Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
 | Back to forum list |
| Back to The Lounge |
| Jump to newest |  |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I might have misunderstood your post, but in my view many men on Fab misunderstand the female gaze. They think women want to see a cock - a preview of what’s on offer. They think women want to see sex with previous partners - again a preview of what they could be getting. Women so often want more teasing shots - when you see threads asking what photos women want, they’ll say hands unbuttoning a shirt, undoing a belt etc. Women are often also interested in how the profile is written as much as what’s said and they want to understand a little bit about the person they might be meeting. This is why a line or two saying I’m open to anything or I’m looking to meet naughty women and couples just doesn’t cut the mustard. L" Thanks. You didn't misunderstand. Yeah I get that men think like men and assume that women do as well. I guess what I'm trying to get to is... What actually stands out to make a woman think... Damn I'll give that guy a message | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I might have misunderstood your post, but in my view many men on Fab misunderstand the female gaze. They think women want to see a cock - a preview of what’s on offer. They think women want to see sex with previous partners - again a preview of what they could be getting. Women so often want more teasing shots - when you see threads asking what photos women want, they’ll say hands unbuttoning a shirt, undoing a belt etc. Women are often also interested in how the profile is written as much as what’s said and they want to understand a little bit about the person they might be meeting. This is why a line or two saying I’m open to anything or I’m looking to meet naughty women and couples just doesn’t cut the mustard. L Thanks. You didn't misunderstand. Yeah I get that men think like men and assume that women do as well. I guess what I'm trying to get to is... What actually stands out to make a woman think... Damn I'll give that guy a message " If a guy offers what they are looking for and has the same preferences. Plus if he looks half decent too. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What men think the female gaze is - is actually the gay male gaze...and than are confused why men messaged them 🤭" To be fair I reckon that guys will message regardless | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Can’t add much to the above post except to say what I prefer. I like a well written bio - no it doesn’t need to be war and peace but it should give me an idea about the person behind the keyboard. Pics I like are more often than not of the well lit arty sort. Photos that show someone has taken a little time and effort into capturing what they want to show. They might be funny, nude, fully clothed, serious or candid - but they all show more than a cock hanging over the top of last nights sweaty boxers. While one or two cock pics is fine, I’ll auto delete if that’s all a profile will offer me. " This! Perfectly put. Mrs TMN x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think I know....the female gaze is...Henry Cavill " Or Jason mamoa it seems | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think I know....the female gaze is...Henry Cavill Or Jason mamoa it seems " Or Tom Hardy. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think I know....the female gaze is...Henry Cavill Or Jason mamoa it seems Or Tom Hardy. " Or Paul Rudd | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think they miss out on actually listening to or observing what the female gaze rests on and continuing doing what they've always done then complaining that it's not working. Yes I know. Not all men. " Ok... What would you say that men miss and would help them out? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think they miss out on actually listening to or observing what the female gaze rests on and continuing doing what they've always done then complaining that it's not working. Yes I know. Not all men. Ok... What would you say that men miss and would help them out? " Listening and observing is what they miss out on. You've kind of proved my point 🤣🤣. I frequently see men ask what women would like to see and take absolutely no notice or give excuses as to why they can't do it. I also see men take more notice of what other men tell them women like rather than the women themselves. Women are individuals something else a lot of guys fail to pick up on, and there isn't actually one 'female gaze' although there will be some things that are fairly common to most. I can tell you what this female gaze is but not Fanny Adams down the road, she's got one eye looking out of the window and the other at the ceiling  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I might have misunderstood your post, but in my view many men on Fab misunderstand the female gaze. They think women want to see a cock - a preview of what’s on offer. They think women want to see sex with previous partners - again a preview of what they could be getting. Women so often want more teasing shots - when you see threads asking what photos women want, they’ll say hands unbuttoning a shirt, undoing a belt etc. Women are often also interested in how the profile is written as much as what’s said and they want to understand a little bit about the person they might be meeting. This is why a line or two saying I’m open to anything or I’m looking to meet naughty women and couples just doesn’t cut the mustard. L Thanks. You didn't misunderstand. Yeah I get that men think like men and assume that women do as well. I guess what I'm trying to get to is... What actually stands out to make a woman think... Damn I'll give that guy a message " I think it’s easier to say what it isn’t than what it is! It will be different for every woman and a lot will show on their own profile what that is. The best advice for men is to read profiles and be yourself. Not the aroused/leading with dick self though, the making an effort, what’s good about me self. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think they miss out on actually listening to or observing what the female gaze rests on and continuing doing what they've always done then complaining that it's not working. Yes I know. Not all men. " Definitely this. Anything other than a dick pic is good. People who have taken more than 5 minutes to write their profile and take some half decent pics. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think they miss out on actually listening to or observing what the female gaze rests on and continuing doing what they've always done then complaining that it's not working. Yes I know. Not all men. Definitely this. Anything other than a dick pic is good. People who have taken more than 5 minutes to write their profile and take some half decent pics. " I'd like to think I've done a decent job at that haha. I'm sure there's work to be done for sure as I'm not a digital advertisement expert | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think I know....the female gaze is...Henry Cavill Or Jason mamoa it seems Or Tom Hardy. Or Paul Rudd" You all misspelled Pedro Pascal 😍 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think I know....the female gaze is...Henry Cavill Or Jason mamoa it seems Or Tom Hardy. Or Paul Rudd You all misspelled Pedro Pascal 😍" Ooo. A bit of diversity | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think I know....the female gaze is...Henry Cavill Or Jason mamoa it seems Or Tom Hardy. Or Paul Rudd You all misspelled Pedro Pascal 😍" You're all wrong it is clearly Mads Mikkelsen, altho I wouldn't kick Pedro Pascal out of bed 🤤 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think men see Men's Health and assume it's for the female gaze. B" I have noticed a lot of gym types and body builder type that think that because they have muscles and a six pack that women should be lining up haha | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think I know....the female gaze is...Henry Cavill Or Jason mamoa it seems Or Tom Hardy. Or Paul Rudd You all misspelled Pedro Pascal 😍" Surely the male and female gaze is Pedro Pascal? 😍 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think I know....the female gaze is...Henry Cavill Or Jason mamoa it seems Or Tom Hardy. Or Paul Rudd You all misspelled Pedro Pascal 😍 Surely the male and female gaze is Pedro Pascal? 😍" I dunno he’s not for me. I really don’t see it 😭 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think men see Men's Health and assume it's for the female gaze. B" Google "Hugh Jackman male female gaze". Look at the cover of Good Housekeeping. Look at the fitness magazines. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you think men miss out on their profiles and bios ect, when it comes to the female gaze? " They miss out on realising they don't understand what the female gaze is. e.g. the female gaze is not a bunch of women staring brain dead at men. The female gaze is concerned with how women represent themselves and other women in the media, to represent themselves as intelligent , autonomous human beings and to challenge the 'male gaze' on life and how men represent women in art, films , t.v. , literature etc. which is usually as skivvies or sex objects and not as people. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What do you think men miss out on their profiles and bios ect, when it comes to the female gaze? They miss out on realising they don't understand what the female gaze is. e.g. the female gaze is not a bunch of women staring brain dead at men. The female gaze is concerned with how women represent themselves and other women in the media, to represent themselves as intelligent , autonomous human beings and to challenge the 'male gaze' on life and how men represent women in art, films , t.v. , literature etc. which is usually as skivvies or sex objects and not as people." Now I've learned something this morning.  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Post new Message to Thread |
| back to top |  |
