is something about being a short woman with a guy who can throw me around a little. "

I love reading this. 🔥

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

I generally like guys to be taller than me but not highly fussed by how much. Last guy I dated was 6’ 1 but it’s not a requirement.

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By *igladNEMan
9 weeks ago

newcastle

I'm almost 6ft 5 ( I used to be 6ft 5 but you shrink a bit as you get older !!) I have dated women from 4ft 8 all the way up to 6ft 1 and I don't think height matters at all, unless they have a small car in which case it can look a bit ridiculous!!!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

Not really I've dated shorter guys taller guys, sometimes the taller can make it difficult for stand up sex but otherwise I don't really care.

Mrs

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Chichester

Taller men yes

Shorter / same height women usually

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By *AYENCouple
9 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

My wife is tinchy and loves a cuddle, which she reckons becomes uncomfortable with guys over 6" taller than her - so she prefers guys 5'10" and under. K.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
9 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It continues to be irrelevant to me 💜

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By *peedyGMan
9 weeks ago

Telford

I'm 5'10 and have dated a woman 6ft+ and wasn't an issue between us at all.

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