FabSwingers.com forum: Misleading.

By *aron Van Winkle OP Man
9 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

Do you think you might intentionally mislead people in here with your intentions?

How do you interact without giving the wrong impression?

My question is about ownership of ‘I’m sorry, you misread my flirting’.

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
9 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Some people feel misled by a simple thank you to a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I don't really flirt too much so can't see that happening.

Someone would have to be rather overtly flirting for me to take it seriously - it's a website full of people with multiple offers.

I'm pretty chill about it all.

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By *electableicecreamMan
9 weeks ago

The West

I don't think anyone is going to admit intentionally misleading people.

Who is going to admit that?

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
9 weeks ago

North West

Apparently I flirt too much with everyone in the forum threads. I see the threads, especially the games as lighthearted fun that are not to be taken seriously.

If I was intentionally flirting with someone it would be in private and you’d know about it.

Or maybe I’m doing this wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Do you think you might intentionally mislead people in here with your intentions?"

Always.

"How do you interact without giving the wrong impression?"

I maintain the subterfuge without compunction.

"My question is about ownership of ‘I’m sorry, you misread my flirting’."

I'm never sorry about my flirting. I didn't come here to play Tiddlywinks.

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands

"Apparently I flirt too much with everyone in the forum threads. I see the threads, especially the games as lighthearted fun that are not to be taken seriously.

If I was intentionally flirting with someone it would be in private and you’d know about it.

Or maybe I’m doing this wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️"

Thats how I do it too, forums are a bit of fun to pass the time, real flirting goes on in private.

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By *hickthighs25Woman
9 weeks ago

Stockton

"Apparently I flirt too much with everyone in the forum threads. I see the threads, especially the games as lighthearted fun that are not to be taken seriously.

If I was intentionally flirting with someone it would be in private and you’d know about it.

Or maybe I’m doing this wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️

Thats how I do it too, forums are a bit of fun to pass the time, real flirting goes on in private."

100% agree i think theres a huge difference with forum cheekiness and really flirting in private x

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By *phrodites AlchemistMan
9 weeks ago

Near you

"Apparently I flirt too much with everyone in the forum threads. I see the threads, especially the games as lighthearted fun that are not to be taken seriously.

If I was intentionally flirting with someone it would be in private and you’d know about it.

Or maybe I’m doing this wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️"

Youre doing it just right. In the nebula of public discussions nothing should be read into too much. Perhaps those who say you flirt too much dont flirt enough.

*allegedly men can fall in love in as quick as 8 seconds*

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
9 weeks ago

Basingstoke

It's a minefield. With some people flirting doesn't work, and you actually have to spell it out, so with those there's no possibility of misunderstanding.

But generally I prefer the approach of just not flirting with anyone these days.

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Chard

The only misleading I do is intentional and blatant on my profile. Plus it's pretty obvious I am not a woman. I don't use filters on pics except mono Monday and I don't lead anyone down the garden path to expect anything. If I fab I like, if I want to chat I will message, forum is for fun but useful to see profiles I may not directly search for or otherwise interact with.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't think I mislead, I can't flirt for shit and I can't be arsed to meet.

Mrs

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By *a LunaWoman
9 weeks ago

o o OO o o

People flirt on here? Where?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

East Sussex

I try not to. If someone interprets my actions in a different way to my intentions I try to correct it or stop engaging

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By *exyScientistsCouple
9 weeks ago

Castlebar

If someone flirts with me I don't have a problem with that...they may or may not be interested. I have flirted with people and I wouldn't have a clue if I'd want to take it further unless I met them. And I flirt with people who flirt with me even if I'm unlikely to meet them. I don't see how flirting could be taken as anything more than it is. I have no expectations from it. And if someone assumes otherwise I would never make misleading arrangements that would encourage that.

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By *ealitybitesMan
9 weeks ago

Belfast

Can't see how I could mislead anyone because I don't flirt at all and especially not with people I've never met.

There's nothing really to misinterpret but a complete stranger flirting with me online would never be reciprocated so they might be disappointed.

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By *olden RatioWoman
9 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

I don't think I do. If I flirt it's pretty obvious.

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By *inxy777Woman
9 weeks ago

essex

"Apparently I flirt too much with everyone in the forum threads. I see the threads, especially the games as lighthearted fun that are not to be taken seriously.

If I was intentionally flirting with someone it would be in private and you’d know about it.

Or maybe I’m doing this wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️"

This ⬆️

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By *ansoffateMan
9 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

No I wouldn't intentionally lead someone on.

I don't take flirting on here to be particularly meaningful unless it's backed up with something said explicitly. Especially, before meeting socially.

That apology isn't worth the paper it's not written on. 😂. If I apologise it would be because I am acknowledging that I appreciate my part in the miscommunication. Not on the other person's behalf for misunderstanding me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
9 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t think I’m very good at flirting. If I like something though they’ll know.

I’m rubbish at knowing if people like me though. Like really rubbish 😕

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"Do you think you might intentionally mislead people in here with your intentions?

How do you interact without giving the wrong impression?

My question is about ownership of ‘I’m sorry, you misread my flirting’.

Hmmm… all about perception, nobody knows intent but the person.

I think harmless flirting is simply that, surely grown adults can differentiate between flirting and serious intention to persue?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
9 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don’t think I’m very good at flirting. If I like something though they’ll know.

I’m rubbish at knowing if people like me though. Like really rubbish 😕"

* someone. Not something

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By *estructionDollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I think it's more a case of people reading too much into the playful flirting on the forums.

