FabSwingers.com forum: Cross dressing feelings x

By *ayleababe OP TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Tividale

Hi all, I’ve been dressing feminine since I was a teenager, I just can’t stop myself. I absolutely love dressing feminine…. on my own, I’ve never gone out side dressed but indoors when my girlfriend is away I’m full on it. I meet guys on occasion and that just gives me the ultimate thrill.

Thing is outside of my cross dressing habit I’m totally a guy who loves his girlfriend.

I cannot decide if I’m gay, straight or bi. It’s like I have this secret life one side and a normal life the other side.

A while ago my girlfriend found lots of my outfits in a suitcase and obviously questioned me on it….. I just said that on occasion I like to dress female and that was the end of it, she hasn’t mentioned it since.

I’m not in any predicament but trying to figure out myself and who I am, does anyone have similar thoughts like me or am I just weird?

Thanks all for taking the time to read this.

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
4 weeks ago

Sheffield

You're not weird.

Well no weirder than anyone else around here.

You're working things out and trying to be your best you. That's totally okay and normal. Most people have questioning and experimental periods in their lives. For most it's in their teens and twenties, but we all discover things about ourselves as we go along.

Clothes are clothes, if you enjoy the cut of fem clothes and want to dress up. Be your best you.

Gender is a spectrum and being gender fluid (feeling more male one day and feeling more female another) is a thing.

Same with sexuality. It's a spectrum. There are very few absolutely hetero or absolutely homosexual people out there. You may be het

exible (mostly het by okay with a bit of same sex contact), bicurious or bi.

Nothing wrong with being open minded, experimenting and seeing what's right for you.

Just be honest with yourself and communicate with your partner/s.

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By *oodmessMan
4 weeks ago

yumsville

Does she know you swing or is that in a suitcase too..........

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By *ayleababe OP TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Tividale

"Does she know you swing or is that in a suitcase too.........."

Yep that’s in a suitcase too xx

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By *oodmessMan
4 weeks ago

yumsville

"Does she know you swing or is that in a suitcase too..........

Yep that’s in a suitcase too xx"

Sounds a keeper, send some invites out, blow up the pool and if there's a peg that fits you'll both find out

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

You are figuring things out and that's great, however a guy that loves his girlfriend doesn't lie and deceive ultimately doing things that will hurt her.

At least be honest with the person you are supposed to love.

Mrs

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By *unx2019Couple
4 weeks ago

Moray

I found out about his dressing and realising it's part of what he is embraced it. Admittedly I do find it rather sexy sexy which helps but so much better now it's in the open and something we both enjoy.

He dresses because he enjoys the feeling of the clothes he wears and it gives him the chance to be a different kind of person, more feminine and submissive.

Think need to chat with partner and to see how you both feel about it, not try and hide who you are.

Lxx

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
4 weeks ago

rochdale

"You are figuring things out and that's great, however a guy that loves his girlfriend doesn't lie and deceive ultimately doing things that will hurt her.

At least be honest with the person you are supposed to love.

Mrs "

This.

In a previous life I was with a woman who knew about my dressing from the beginning. Although she was allegedly fine with it at first it soon became a problem and 'Sara' soon went underground.

Both of us were unhappy & cheating so inevitably it ended.

Now I'm with a lady who knows and understands my need to dress & my need for sex with men. I don't do anything behind her back.

To the OP, talk to your partner and be truthful. She deserves that at least.

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By *bccreamMan
4 weeks ago

Lichfield

You should at least tell your partner.

But also embrace how you want to be

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By *oodmessMan
4 weeks ago

yumsville

I read this as gf found clothes in suitcase so everything was out of the suitcase - my mistake. This is pretty shady really... if she's stayed with you I can only see this being a one sided relationship. Your 'confusion' doesn't mitigate what you have or are going to do in getting comfy with yourself.

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By *eorgesdad69Man
4 weeks ago

Long Eaton

So happy for you that your girlfriend didn’t throw a hissy fit but just accepted your liking for dressing I wonder if she always suspected you of dressing and it thrills her that you do🤪 Keep us posted if she encourages you to dress when she is there 🤪💋

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
4 weeks ago

longeaton,ng10

I've been dressing for years now, and feel very comfortable with it.

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By *riannaCDTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bham

I'm like that too but I don't meet men and have 0 interest in them. I'm fully straight too and enjoy dressing occasionally. I occasionally flirt online with men as I love the attention, but in real life I actually have 0 interest in men at all. I also ask the same question to myself am I weird.

I dont think we are weird it's just what we enjoy.

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By *ackformore100Man
4 weeks ago

Tin town

"Hi all, I’ve been dressing feminine since I was a teenager, I just can’t stop myself. I absolutely love dressing feminine…. on my own, I’ve never gone out side dressed but indoors when my girlfriend is away I’m full on it. I meet guys on occasion and that just gives me the ultimate thrill.

Thing is outside of my cross dressing habit I’m totally a guy who loves his girlfriend.

I cannot decide if I’m gay, straight or bi. It’s like I have this secret life one side and a normal life the other side.

I’m not in any predicament but trying to figure out myself and who I am, does anyone have similar thoughts like me or am I just weird?

Thanks all for taking the time to read this.

X "

Sounds like exciting to explore and change and grow. Sounds even better if your partner is supportive. I can't imagine it's weird. Everyone is different and as long as it does no harm.

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By *ophie_GTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Gainsborough

If your girlfriend already knows you dress, why not be open and honest with her about what it really means to you?

I've been dressing and been bi for a few years now. I'm happier when I'm Sophie.

My wife knows all about it and fully accepts and supports me.

She describes it as like having a husband and best friend.

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Nowhere

Don't live a lie. It will eat up everything else in your life . If I could go back in time and be honest with myself I'd have lived a different life.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

Maybe like many I am not sure why I started dressing, but unlike many it doesn't make me hard, it's just another part of me I wanted to explore.

Started with sisters and mums clothes which she found and asked me what was going on and to tell her if felt like doing it again. ( I did tell her many years later).

My desire to dress amongst other things caused me issues in uni and I almost ended my life. Few years later went to dressing service in Dublin and still remember how I felt seeing myself dressed and made up for the first time.

When moved to the UK I did another photo shoot in London and then found the kink scene and had many experiences to dress and explore, though mainly not sexual. Any partners I had knew as met them through kink, though it effectively ended one serious relationship as she didn't want a TV partner.

It's been many years since dressed fully and had a wardrobe clear out. Still like to dress at times but no wig or makeup. Only time will tell if the desire will come back fully.

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By *am3032TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Alfreton

I’ve only started dressing more recently, my wife knows about me and both supports and encourages me. She knows I like cock. I have little interest in men, but love a dressed cock. Love both sensually stripping each others feminine clothes and finding each others surprises X

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By *ayleababe OP TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Tividale

Thank you all for your responses I really appreciate it, makes me feel better about the way I feel.

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