FabSwingers.com forum: Winks any point

By *horskin! OP Man
47 weeks ago

behind you

Just curious does anyone get anything in response to winking someone

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By *vaRoseWoman
47 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I never check mine sorry

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By *.hrisMan
47 weeks ago

Bath

Sometimes it has started a conversation, but not much more than that 😂

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By *adtaffladMan
47 weeks ago

Rhyl

I get the odd response from winks. I use it as a polite way of saying hello

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By *horskin! OP Man
47 weeks ago

behind you

"I get the odd response from winks. I use it as a polite way of saying hello"
that's what I tend to use it for, but finding it may aswell send out smoke signals lol.

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By *adtaffladMan
47 weeks ago

Rhyl

"I get the odd response from winks. I use it as a polite way of saying hellothat's what I tend to use it for, but finding it may aswell send out smoke signals lol."

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By *i versMan
47 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

May as well message them ass not alot get back to you

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
47 weeks ago

Next Door

Rarely look at them,

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By *avexxMan
47 weeks ago

cheshire

dont look at them... much prefer a message

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By *obilebottomMan
47 weeks ago

All over

Yes, I like them

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By *he milf next doorWoman
47 weeks ago

bluebell woods

I find them a waste of time especially the ones that are from miles away what does it even mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Complete waste of time.

Think that if you don’t read someone’s profile, and cannot be arsed in writing something interesting based on that notes you read you can see why myself and others think a wink and uncalled for friends invite is unwarranted and only deserves deletion.

Trixie

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By *eroLondonMan
47 weeks ago

Mayfair

I never send. I rarely check. I find them superfluous.

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By *horskin! OP Man
47 weeks ago

behind you

I see I guess I will need to knock them on the head then and, stand by to be ignored from messages instead lol 😆, I think k that's what im getting from the comments 😅

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By *hunky GentMan
47 weeks ago

Bedford

Absolutely bloody useless

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By *erry 58Man
47 weeks ago

doncaster

I never get any

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I always thank people for the compliment of sending a wink.

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By *aizyWoman
47 weeks ago

west midlands

I like them, I send them but I only really check mine when I'm about to bulk delete them, I do wink back if I like the look of someone.

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By *ndymac888Man
47 weeks ago

Dumbarton

I get winks from woman, i usually take it as in invitation to message.

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By *hunky GentMan
47 weeks ago

Bedford

"I like them, I send them but I only really check mine when I'm about to bulk delete them, I do wink back if I like the look of someone."

I'll chance my luck.

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By *ou only live onceMan
47 weeks ago

London

I like them. An indication I popped by and liked what I saw - like a calling card!

If they wink back, I'll drop them a message. If they don't, c'est la vie.

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By *y serendipityCouple
47 weeks ago

Warrington

We like a wink. Will wink back if interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I never respond to them.

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By *JB1954Man
47 weeks ago

Reading

I send winks. Unless a profile stipulates NO winks. Yes do get some response . Also have had females , couples wink me after I have looked at their profile. Not winked or messaged them.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Last the last two meets we had started as them winking.

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By *2teleMan
47 weeks ago

Stirlingshire

Never get any, never send any

Seems a bit of a lazy thing to do, like you can't be arsed writing a message

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Delete all mine

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By *mmaleiaWoman
47 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I look at mine, check the profile out, ignore or wink back depending on if A)they’re near, B) I like what I see

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By *oodles09Woman
47 weeks ago

Newark

Never even look at mine!

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By *asty tatsyMan
47 weeks ago

london

I send a few winks it’s not for everyone of course

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By *rs GGWoman
47 weeks ago

Up North

I love a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I love a wink

Winked x

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

"I like them, I send them but I only really check mine when I'm about to bulk delete them, I do wink back if I like the look of someone."

Winked x

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By *hil most chillMan
47 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

In all my years I've never had a response to a wink, so I don't bother sending them anymore

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By *netobeextraMan
47 weeks ago

South Wales | London | Belfast

Winks work. Not all the time. I use them as a test if I’m not sure if I’m the type of person the other profile is looking for. If I don’t get a reply of any kind then no harm done

I often receive winks and don’t get offended by them

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By *attoo manMan
47 weeks ago

Rhyl

Always nice to have a wink

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By *attoo manMan
47 weeks ago

Rhyl

[Removed by poster at 25/05/25 18:33:01]

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By *ittlebirdWoman
47 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I use them sometimes. I very rarely look at mine though

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By *lemFandango23TV/TS
47 weeks ago

Southampton City

I use them but I don’t think I have ever had a response from sending one.