If someone isn't flirting with you in your DMs, don't start planning the wedding just yet

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I think harmless flirting is simply that, surely grown adults can differentiate between flirting and serious intention to persue?"

You’d think so, wouldn’t you? And yet …

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By *ansoffateMan
9 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"I think it's more a case of people reading too much into the playful flirting on the forums.

If someone isn't flirting with you in your DMs, don't start planning the wedding just yet

Wedding? 😱. Run for the hills!!

I think I may use that one next time I need to kill the mood. 😂

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
9 weeks ago

Voldsøy

"Apparently I flirt too much with everyone in the forum threads. I see the threads, especially the games as lighthearted fun that are not to be taken seriously.

If I was intentionally flirting with someone it would be in private and you’d know about it.

Or maybe I’m doing this wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️

Thats how I do it too, forums are a bit of fun to pass the time, real flirting goes on in private.

100% agree i think theres a huge difference with forum cheekiness and really flirting in private x"

Mhm, nodding to all of this.

I don't think I know how to flirt when I actually like someone, it's easier when it's just for fun 🤣

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I deliberately mislead everyone. Obvs 👍🏻

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By *sStephenPickleMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

"I deliberately mislead everyone. Obvs 👍🏻"

Obvs

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By *ir tootMan
9 weeks ago

Raccoon city

"Apparently I flirt too much with everyone in the forum threads. I see the threads, especially the games as lighthearted fun that are not to be taken seriously.

If I was intentionally flirting with someone it would be in private and you’d know about it.

Or maybe I’m doing this wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️

Thats how I do it too, forums are a bit of fun to pass the time, real flirting goes on in private.

100% agree i think theres a huge difference with forum cheekiness and really flirting in private x

Mhm, nodding to all of this.

I don't think I know how to flirt when I actually like someone, it's easier when it's just for fun 🤣"
.your a great flirt. 😘

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By *eroLondonMan
9 weeks ago

Mayfair

I think most people - including myself - are trepidatious when it comes to flirting. Yes we can be cheeky and lighthearted but I don't think most of us are intentionally misleading people.

I suspect most people are testing the water to see if the other person who is being flirted with is receptive to those incoming 'flirts', a ruffling of plumage so to speak. Perhaps they like them but are too coy or reserved to do anything other than engage in tentative flirts. Maybe it's the lack of mutual flirtatious response or the possibility they will reject their coquettish behaviour.

I think flirting is a litmus test to evaluate if the other person is also interested, or not. The forums are awash with flirting. It's the perfect place for it because it's benign and without malice.

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By *tormidaysWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"I deliberately mislead everyone. Obvs 👍🏻"

Hang on..you mean you didn't mean it 😱

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By *ittlebirdWoman
9 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I deliberately mislead everyone. Obvs 👍🏻

Hang on..you mean you didn't mean it 😱"

Oh I definitely me the scissors… 😈

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands

"I deliberately mislead everyone. Obvs 👍🏻"

😭

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By *tormidaysWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"I deliberately mislead everyone. Obvs 👍🏻

Hang on..you mean you didn't mean it 😱

Oh I definitely me the scissors… 😈"

I'm just not sure I can believe you now 😬

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By *tormidaysWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"I deliberately mislead everyone. Obvs 👍🏻

😭"

She is such a tease 🤷‍♀️

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands

"I deliberately mislead everyone. Obvs 👍🏻

😭

She is such a tease 🤷‍♀️"

She is, thats why we like her 🤗

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By *eliWoman
9 weeks ago

I don't flirt so hopefully not. It's unlikely.

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By *oeBeansMan
9 weeks ago

Derby

It's something I've always tended to keep in mind, especially when flirting in the forums. I know some people do it in a playful way, but it's not something I tend to do in case they take it the wrong way that I would be interested in something more and if they did, I'd feel pretty bad about it 🙈

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By *tormidaysWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"I deliberately mislead everyone. Obvs 👍🏻

😭

She is such a tease 🤷‍♀️

She is, thats why we like her 🤗"

🥰

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By *tormidaysWoman
9 weeks ago

Manchester

"I don't flirt so hopefully not. It's unlikely."

🤔

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By *ookie46Woman
9 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m not looking to meet anyone new so don’t really flirt, I just chat absolute shit to people

I only flirt with intent with the person I see

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Central

I'm pleasant and friendly but cautious not to mislead. And generally restrict myself with even this, just in case someone misinterprets this as a come on.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
9 weeks ago

Merseyside

I have found lately many guys go from a polite hi reply to that meaning a meet.

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By *dog1038Man
9 weeks ago

Altrincham

It’s very difficult I find how to approach a message

Either cheeky or sexual I fear it made be a 50/50 or am I reading to much into it

I’d hate the fact that if I offended someone and I fear this may alter my approach

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By *sStephenPickleMan
9 weeks ago

Ends

"I have found lately many guys go from a polite hi reply to that meaning a meet.

Why else would someone reply to me if not because they fancy fucking me?

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By *hortieWoman
9 weeks ago

Northampton

"Do you think you might intentionally mislead people in here with your intentions?

How do you interact without giving the wrong impression?

My question is about ownership of ‘I’m sorry, you misread my flirting’.

The more people learn I'm a horny older bird and I will go for what I want, the easier it is.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
9 weeks ago

Merseyside

"I have found lately many guys go from a polite hi reply to that meaning a meet.

Why else would someone reply to me if not because they fancy fucking me? "

Shouldn’t we have manners though and say hi back?

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