If I receive one I will check them out and if interested I will send message but about 2/3 of the time they don’t respond either, what’s the point in sending a wink and not replying when the person messages you.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Very rarely

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
47 weeks ago

lucan

I think it’s a waste of time, if you’re considering a wink….don't.

We’d prefer a nice text message instead.

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
47 weeks ago

North West

"Just curious does anyone get anything in response to winking someone "

They get my attention - I’ll click on the profile, check it out. Mostly, it then becomes a no 😂, if I’m semi-intrigued, I’ll wink back..if I want to jump their bones, I’ll message first 😂 Same goes for J!

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By *ntrigued888Woman
47 weeks ago

Herts, Beds & Bucks

I tend to forget to look then might notice someone winked ages ago then messaged.

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By *partharmonyCouple
47 weeks ago

Tonbridge

I (Luke) look at our winks and contact anybody who floats our boat.

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By *ustincider888Man
47 weeks ago

Chorley

I always look at them, I don't always respond.

I like to send one to point out I'm interested and if I receive one back I'll message them.

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By *orianafaeCouple
47 weeks ago

BIRMINGHAM

I like it, lets me know some one is interested or likes my profile but not sure if they are compatible. Vica versa I wink for the same reasons

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
47 weeks ago

Central

I've had meets that started from a wink. Some people state not to bother, others that opposite.

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By *inky PerkyCouple
47 weeks ago

Narnia

Nope. Bulk deleted every day

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I check mine but most are a straight delete because they are from persons too far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Always love a wink

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By *imon_hydeMan
47 weeks ago

Stockport

I wink, it's an expression of apprication and interest.

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By *orphia2003Woman
47 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I generally don't bother, unless I'm winking at a mate, or following it up with a message

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I’ve never looked at them. Just don’t see the point of them

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By *imon_hydeMan
47 weeks ago

Stockport

And there was me thinking Glowup didn't like me ')

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By *hat.coupleCouple
47 weeks ago

Kent

I so get responses from winks but not a lot. I think it's a good way to gage whether someone is interested before going in and messaging. I take time and effort to write my introduction messages so it's nice to know if my efforts would be appreciated.

Mrs x

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Northumberland

I do sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I always look , if their profile is interesting might say hello

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By *hunky GentMan
47 weeks ago

Bedford

"I always look , if their profile is interesting might say hello

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By *oeBeansMan
47 weeks ago

Derby

I don't wink as I adjust assume that women and couples don't check them if they already have loads. However, I say in my profile that if people are interested then to wink me. That way, they don't have to commit to a message but at least it shows some interest for me to then message them without wondering if they would just ignore it.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
47 weeks ago

Chester

I never check mine 🤷🏼‍♂️

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By *xfordjohnMan
47 weeks ago

Oxford

"Sometimes it has started a conversation, but not much more than that 😂"

That's been my experience too. They seem to be nearly always from people whose preferences don't match mine.

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
47 weeks ago

Southport

I check mine, and often respond with a 'thanks for the wink' and see how it goes from there.

Oh and a question: the 'delete all winks' button? Does that delete just the received ones or the sent ones as well??

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By *partharmonyCouple
47 weeks ago

Tonbridge

We prefer a wink to a shit message.

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By *orbidden eastMan
47 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Of course there is and it doesn’t hurt to try

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By *ear NecessitiesMan
47 weeks ago

The woods

Lots that send seem to do so on a whim and then don't follow up or are the worst flakes. Amount of effort is apparently indicative.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
47 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

Only guys wink.

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By *partharmonyCouple
47 weeks ago

Tonbridge

"Only guys wink. "

Definitely not true.

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By *avie65Man
47 weeks ago

In the west.

I stopped winking ages ago. And it has been a while since I had one. I didn’t think many people did now.

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